If you are in a committed relationship (living together), do you think its okay for the man to spend time at another woman's house til 4am, saying they are just friends. I think it's inappropriate, but my boyfriend says otherwise
2007-12-23 03:20:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lady D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Rule # 1.....
Everbody Lies
2007-12-23 03:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of answer would you expect from a guy? Hes out to cover his a.s and nothing more. There is only one place that he needs to be at at 4am and nowhere else unless youre with him no matter just how much friens they are. Happy Holidays
2007-12-23 03:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's inappropriate. What would he do if you were at another guy friend's house until 4am?
2007-12-23 03:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely inappropriate ,i would be questioning whether or not there's some thing else going on.and if he thinks it ok maybe he's not in to you as much as you think.being in a committed relationship means you look out for your significant others feelings not just physical well being.
2007-12-23 03:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by benthr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what I will do. I will find me a guy friend whom I can trust and stay at his place until 4am and when he confronts me about it, I will tell him the same darn excuse he told you. I see nothing wrong with it because we are just friends and it is appropriate.Let see what he says then.
2007-12-23 03:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is cheating. My question is ..why do women think a man is being honest when he is obviously having sex with someone else ..and that just because he says he is not..it means he is not !!!????
You and he do not have a committed relationship.
2007-12-23 03:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's only your boyfriend. He is single. He is right. Being single he has the right to see whomever he chooses whenever he chooses. If you want something more you'd better start looking elsewhere.
2007-12-23 15:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is staying there with another girl until 4 am i'd say that they are more than just friends. trust me i've been cheated on by the best.
2007-12-23 03:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by big daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are speaking of your current situation then you are enabling him and should grow a backbone.
If not tell whoever this is to grow a backbone.
2007-12-23 03:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Veritas et Aequitas () 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No effing way.
No no no no no.
Unless its his sister, there's virtually no situation in which I would accept this.
2007-12-23 03:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Puzzle Box 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋