Marriage & Divorce - 22 December 2007

I've been really close friends with this guy for about a year and I feel like we're in love. He won't date me though, because I'm only 19 and he's 43. He told me he wants to wait until I'm 21 before getting anymore serious with me. We've kissed but we haven't had sex, and it's been awhile since he's kissed me. Does he really care about me or is he trying to put me down lightly?

2007-12-22 11:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you name your baby if it had 4 heads ?
I personally believe it would be a pain in the neck, what do you think ?

Would it cause you to get a divorce or to cheat on your spouse?

2007-12-22 11:32:20 · 15 answers · asked by Dr. Knowe Nuthing 4

Been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I always thought we loved each other until now. I feel that there is a lot of selfishness in the relationship. We're both in college, and this past semester wasn't good. We fought everyday about the smallest things. We stopped enjoying each others' time and a lot of immaturity happened. When I try and discuss things with him he blames everything on me. He's a great person, but I want so badly for him to love me, and he says he feels smothered and that I'm trying too hard. He tells me he wants to marry me too, but sometimes I don't know if we're strong enough for marriage. I want someone who will encourage me and be sensitive to my needs; not tell me how my insecurities are stupid. I just don't know if that exists. He's a great boyfriend; he'd never cheat on me, and we do love each other. When i try and talk things out he'll hang up the phone on me and says it's a waste of time. Yet I do love him and he loves me. What do I do?

2007-12-22 11:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Consultant 1

A year ago I was confronted with my wife's infidility, I gave my marriage a change. Though there is very little intinacy between us and she will never say I love you, has a seperate bank acount which is ok but I can't use her laundry powder etc. Last week she gone to visit her mother overseas for two months away. The day before when she was packing her bags and later in the days we were driving to do some shopping when she came out of the blue well I will be countings your condoms when I come back. I was so surprised and wonder what she was on about so I just looked at her and said nothing, then she said well you probably know I have two Nova rings (birthcontrol) which I have given away to my friend. I just said what ever and said nothing else as she was quite angry about something. A week later at work I am now thinking her friend does not even have a close relationship with anyone. She will be away for two months while our marriage seemed distant and she does that for giving me trust

2007-12-22 11:28:08 · 13 answers · asked by maleinaus 1

2007-12-22 11:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Theresa J 1

My ex girlfriend( I am a guy) Thinks she is a gay all of a sudden, and is living with her new Dike lover. The two of them sleep in the same bed in a 4,000 sq ft home, and carry on a full lesbain affiar in front of my ex's 7 year old daughter. People, do you think this is healthy in front of the little girl?

2007-12-22 11:04:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My finace has two sons 10 and 12. I have two sons 8 and 11. The boys get along well and are in the same school district. Here is the problem. His 12 year old hangs around with a bad influence. Fiance knows but has not yet forbidden his son from hanging around with this kid. We have had discussions about this before. The school is even spliltting the two up and putting them in seperate classes at the beginning of Jan. I found out last night that bad influence was looking at porn on 12 year old's mother's computer. So, that means 12 year old was too.
Here is my problem.... I have tried to raise my two sons in a christian, religious home. Pornography is not acceptable in my mind, especially for minors. I do not want my children to be exposed to such things.
Fiance has had a "talk" with his son, but as I said has not yet forbidden him from hanging with bad influence. Finace usually listens to my opinions and has made changes in the past. He was not the one to tell me about this. Advice??

2007-12-22 10:58:24 · 10 answers · asked by Dani Bosco 5

I want to compare answers to what I did in reality.

2007-12-22 10:57:19 · 20 answers · asked by JJPITTIE 2

In todays modern world, is it possible to marry only once and live happily ever after till the end?
Its always divorce nowadays - which means lawyers are becoming very rich.

2007-12-22 10:34:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife an i have been married for 2 years, we have a beautiful baby girl, after my daughter was born her sex drive went away, i know all the reasons why, and all the medical mumbo jumbo. i just want to know if there is anything we can do to get it back up. i love my wife alot and i love being with her. we use to make love at least 3 time a week. now im lucky if i get it once a month. plus she is GREATLY against masturbation. so if there is anything she can do or take, or anything i can do please help!

2007-12-22 10:32:00 · 15 answers · asked by David B 1

i am getting a divorce but he does not want to i have made it clear to him that i dont want to be with him any more but he is alone for christmas he has no family and hardly any friends i am scared if i get him a present it might lead him on but i feel bad for him

2007-12-22 10:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by chancireese 2

dollars a month, and plus have to pay utilites. I live in a big studio apartment that inculdes electric & water for 575 month. I was just wondering how someone can feel good about where they live by paying rent over $1000 dollars? (I know that this is not the category to ask this type of question, but I will get the most responces here.)

2007-12-22 09:33:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I'm completely interested in, and he approaced me first. We've known each other for about a month and he just told me he's falling in love with me. Mind you this guy has had marriage on the brain before we even met, so I don't know if I can take him seriously. I don't know if he's caught up in this idea of it all or what. He keeps telling me that he means it genuinely and he's only now trying to fight back his feelings because I don't love him back. I could fall for this guy, but I still feel like I wanna get to know him. He has a different culture and I'm in the tradition where you date a person for a while before anything is set in stone. He's long-distance too. Can his love truly be real if we've only known each other for a month? I've asked him, but I'm not entirely convinced.

2007-12-22 08:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Story Unknown 5

I have so much envy for happy married couples. I guess some guys are just plain super lucky to have a nice woman by their sides.

2007-12-22 08:55:23 · 18 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

Im 17 and my boyfriend is 20. Im a senior, graduating in May. We have been dating for 3 years and 7 months. Its never been any suprise that we wanted to get married one day.. But when he perposed to me today i was kind of in shock.. Of course I said yes because I absolutly know I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But setting the date for the wedding has been the problem. I plan on going to college and majoring in radiology, but it could be many years if we put off the wedding until after i graduate.. how hard is it to be married in college?

2007-12-22 08:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2

One of my friends in dating this older women. I think she is around fifty or so. She has alot of cash. He said he is making her feel special and playing with her head. He said she is talking about marriage. He told me that if they get married he can cheat on the side with the young women and still come home to the mansion. Do you think he should marry her for her money? I don't know if I could sleep with an old chick time and time again for some cash. I can make my own.

2007-12-22 08:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i find it odd when my exes want me back into their life when i don't want them anymore. why do they do that? ever happen to you?

2007-12-22 07:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah, i live on a petty income and im trying to stay out of debt as much as possible.

Even without the money problems, i still have issues and im still going crazy and i need help fast.

Where do i go?

2007-12-22 07:40:19 · 10 answers · asked by geetar 4

MY WIFE AND I ARE SEPARATED. WHEN SHE LEFT SHE ALSO LEFT ME WITH OUR FOUR KIDS. THINGS GOT ROUGH SO I WENT AND APPLIED FOR STATE AID. JUST TODAY I GOT A LETTER FROM THE HEALTH AND WELFARE SAYING MY AID BEEN REDUCED BECAUSE MY WIFE APPLIED FOR AID SHE CLAIMED MYTWO YOUNGEST AND THEY HAVE BEEN LIVING WITH HER. NO THEY HAYE NOT SHE ALSO MOVED AND WONT TELL ME WHERE. IS THERE ANYTHING ICAN DO. SHE LIED AND SHOULD NOY BE ABLE TO GET AWAY WITH IT.

2007-12-22 07:33:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he cold to me and mean

2007-12-22 07:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Angel L 3

probably ur at a party and ur partner bumps into that ex that is always in their memory, and BOOM they're at it in the toilet an ****!!

2007-12-22 07:13:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why or Why Not?

2007-12-22 07:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by Awesomely Me! 1

We're in our late 40's and live together 1 1/2 yrs. Unbelievably, 2 months after I moved in, he stopped sex completely. He was having health problems, which were true. I said there are many ways to be close, but he didn't try or care how I was feeling. He just said he felt guilty. He rarely talks to me, respects my feelings, have fun, and refuses to seek help of any kind. He just says he hates himself. If I just sit on the couch with him and cook and take care of house, and don't 'hassle' him (which means talking about our 'stuff), (I am very easy to talk to and am very adept at communication), he will sit in silence with no response! Even when I say I will leave! He says it stresses him out too much to think about it. I feel like I am living with a ghost. After being rejected, I feel ugly and no one will want me. I was always confident/passionate with men and know I am a great partner, but now I feel horrible and wonder why I have put myself through so much pain and turmoil. Help!

2007-12-22 07:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend parent not agry to marry with me..coz am 25 and she is 27,,but we cant stay without eachothers..what to do plz tell me.

2007-12-22 07:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by don 1

stable? Like to find their own place and get a job.

2007-12-22 06:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it is, just because a couple are not living happily as man and wife, they are still classed as married in the eyes of the law

If a couple meet and they are separated from their husbands/wifes, it is still adultery right?

2007-12-22 06:50:17 · 28 answers · asked by Rebz 5

my collegue had an unfortunate event with an over reacting house wife,what happend was that he was decorating her kitchen,he covered the units and floor and proceeded with the works ,she came in and asked have you seen my digital camera ,he said no ,it was on the kitchen table she said ,he said i have not seen it,she goes out of the room and calls the police ,they came and search my collegue and his van and found nothing ,they took him to the police station ,stripped him and stuck him in the cell for 5 hours ,the house wife suddenly found the camera ,in a drawer, the useless over reacting cow,my collegue has been cleared of any wrong doing ,i just hope the husband gives his wife one almighty kick up the a@r*e

2007-12-22 06:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by doc rock 2

I'm confused and would love feedback. About a year ago I moved back to my home town, and it being so small, I often run into an ex. He has a long term gf, I'm single. Over this year, he has gradually become more flirtatous with me, at first I thought he was just being friendly. But in the last 4 months his flirting has become quite strong. Only 3 weeks ago he was whistling at me, telling me how good I looked and would chat me up as soon as he saw me. Then 2 weeks ago he broke up with his gf because she was cheating. Since the breakup, I have seen him 3 times while out and about, and he politely says hello but he no longer stops and talks. He hasn't got back with his gf either.

What's going on? He flirts and wolf whistles at me whilst in a relationship (and I fully believe he would of slept with me if I had of let him), but now he's single he seems totally uninterested??? And they say women are hard to work out LOL

2007-12-22 06:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was a little drunk and dared to comment that my tea was a little dry after I came back from the ritzy, as a consequence my wife gave me this foul drink! as a joke! now I cannot stop my craving for corn! what should I do and what can I trick my wife into drinking?

2007-12-22 06:36:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was quite young I got a cancerous growth inside my vagina. The scarring from three operations and radiotherapy have left me with no feeling inside.

I did not realise this until I married (I married while still virgin) and the only sensation I get from sex is from his balls pushing against my outsides.

We have experimented with oral, and I get a lot of pleasure from being tongued and sucked, but we do very little now by way of 'ordinary sex'. He says that I am his wife, and he wants us to make love together. If I don't get off on "normal" penetration sex, then there is little point in us doing it.when I not at a fertile stage in my cycle. I am not just a "shagging hole".

Is he depriving himself of what men usually get from sex to make me feel better about it?

2007-12-22 06:27:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous