Been married 5 years and invested a total of 9 years. My husband is the type that has never taken care of his part of the bills, ruined our family restaurant, and had me buy (in name and with money I had saved before him) our homes. Prior to our restaurant, he never worked full time. I am the one who had to work and pay all the bills.
I told him how unhappy I was, we went to counseling (he stopped), and I left the relationship. He will not budge from moving out of my home, what can I do?
To make matters worse, I had to move out of state to get the point across to him, and he is still looking for me a job, not himself!
2007-12-22 23:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL! I only wish this was a sitcom, then at least I would be benefiting from it. LMAO!
2007-12-22 23:54:15 · update #1
I'm not sure what your question is, but........
How many ways can you spell Loser. He doesn't want to give up the Free Ride.
Your only option is a court order from a judge that makes him move out. This shouldn't be very difficult and can usually be done without a lawyer in any family court.
Good Luck.
2007-12-22 23:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a lawyer. In some states if you are married the spouse owns 50% of your total values even if his name isn't on the mortgage. You should cut off contact with him. How do you know that he is looking for a job for you? Are there kids involved? He doesn't sound like a motived person which you are. You need to move on and stay away from him.
2007-12-23 01:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer do this now and the lawyer will walk you through what needs to be done, and I wish you the best.
2007-12-23 00:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a nice man
darling you need to pack his belonging and change the lock
I hope you can prove the home was purchase with money that you have earn before marriage that is if it is not on your name only
Talk to a lawyer
Good luck
2007-12-22 23:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer get rid of this clown but then you really should sit down and figure out what made this loser look good to you at all there were plenty of signs what he was before you married him
2007-12-23 06:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by rod g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to hire yourself an attorney. They have ways to get someone out and will not hesitate to send a cop to "speak" to your husband.
2007-12-22 23:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol, you poor thing, this sounds like an amazing
sitcom......maybe you should try to sell it to
a local station. and get rich off of it........the
best revenge is sucess.
2007-12-22 23:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by KITKAT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋