I told my boyfriend if he didn't do something I wanted, he couldn't touch me anymore. He told me not to be ridiculous and swatted my ***. It was something pretty silly. What should I do?
What do you think he thinks now?
2007-12-23 15:45:41 · 18 answers · asked by crc00000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He probably thinks you were angling for a spanking. And you got one too, didn't you?
2007-12-23 20:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are ridiculous; he already told you, and that certainly hasn't changed. But why are you trying to be so controlling and manipulative? You should figure out what is really important to you - having control, or having a relationship? People are not like puppets you can make do what you want.
2007-12-23 23:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touching you ... should not be a bargaining tool .. or a threat.
Think about it .. then if you think it was the wrong thing to say .. then tell him so .. and appologize.
He could think many things .. no one but him knows how he took this.
2007-12-23 23:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet if he kept that swatting action up, you'd eventually give in and let him touch you anyway;)
2007-12-24 13:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did do something wrong. Not only did you use your body to control your man. But you asked about it on here.
2007-12-24 00:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious. Find something more important to think about. Something that actually matters!
2007-12-24 00:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Digital-Miss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real b*tch to me.
Do what I want or else. How fair is that? If someone gave me that ultimatum, I dump him.
2007-12-23 23:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by beckoningsubstitutes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ARE ridiculous. Say sorry and tell him to get over it.
2007-12-23 23:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the wrong thing...You were telling him no sex unless you got what you want which isnt nice..
2007-12-24 07:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all sounds pretty immature to me.
2007-12-23 23:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋