Marriage & Divorce - 22 December 2007

This woman is a friend of his that he has known for a while now. He says he would never act on it because he loves me. I asked him not to go around her anymore and he said I couldn't ask him to do that because they are friends. I think I have every right to ask him to stay away from her. Am I right? I told him the more he is around her them more likely the feeling are to grow stronger so I wanted him to stay away. I am already upset enough that he has feelings for her, I don't think I am being over the edge by asking him not to go around her anymore.

2007-12-22 06:27:15 · 21 answers · asked by doc_is 4

the reason i'm asking is b/c someday i'd like to be married, but i'm very, very insecure about my body. I don't think i' could ever be completely naked and confident in front of man. Is it still possible to have a wonderful marriage with out sex?

2007-12-22 06:12:09 · 22 answers · asked by kissn'tell 1

For those of us who like to hang out in the family/relationships category; anyone else done with the Will Arnett/Amy Poehler ad? Do we have to see it every time we go to the Ask page? Yahoo, please change it up a bit.

2007-12-22 06:04:06 · 19 answers · asked by Q-mama 6

I bought a nice clothes as a Christmas gift to my dear wife who was 23 years younger than I. I said we should dinning on Christmas eve. Weather report predicated 22nd Dec. 1997 was Onino cold day. I told her that it was becoming very cold, she should wearing overcoat not that jacket I bought her, but she was too young to take my advice. She left our room for office. And after some 15 minutes I receive her call from hospital. She rode bicycle roughly against the cool wind whithout hat. Her artery of her top head broke. In hospital 43 days, finally she went to Heaven at age 45, leaving me a daughter and a son. Please pray for her that she might ascendent to God the earlier. Thanks

2007-12-22 05:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by freshman 3

My ex wife cheated on me with 3 men at one time. I caught her in the act. I filed for a divorce in Feb. She got pregnant in March. Took me to court for child support I told the judge it was not mine. I was not living with her or near her at the time this happened. I got the divorce final in August. And now I am stuck paying child support for a child that is not mine. I cant afford a DNA test to be done so I am going through DSS for help. What else can I do? My ex wife admitted she had a "current boyfriend" at the time she was doing the testing. I just need to know what my next step is to take here...

2007-12-22 05:44:22 · 23 answers · asked by lil1woman79 1

I felt sooo much more love when we dated. I didn't want for much and I never questioned his love for me it was that obvious but now that we've been married for 2 years I fell like
less of the woman I came in as. I feel soo unattractive like a piece of meat just there to be devoured whenever he likes.
the affection is not the same and I know its not because of how I look yes I have gained a few pounds more that when we dated but so has he and there really is no drastic difference in my appearance.I get the same if not more of a reaction from single and married men so I know im still working it in the looks department. HELP!!!!!

2007-12-22 05:44:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband the most. we r married for 1 year. He seems to have no interest in sex from beginning. Reason is he has been mastrubating differently from beginning. I am getting fed up of him as he is not having sex with me at all. Spoken abt this loads of time with him. We always end up in fight in this issue. Any ideas how to improve my sex life?
P.S: In everything else, he is lovely and I cant think a life without him.

2007-12-22 05:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 05:28:20 · 15 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

referring to me? The bathroom tile looks pretty clean.

2007-12-22 05:21:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a question would it be inappropriate for me to confront my mother in law about the way she talks to my husband and the way she treats him!! She treats him like ****!!! Would it be wrong of me to get involved??

2007-12-22 05:18:26 · 32 answers · asked by Blah 2

On a scale of 1-10 in regards to attractiveness, I guess I would rate myself with an 8. It flatters me that at my age, I still get guys of different ages to look at me, but somehow it makes me feel uncomfortable when I know that guy is married. I just ask myself, why r u looking at me like that when we both know ur married? Especially at work.

2007-12-22 05:02:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has become non-verbal since being diagnosed with Picks disease. I am not sure whether she knows me or not. Her husband retired early to look after her. What would be a nice Christmas present? Not too extravagant.

2007-12-22 04:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Today is my husband's birthday and I didn't have the money to buy him anything and he is upset because he didn't get anything. Now I feel bad. I don't know what to do though. I can't buy him anything. He has to work tonight so we don't have a lot of time to spend with eachother. I want to be able to do something special for his birthday. Does anybody know what I could do for him?

2007-12-22 04:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my stuff is out no name on mortgage and only one bill that in our name? any suggestions and help?

2007-12-22 04:14:05 · 8 answers · asked by angels shadow 1

2008 is nearly upon us, and I like to challenge myself each new year to become a better person. During this next year, I'd like to focus on becoming a better wife. I'd say I'm a damn good wife already, but there is always room for improvement no matter how great you are... so help me figure out what qualities I should cultivate/work on during the upcoming year.

Which of these categories would you say is MOST important in order to be a great wife? (Not to the exclusion of all else, of course, but comparatively speaking...)

1) Physical: her appearance, her clothing/hair/makeup, being physically fit, etc.
2) Emotional: having a pleasant temperament, being considerate of his needs, not nagging/complaining, etc.
3) Social: being a good hostess, keeping the house up in case of visitors, mingling well with his coworkers/friends, etc.
4) Sexual: this one ought to be obvious, but just being available, willing, and enthusiastic about it. :)
5) Other - you suggest?

Rank or vote, your choice!

2007-12-22 04:10:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not regretting the fact that we broke up. couldnt have lived with him cs his behaviour was not tolerable. it was my decision.
then why do i feel so low? i am supposed to feel relieved and stronger. i dont. i feel like shutting everything off and everyone out around me. am i just jealous that his life started off again sooner than mine? three months back i was planning my life with him. and now hes getting hooked to someone else. is there really anything called love? if yes what is it worth? is it something you can put your faith into and bank on or is that just a myth? am i fooling myself if i think its important for me to love someone...cos everything can change and be over in a weeks time..so whats it worth??

2007-12-22 04:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband walks around nude in front of my 8 year old son and 6year old daughter. We argue about this constantly, he tells me he'll stop but then does it again. My daughter says "Daddy" like she's uncomfortable. i think he thinks its funny. What do you people think?

2007-12-22 04:04:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does it feel when you know you are going to be divorced in a week and wish inside heart that it doesn't happen (just for the heck of it.)
Im totally nervous. Is this normal? Does my intuition tell me Im must not divorce? Why do I get crazy thoughts...Please help me

2007-12-22 03:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it was Paul McCartney's second wife, she got like 400 millin dollars or something after only 2 years of marriage! Does anyone know? Do you know of any other high-paid exs?

2007-12-22 03:47:01 · 2 answers · asked by primalclaws1974 6

I'm pregnant and my said about a month ago that he wants to separate. I have been faithful but he says he needs time to figure out where he's going in life. There were signs of this from him but I was in denial. I've made plans to separate but I want so desperately for things to work. He has been to our appointments, bought me maternity clothes etc. and we haven't discussed him moving out in about a week although we both have plans to move the first of the year. So why is he doing all of these things? What should I expect next? If I mention him moving, he tells me that he doesn't want to talk about it and I'm being negative... any suggestions?

2007-12-22 03:20:54 · 21 answers · asked by primaldestiny2 1

Hes not a bad guy just so needy he cant do anything for himself he asks my opinion on everything and has an answer for all I say Hes just a pain but i do love him and he is good to me for the most part
He is going to counseling but doesnt seem to help to much yet

2007-12-22 03:19:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I were arguing two nights ago. And he tackled me and started hitting me in the face. I have quite a few bruises. But nothing serious. But the big thing is that our other two children were there and I am 7 weeks pregnant. He has apologized and swears that it will NEVER happen again. He seemed very sincere. This is the first time this has ever happened since we have been together.I have forgiven him. But I am just wondering if it will happen again. What do you think the chances are if he seemed REALLY sorry? Please don't be rude I just need some advice.

2007-12-22 03:03:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

chewing junk food, slurping beer and staring at TV intensely, barely nodding at your direction. And you need some time to come to your senses and understand that this strange man is your husband of many years?

2007-12-22 02:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was my idea to save ourselves for mariage. But now its been 4 1/2 years & i feel like i am ready to have sex w/him. He says he has no problem with waiting (we r both virgins) but i feel like i want to find out if he will be good in bed BEFORE i make the huge commitment of being married to him. & also the stuff we DO do w/each other has gotten prety routine. He is satisfied but I am not. Has anyone else done this before? How did it work out for you?

2007-12-22 02:35:47 · 33 answers · asked by Angelisurifrie 1

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Prior to us meeting/dating...he had a female best friend who was married, yet cheating on her spouse with my husband...and he (my husband) cared for her very much....well, let's say A LOT. When my husband met me, his friendship with this girl took a backseat and they haven't spoken in over three years.

My husband's good friend called him up yesterday to share some "spectacular" news....this woman got a divorce from her husband and is now dating my husband's good friend. (The three of them were friends years ago).

So, I'm thinking, greeeeat. I trust my husband, but how will I feel when we hang out, should we ever now. My DH's best friend asked if this was "weird" for him and my husband admitted it was....so that just makes me feel uncomfortable.

Should I just take this in and continue to extend the invite to be social? He is my husband, and I trust him...but I can't help feeling somewhat awkward!

2007-12-22 02:29:35 · 31 answers · asked by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6

He had been hinting around this week that he wanted to sleep at a buddy's house last night. I said I wasn't cool I with it. So he went out last night, never came back home and I called him this morning on his cell to say "Are you alive?" and got all defensive and said he simply never slept, he's been shopping for X-Mas after he went to the bar cause the store are open 24-7. He had told me that today he was going to go shop very early in the morning, but I never thought it would mean he wasn't coming home. I should also note he's never "not" come home before but lately he's been going out a lot. How mad should I be?

2007-12-22 02:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by shortey2424 1

Me and my ex girlfriend bought a car together year and a half ago we traded her car for the new one. I pay for it. We have now split up. Who does it belong to? I'm the primary borrower and she is the co-borrower.

2007-12-22 01:50:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for slightly over a year, and he has completly changed since we got married. He used to be really caring, always thinking of me, taking care of me when I am sick, helping me out with stuff around the house, always complimenting me to help me feel good. I have recently gotten sick to where I cant work, so I am staying at home, and I do all the work at home, I occasionally ask him for just a littly help if im having a really bad pain day and he gets nasty yelling at me telling me i just sit at home all day and he works i can do it. So he dont help at all or take care of me, I just got out of the hospital after being in there for 10 days he didnt want to visit me when he was there he was complaining and starting fights the entire time. Then he would complain all week he is tired because he had to spend time with me at the hospital. He really has been rude to me a lot and making me feel like crap, if i say something about it he says im over react

2007-12-22 01:44:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think the divorce rate lends to the fact that marriages should have an expiration date. I don't think most people are honest with the length of committment they are capable of. I think that the few people who are capable of the really long term committments are the only ones who should have kids. It's probably an unpopular opinion, but I think it's right.

2007-12-22 01:43:09 · 20 answers · asked by Lancaid 3

Hi guys and girls

Im jus interested to know what ages everyone got married at, and whether any of you got married at a young age and what was life like.

My cousin is 19 and married her husband who is also 19, and they seem to be happy and gettin on with life.

So whats ur thoughts/opinions...what ages did u get married at?

thanks everyone =]

(No silly answers)

2007-12-22 01:20:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous