I have known my man for almost four years. We have been together for three. We haven't been as close as we use to be. Things change his hours change at his job. I still keep the fire going by sending him erotic pictures(email) of myself which he can't wait to open. Sometimes I think he wants me to have his child. The fact is he is married which I can care less. I have a feeling we will ultimately be together. I just need some pointers from guys on how to speed up the process.
2007-12-23 17:09:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how to take care of a man
2007-12-23 17:24:28 · update #1
I still have him. I always get what I want
2007-12-23 17:39:32 · update #2
why so much anger afraid of women like me you should be start taking care of your men or another woman will
2007-12-23 18:04:03 · update #3
well the wife should be thanking me then maybe she will one day
2007-12-23 18:06:07 · update #4
He's not going to leave his wife. Cut it off and tell him to leave her immediately if you want him to leave. That's the only way to tell, and you'll save yourself a lot of time by finding out sooner rather than later.
2007-12-23 17:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by The Zabler 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Like I said on your other (same) question:
You can speed up the process by issuing an ultimatum for him to choose or by telling his wife about your affair.
It might backfire though, he may end up choosing his wife once he's in danger of loosing her.
And if he does choose to be with you, remember the old adage "A man's burning desire for his mistress often turns cold when the mistress starts acting like a wife."
You put strings on this man and he more than likely will re-discover his loyalty or find a new play partner.
Either way you lose.
P.S. Just curious- if you "always get what you want" than why are you asking for advice on how to get this man?
2007-12-28 20:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you understand something? For a married man to be in love with a mistress it would take for him to divorce his current wife if he "LOVED" you! Obviously he sees something more in his wife than he does of you. Obviously he's a player and a loser for putting his own marriage relationship in jeopardy for a woman out there, and you should be ashamed of sleeping around with a married man while his wife is sitting there waiting on him. That's called "sluttish behavior."! Cut it off and let him go already, don't you see you're just a quickie point for him? If he was that serious he would have left his wife already.
And oh remember this .."What goes around comes around!"
G'luck
2007-12-24 01:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by NY0120 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If he REALLY wanted to be with you, he would divorce his wife. You are just being used to spice up his sex life at home with HIS WIFE. Trust me, if he is still living with his wife, he is having sex with her. You are just getting sloppy seconds.
So do you plan to be the mistress forever? Being the BIG secret? You are one stupid girl. Women like you make me sick to my stomach. You evidently don't make your man happy. He isn't leaving his wife now is he? Wake up.
Are you confused about something? You don't get what you want!
Is he divorced? NO.
Is he still screwing his wife? YES!
Does he want to leave his wife anytime soon? NO!
You are his dirty little secret! Why don't you call up his wife and let her know about you. That would be awesome! See how he treats you then!! You will see just how important you really are in his life! Good luck!
By the way, my husband and I are strong in our relationship unlike you and your imaginary man. I bet your mom and dad are proud of you!
You need to have more respect for yourself! Say he finally leaves his wife and gets with you. Then you find out that he is cheating on you. What then? Are you sure you want a man like that? Seriously.
2007-12-24 01:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by hazelkatana 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are just wasting your time. You are making your self sound or look cheap. You need to go find a nice guy who will get married to you. Someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. Not just for sex. Sex is just sex but to love someone who loves you is true love. This person would never be true to you even if he did leave his wife. he is a cheater and always will be. I know you want more out of life then that . You can not be that bad looking. I bet you are a very nice person who needs to just find the right person.I know this is not what you wanted me to say, but you will see I am right in time.
2007-12-24 01:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you love him keep him. True love is rare no matter what the circumstances are. Don't listen to the miserable married women that are attacking you. They are liars and they lie to themselves. All those women that think "my man would never cheat" are insane and they are all wrong. I am 43, I have traveled all over the world and I don't lie. I did cheat but I don't anymore and I don't lie anymore. I have never met a married man that doesn't cheat not even married men in wheelchairs. If he does leave his miserable marriage for you don't make the same mistake and get married. Marriage destroys even soul mates. Happy Holidays and good luck!!!
2007-12-24 11:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How proud are you of the statement you made, "I don't care, I get what I want. He's married, I can care less."
Go ahead and have that feeling that you'll be together.. if he hasn't left his wife yet then he's not going to.
You're not his "wife", he's using you for the a$$.
Congrats on being a home wrecker..
2007-12-24 01:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look, you need to wake up. He's using you for easy sex and he likes being married to his wife. Otherwise he would've divorced her for you a long time ago. He probably thinks you're pathetic for staying with him this long. Have some self-respect and find a guy who actually wants to be with you.
2007-12-24 02:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Coco 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF you always get what you want, I hope it is "the shaft," for that is exactly what you are getting, deary, the shaft...he is home with his wife or with a new girl friend....not you. It sounds as if you are yesterdays' news to me...time to wise up and put your head on straight..I know this is exactly what you do not want to hear, but you are hearing it anyway. IF this guy will step out on his wife with you, he is stepping out with others, and even if you did get him, what would you have? .. ..A guy who will be stepping out on you.. Is this what you want,? If so, then perhaps you are right..you always get what you want....Merry Christmas, Goldwing
2007-12-24 01:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You where my "perfect target" back when I was running around! You're so full of yourself, you'll believe anything! Let me tell you from a former IDIOT's point of view!(because your man's an IDIOT!) YOU ARE JUST AS FOOLISH AS HE IS AND YOUR LIVING IN SIN! IT WILL NEVER WORK OUT! YOUR LIFE IS SIMPLY IN PAUSE MODE AND YOU CAN'T COME OUT AHEAD IN THIS SITUATION! EVER!!!
Grow up and get a life. Stop borrowing someone else's.
2007-12-24 02:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Billy Bob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the only way is to tell him how u feel and tell him he has to make a choice and tell him to make up his mind u have to get on with your life and if it happens it happens if not u move on and try to find a guy that isn't married it will be a lot better for u life is to short to waste it on a player if that's what he is sure hope u find your true love u need someone who loves u as much as u love them good luck u seem very sweet
2007-12-24 01:45:31 · answer #11 · answered by furface 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋