the reason i'm asking is b/c someday i'd like to be married, but i'm very, very insecure about my body. I don't think i' could ever be completely naked and confident in front of man. Is it still possible to have a wonderful marriage with out sex?
2007-12-22 06:12:09 · 22 answers · asked by kissn'tell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck with that.
2007-12-22 06:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex its a big part of a marriage and like me i am thick or not all skinny or what ever and i am still embarrassed in front of my husband after 10 yrs of course when he meet me i had a nice figure but i think after 4 wonderful boys my body didn't look the same so my point is even if u don't like your body who ever you married or end up being with will love you for who you are .. my husband always says that i look beautiful and i say no have a stomach and he says that's why i love you because my children came from there.
And if you don't like your body then do something about it. or what are you insecure about?
2007-12-22 14:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by LEO GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is usually a big part of a relationship. If both parties love each other enough it is possible to have a super marriage without sex.
If being comfortable with your own body is the only thing holding you back, then you need to accept your body. There are councilors out there that can help you achieve this.
When you truly fall in love, don't you want to give all of you to your spouse? Get help and accept yourself for who you are and what you look like. I am sure that someone would not ask you to marry them unless they accepted your body...so you need to learn to accept it too.
2007-12-22 14:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so because a man needs a woman physically the way you need him emotionally and I think sex is important for a woman as well.
Don't let you being insecure about your body make you miss out on some really great stuff.
When you meet your prince charming he wont care how you look and sex will be a great emotional connection between you two, and most men don't expect the thin super model look a like in bed they want a real women that they have grown to love. hope this helps and best of luck to you!
2007-12-22 14:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would not be happy in that situation. In fact, I'm not sure you would be happy in that situation either.
Perhaps it would be a good idea to talk about your body perception issues with a counselor so that they could help you see that being judgmental with yourself about how your body is really isn't healthy. Also, you might want to visit the National Organization for Women website (www.now.org). They have materials you can download that might help you as well.
Whatever your body looks like (to you or to others), you deserve a happy and fulfilling life - both sexually and every other way. Don't sell yourself short. Good luck!
2007-12-22 14:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there are many couples that have no interest in sex and have very happy marriages. But you want to make sure both partners agree on this issue or it will be a train wreck of a marriage.
2007-12-22 14:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you find the right guy and the two of you are IN LOVE...you nor he will be concerned about your body. You don't love someone for the outside....you love them from the inside out. As far as sex goes though...I don't think it's a good marriage if you don't express your love by making love.
2007-12-22 14:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by nickyname 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is a healthy and natural part of love, and you wont be married in the first place if you aren't willing to have sex. Join a gym or something and get your confidence up, trust me, it'll make your life so much better and happier.
2007-12-22 14:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by blah b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion.....
No, if your going to marry someone, then you need to be comfortable enough with that person that you can do anything in front of them, sex may not be the most important factor in a marriage, but it is essential for a healthy marriage.
2007-12-22 14:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by ARTY 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Married is mean sharing everything,being each other part.Nobody perfect .But sex is part of married and having child.Its impossible without sex but if your partner have sex problem then yes.
2007-12-22 14:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Bears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big part of marriage is trust.
If you don't trust a guy enough to believe that
he'll accept your body, don't marry him.
2007-12-22 15:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋