And why would the wife allow this? Is she hoping they will get back together again? The girlfriend does not know he is cheating on her. Should I tell his girlfriend what a pig he is? The wife already knows but doesn't seem to mind. He has 3 kids with the wife and his girlfriend just had his baby. I work with him and he considers me a friend-ugh.
2007-12-22 16:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by scl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The wife wants to pay back the girlfriend with interest for what she did to her & her marriage simple. lol
2007-12-22 16:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a cheater that will always be a cheater. The wife probably is hoping that he will come back. Why? I don't know or understand why she would want him to. Are you his girlfriends friend? If you are I would tell her. If you do this you still have to work with him. The girlfriend already knows that he is a pig.
2007-12-23 00:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend already knows he is a pig because she was with him while he was married. The man does it because he can. The women let him do it. The wife knows he has a girlfriend. She just likes him because he is familar. I wouldn't worry about it and tell him to stop telling you about it because it disgusts you. I wouldn't tell the girlfriend either unless she considers you a friend but I think she already knows and just doesnt want to face it. She's accepted it when she started dating him while he was married.
2007-12-23 00:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by mahogony38 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simple..he doesn't know what he wants or he is just being greedy. The wife wouldn't seem to really care because although she knows about it, she is the one that he comes home to at the end of the day. Now the girlfriend on the other hand shouldn't be blamed because she doesn't know of him and his wife but she should be told.
2007-12-23 00:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tamara S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um the girlfriend should have seen that one coming. I never understand why girls that are the other women really think the man won't cheat on them. The wife, girlfriend, and man deserve each other...Poor kids. That's whats wrong with our youth, these people are their parents.
Tell all then tell him you are not his friend.
2007-12-23 00:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of the forbidden fruit? Some people are addicted to the adrenaline rush of doing something they know they shouldn't be doing. The excitement of the forbidden...bad, bad, bad karma for them. Tell the girlfriend; after all, she started going out with him knowing he was married. If he goes back to the wife and the wife takes him back, then, she deserves him.
2007-12-23 00:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow drama. I would not tell. Sounds like what goes around does come around usually not so instantly. Both gals know what they are dealing with. Even if GF does not know she knows he stepped on wife with her I believe I heard once adulturous relationships that continue after the inital relationship breaks off has a 60% chance of not working out do to repeat infidelity. Don't tell and keep him as a distant friend/coworker.....
2007-12-23 00:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all...the reason he is doing this is because he is a man and he is obiviously involved with some stupid women. The women are allowing this to happen because they are just in love with the idea that a man finds them appealing. The wife is loving this because now she is spiteful, like most women and now feels she has an upper hand.
...and you?! How dare you even think of getting involved in such a mess. You're nuts lady!
2007-12-23 00:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He does this because he enjoys the thrill of an illicit affair. It's exciting for him to go after the forbidden fruit. Don't talk to anyone, let alone either of his two "love" interests, about what he is doing. If you get involved, you will be harassed and blamed for the problems he is causing. In these instances, it is common for the victimized women to "shoot the messenger." Don't be that messenger. This man's deeds will reveal themselves in due time.
2007-12-23 00:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by legendofslipperyhollow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a couple yrs ago an older man VERY RICH left his wife to meet his internet gf at a church to get married. He gave up half of everything he had and his children. At the church him and his gf meet for the first time. Turns out IT was a transvestite lol
2013-12-12 05:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋