2007-12-22 13:48:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means you are human but if you want your marriage to work, focus on the hubby! Saying "I do" does not make you blind or immune to the charms to others. It means you can't and won't dwell on those feelings (at least not for too long) because as (smelly, boring, distasteful, outright boorish) as your honey may has become, you made a commitment to him. Unless he's abusive or cheating on you, try to put the sizzle back into your own relationship. If you hook up with another guy, trust me, in time he will become smelly, boorish, and boring too! The grass is always greener on the other side....and despite all the "comments" you will receive, we've all been there! Hang in there, honey, and go kiss your husband.
2007-12-22 15:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Apple Tart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to be attracted to someone else, even if you're married, you're still human. Thing is, you don't act on it, in any way, shape or form. Put any crazy notions out of your head and focus on all of the good you have with your spouse. Fancying someone else is not a problem, unless you make it one. Don't do anything that you'll regret.
2007-12-22 13:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like it that you mentioned you're married first, it shows that you're probably not going to rush off and do something really stupid.
So what if you fancy someone else? Use the idea of your fancy (in a fantasy) to spice up things with your partner, he/she doesn't need to know that you're thinking about someone else in the heat of the moment.
It doesn't mean you don't still love your partner, who knows, maybe it'll shake things up enough to rekindle the flame at home...
2007-12-22 14:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by grrrl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IT Means that you are bord with your spouse. I would recommend that you talk to your spouse and tell him you need more communication and want to do more fun things with each other. This fancing someone else, you had better be ready for the consiquences. This could kill your marriage. I would think twice. the grass is not greener on the other side. you are in lust at this time, but it won't last forever. hope you make the right decision. good luck
2007-12-22 13:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by ANNE G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you soooo fancy someone else than you've given yourself the opportunity to form a bond with someone else. Therefore you have already committed emotional cheating so you have a problem.
2007-12-22 14:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by plastic 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
It's normal. AS LONG as you don't act on it, the feeling will pass and you'll have no regrets. If you take it farther you will regret it and if you're married you probably said "Forsaking all others" so I hope you behave yourself!
2007-12-22 13:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Amama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are either in mid life or you are tired in the marrige,i surgest you slow down and take a good look at what you have before it is to late,you may regret what you are thinking of doing,clear your head of every thing then look at what you risk.
2007-12-22 21:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're having an emotional affair.
2007-12-22 14:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are always going to find the opposite sex attractive...This is normal..As long as you don't act on it then you are fine..
Also it could be a sign that you are not happy in your marriage...
2007-12-22 14:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you have a need that is lacking in your marriage. Find out what it is, discuss it with your wife, and spend more quality time filling it with her.
2007-12-22 13:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by been good 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋