What can I do about a "*****" who is my mother-in-law???

Question

She sits on her *** all day long and barks out orders!!!
She has her husband thinking he is a freggin moron... he's not alloud driving anymore...according to her.......so my husband and i gets phone call after freggin phone call to run for them....and it's just cause she's too freggin lazy to get up off her *** to do things......I moved from Ohio to be with my husband here in Rhode Island and I can't freggin stand his mother NO MORE......i need help or a shrink.......please holla back with some good advice......please!!!!

Answer 1

Here's my advice:
1. Learn to speak and write correctly. You're in Rhode Island, not the ghetto.
2. Get a decent job.
3. When you marry the man you marry the family, you knew that, now you have to deal with it.
4. If you don't want to do the errands, then don't. Your husband will have to do them all by himself.
5. It's his parents, he has to deal with it and you have to support him.

Answer 2

Why can't he drive is he to old?
When you have to do these errands for them do you make them go with you? If you don't then start cause they are not going to want to go out 10 times a day.
Also make them help pay for the gas even if you don't need them to if they have a car use theirs. My in laws would do this after a few years I got tired of it and started making them do for themselves when i thought they could, like making a phone call to the doctor or changing a light bulb. They would ask me to do something then I would ask them real nice why they couldn't do it. If they said they could but since i was their they said it was easier on them if i did it, I would tell them yea i understand that but i am not a maid service, that they could handle it.
Granted their is going to be times they need help but for the most part they can do.
I know when we had to go to the store for them they would do it like 5 times a day then I started telling them that I would be their at a time to pick them up and take them they decided that they didn't need as much as they thought most of the time.

Answer 3

A. Stop calling anyone such horrible names. That makes you the same as you keep saying she is.

B. She may have some kind of physical issue which is causing her to be as she is. You know.. a brain tumor.. a chemical imbalance? Who knows?

C. Avoid being near her .get an apartment or a house on the other side of town. Do it ASAP.

Answer 4

P-nut, there are not a lot of options for you when it comes to relatives. Unfortunately, family members normally mistreat and take advantage of other family members that are either kind or nice to them. It is very hard to deal with, but the situation will not get any better. Good Luck!

Answer 5

they call and call and have you guys doing all this stuff for them, cause theyre used to this, in the end you always do it, if you stop doing all this kind of things, they would be force to take some action by themselves, maybe they just want to be close to their son and you? Dont be so cruel with the elderly, sometimes they get very lonely and make up excuses to be around their loved ones.

Answer 6

First of all calm down. Everyone hates their in-laws. Because in-laws are bunch of a**holes. The thing is it is your husbands mother, so you can't be rude to her because that compromises her relationship with her son. So you just have to grin and bear it until she dies.

Good Fortune

Answer 7

move back to Ohio or tell your husband to be a man and tell his mother your done if he whats to do it go head but your to busy

Answer 8

Confront her- Be assertive and stand your ground. It might cause drama, but I think it might help in the long run.

Answer 9

move back to Ohio

Answer 10

"What can I do about a "*****" who is my mother-in-law" Remember that SHE raised the man that you CHOSE to marry...