he cold to me and mean
2007-12-22 07:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it hurts I'm not ugly and fat, I'm sexy and fun
2007-12-22 07:30:47 · update #1
That's a shame. You are lovely.
2007-12-22 07:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a new thing or something that has been going on for a while? If it's new, could there be a medication he is taking? Or could he possibly be depressed? I don't want to judge but it could be, I'm sorry to say he may be interested in someone else.....look for clues like new clothes, cologne, new underwear, unexplained time away, cell phone bills, etc. Is it that he won't show he loves you how you want to be loved, you know, like romantic lovemaking and not just the sex? Have you been able to have a discussion about this in a rational manner? Maybe then, you could suggest counseling and see what his view is on that. Good luck....you deserve to be loved and if he isn't the one that wants to love you, there is someone out there who does.
2007-12-22 15:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by justlilme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel, maybe he doesn't like it that you use poor grammer. Other than that, have you tried talking to him about how you feel? I'm not sure what you mean about mean to you. If he's abusive, you have a real big problem.Maybe he doesn't know that you'd like some flowers every once in awhile. Or hit the dance floor. Communication does work wonders.
2007-12-22 15:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Scott M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So if you were fat or ugly it would be OK for him to treat you like crap?
People will only treat you as bad as you let them.
Grow a back bone!
2007-12-22 15:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Join the club honey...Im sexy as hell to ...chuck it up ...He's a man their eyes never remain fixed on you it will always wonder acceptance of this fact will bring you closer to happiness.
2007-12-22 17:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by GUMCHEWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him show you he love you, stop being mean and cold take you out more often buy you nice gifts(doesn't ave to be expensive) compliment you, damn girl... let him do what u want
2007-12-22 15:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry him? It was enough of a reason then, is it still? If not then it's time to say bye bye cause he won't change. He may love you like crazy but he still won't change....Good Luck!!
2007-12-22 15:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel L, Congradulations ! Sounds like he should get to church and renew his vows !
2007-12-22 16:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋