i am getting a divorce but he does not want to i have made it clear to him that i dont want to be with him any more but he is alone for christmas he has no family and hardly any friends i am scared if i get him a present it might lead him on but i feel bad for him
2007-12-22 10:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by chancireese 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, don't get him a present. You know that in his present state of mind he is going to mis-interpret it as a sign that you want back in. That's not fair on him, or yourself. Let it go this year. Maybe next, when he has accepted the break is permanent, then get a small one.
2007-12-22 10:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long were you together?
Do you consider him a friend? Do you plan on staying friends with him; maybe attach a card that says to my Good Friend and a note that says I couldn't forget you this Christmas even though we aren't together as Man and wife I still consider you a friend. (Spell it out in the card)
I think because you are considering his feelings, you should. Presents come from the heart.
Listen to your heart.
2007-12-22 10:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is a List of Apartment buildings
with their phone number. Anything that conveys that
he is expected to go. "A cook book" - I hope you get
the picture.
2007-12-22 10:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all make it very clear that there is no chance of getting back together and then if he is okay with that get him a present, it is better to stay friends than be horrible ex's...
2007-12-22 10:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by jim's girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure..but what do you get someone who's heart you
just crushed? Maybe a nice arsenic chaser!
2007-12-22 10:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lou L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience, don't do it. It sucked when me and my ex talked about it, but it does help with getting things moved on.
2007-12-22 10:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Scott M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't get him anything you'll just get his hopes up
.....What do you want for Christmas?
2007-12-22 10:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by bigmac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
know if you do thin you will only make him have hope thatc you will come back
2007-12-22 10:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by ndykdd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋