Marriage & Divorce - 22 December 2007

we were so happy that night and then next night he told me that he never loves me. i thought it's a joke but it's real.

2007-12-22 14:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by donea 2

when you first met your wife, did you know you wanted to be with her forever? how soon did you bring up marriage? did you ever have doubts or or commitment phobia?
my boyfriend and i are getting pretty serious but he hasn't brought up marriage at all. he's the type of person who likes to live completely in the present and never want to worry about the future. he's an absolutely wonderful guy, the most caring, understanding, sweet, generous person and i think i'd like to be with him for a very long time. its hard to say FOREVER, but i can definitely see myself with him long enough for marriage to brought up. when we were talking about going over to his family's house for christmas i asked if i should get a gift for his parents because i knew they were getting me a gift and he said "no, that feels too weird, like we're married or something" i'm just wondering if other guys go through phases were they don't consider marriage at all. we're both in our 20's by the way.

2007-12-22 14:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i be sorry?

2007-12-22 14:32:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told Stacii her soon to be husband was cheating with our "friend" Erika... Now Stacii is mad at me. Even though Erika announced it was true and now she's having his baby..What a mess.... I told them all to leave me alone and stay away from me..I could not take being in the middle any longer. Do you agree with me..? What would you have done?

2007-12-22 14:30:37 · 54 answers · asked by It wasn't me... 2

2007-12-22 14:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

His wife just kicked him out of their house, and he is heartbroken. He is really in love with her, and they have been together for 6 years (married 18 mo). Nothing major happened, basically she is saying that she doesn't love him anymore. Well, I think the exact words were "I can't stand to be with you anymore." What a B! It's three days before Christmas!! So anyways, please give advice of what I should say to him and how I can support him through this rough time. :(

Thanks!

2007-12-22 14:07:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

do i need help or just go with the fetish thing

2007-12-22 14:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by balloonbusternz 1

Hello everyone.
Finally my immature 50year old husband left today for the second time to Europe, this time he sai for good. He left the divorce procedure up to me. We were married for two years and it was a second marriage for both of us. He is a nice man, but has drinking habbits, a big ego, and is very stubborn and won't change his ways. I on my end, never saw myself as a doormat, so I won't put up with him. All our talks to save this marriage didn't help.
At the end we both cried, kissed and he asked not to give up yet. I think he is trying to teach me a lesson, by leaving me during the Christmas time. Well I am too old for that.I love him, but I don't want to waste my remaining years arguing and fighting, life is too short. The way his behivior is "Never say Never, meaning we might have another chance. I am wondering should I keep in touch with him, or be strong and move on with my life? I am hurt, devastated, please any feedback will be very helpfull

2007-12-22 14:01:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you do that? If I do it in reponse to her request, then she will dismiss it because she told me to show her that I love her; i.e., it wasn't on my own initiative. What does she mean? What obvious or subtle way is she talking about? Women, what "code" is going on here?

2007-12-22 13:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by frippilla 2

2007-12-22 13:48:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

So...what is it really? Always lack of sex? Being beat down mentally? Details please...

2007-12-22 13:48:13 · 9 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5

If a man and woman marry but she has a child already (who she is the primary caregiver for) and wants to change the childs last name to her new husbands does the childs real father have to agree? Or does she just switch it over? And if her new husband wants to adopt the step child as his own is that only possible if the real dad relinquishes his rights as the dad?

2007-12-22 13:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by charli_red1218 3

I was playing football with girls and guys, it was the battle of the sexes. we were killing the girls, cuz we were bigger and stronger and to tackle them we would just squeeze their boobs and they would go down right. then they started cheating and squeezes our balls to tackle us. why do women always cheat in sports?

2007-12-22 13:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 12:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 12:54:48 · 17 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5

My wife is currently choking on a peanut. I have told her time and time again to eat them one at a time. Does she listen? Of course not - she'll just carry on shovelling them in at a rate of knots without a care in the world. Then again, I don't expect her to take much notice of my advise. She didn't listen when I told her not to dye her hair or invest in a Canary Islands time share. Even though both decisions turned out badly (time share options are never as favourable as the advertising would suggest and there is no sound regulatory body set in place to govern them), she failed to acknowledge my correct viewpoint on both counts. Anyway, that's by the by, what's the best method to stop choking?

2007-12-22 12:48:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been a good girl all my life it's time to make some mistakes to learn from
and yes i am well aware it's wrong but hey iam bored and need little excitement nothing serious

2007-12-22 12:35:21 · 30 answers · asked by Sam 2

She has been mentally unstable her whole life according to her family and friends. It's becoming intolerable.

2007-12-22 12:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

If it's not ''Will you marry me?''

2007-12-22 12:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by กระจกใส 7

After the diviorce, I was paying child support. however, I moved and wasn't working for 4 mos. I sent what I could and still gave my kids anything they wanted. Now that I'm working again i'm paying back child support(which I don't mind at all) but all the letters from the TX attorney general makes me out to be a deadbeat dad and I'm not. I can't even pay my bills and barely afford to live with in my means and now they tell me their going to take my tax return, too? What rights do men have? Is the law gender biast? All I get from the TX att. gen. office is " That's the law...". Can someone give me advice about a fathers rights...

2007-12-22 12:23:10 · 11 answers · asked by nellish72 1

To make a long story short: I'm recently married to my wonderful husband. We love eachother deeply. Our relationship is great. He lives with me and whats left of my family, invited by my mom herself. She loves him too, as well as my sisters. The only ppl who have a problem with us being married are my brothers and my dad. Now, my dad left us cold 5 years ago when he and my mom had an ugly split. No phone calls. No money. No "how are you's". Nothing. My mom had to work 3 jobs to support us and now we're back on our feet SOLELY thanks to her. Us kids are all grown now (the youngest is my 18yr old sister). We have our own apartment again(we had to live with my grandma for 3 years) and my dad has been coming around trying to measle his way back into our lives. My mom doesn't want him back but doesn't have the heart to tell him he can't visit. Here's the deal: he interferes with everything. I already had a hard enough time with my jack *** brother giving me hell and my husband hell...

2007-12-22 12:21:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does is bother you if your husband goes to strip/lap dancing clubs?
opinions please on the above. I hate it when my husband does this and i feel really inadequate. how do you cope with it?
7 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-12-22 12:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by cottontail 5

Wellp my future wife is a Feminist (which I dont mind at all) and she has let me know that she wants to keep her last name. So then a compromise is in order for me. I want both of us to have the same last name, So I'm changing mine to hers. Is the process for changing my last name different for a woman getting married in the State of California?

2007-12-22 12:21:23 · 13 answers · asked by Shane W 2

every time we fight me and my husband over his family and tell him to leave , he tells me he is going to his mothers house , he sleeps there overnight or he goes to a motel, then he comes back the next day crying to take him back , it is the fourth time now , I am realy exausted and I have to kids to take of , what should I do please . give me advice.

2007-12-22 12:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

Sorry this is a little off topic but who else is tired of the gap commercial on yahoo answers? The one where the man and woman talk about what they are going to do for Christmas. So annoying everytime you load answers.

2007-12-22 12:12:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am pregnant and married me and my husband are not getting along i am going to leave him and want to know when i can file for custody and support baby will be here in 3 mo.

2007-12-22 12:10:03 · 10 answers · asked by TIFFFANY B 2

I think I just got the best christmas present ever. My husband and I just came to an agreement. We're going to separate! OMG Im so happy. I think its best for us both. We're going to help out each other until we could move onto better things.

Happily Divorce.. soon to come... omg. It was total misery...
I could cry for joy. I did the sad crying already because i seen it coming but omg... I could do a dance now...

Now it would be a happy christmas for me

2007-12-22 12:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Sassy 2

My friend’s family is from a culture that requires children to support parents during old age(late 70s and late 60). A decision was made by my friend’s husband to bring his parents and provide support. My friend not included in decision. Actual reasons for support, one of the parents 78 year old is inflexible and cannot get along with relatives back in his country. Likelihood of health emergencies could result in parents being ignored by relatives. I recently visited these parents and they look very healthy and normal. Is it fair to support aged couple while not enough to put away for own children’s education? Is this a valid reason to accept financial responsibility just because of in flexibility of a parent to deal with relatives? Marriage might break will my friend resisted. She is employed and works very hard.

2007-12-22 12:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by picfrlife 1

He's been looking at a number of gay porn sites which he brushed off as pop-ups but were actually in his history-where you can see the other 'pages' browsed in the same website. He's also always asking whether I like to do anal sex whenever we have sex. He's also told me of an incident at his work where he was in the men's restroom w/ another gay guy with the lights dimmed and was "caught"/questioned (as far as what he was doing with the restroom lights deliberately dimmed with a gay guy) and 'teased' by another man. He passed this as something funny and got pissed when I asked him why in the world someone would deliberately dim the lights in the restroom of a company. He easily gets pissed when I -even simply- tease him about being gay. He likes to act out Bette Midler's way of walking down the stairs. And sounds as if he's so against gay men. We're just married for nearly two years now and I just want to get this over my head as early as possible. He's been divorced twice.dissolution

2007-12-22 11:59:18 · 14 answers · asked by lavender 1

hello. old pal kneebreaker. glad you dont know all the facts about your gal ask her what she and i did bet she wont tell like that trailer park trash did you think so i dont oh. tounged tyed now well she.s not that good of a lay either she.s like a race track. everyone got there turn . lol. oh no wonder your and causing a divorce is nothing to me like that cheap trailer park trash you know her dont you spending christmas with a blow up doll . she.s sloppy . like that trailer park trash lol. kneebreaker. or. shorty as she called you

2007-12-22 11:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by matthew v 3