Iam thinking of dating a married man? iam not looking for a future just some excitement?

Question

i have been a good girl all my life it's time to make some mistakes to learn from
and yes i am well aware it's wrong but hey iam bored and need little excitement nothing serious

Answer 1

If you want excitement, date one whose wife has a hand gun and knows how to use it.

Answer 2

In theory it starts off that way for most women, a bit of excitement, but most women want loyalty and if not initially - eventually love. U can have just as much excitement in a relationship -even short-lived--with someone who is single and available. You will resent always being second;you will resent the words, the excuses u know r lies & u will hate being alone when ur lover is obviously with the other person.
It's torture to want someone (even physically) who you know you can't really have...and it's even more hellish to have a small taste of what you desire and watch that person go away into a life you can never be a part of.... Waiting for a few stolen moments will break your heart.
Ultimately this has 2 be about more than the moment. It has 2 be about "YOU" and your own self worth. You set the standard and u either raise or lower the bar 4 how you'll be treated, & respected.
Excitement: find a good hobby, go sky diving, hang out with ur friends, learn 2 race car drive, travel, challenge yourself 2 something that won't leave u hurt & on the bathroom floor sobbing. Learn from other people's "mistakes!"
Read: Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques for Assessing, Improving, and Maintaining Your Self-Esteem, Consider "Insight" meditation & pick up You Can Do It by Lauren Catuzzi Grandcolas. Enrich your overall life and you won't be so bored; You'll find someone who can appreciate & respect you and the excitement you find will likely be an adventure filled with joy, instead of unhealthy drama & hurt. Take a moment to think about how you'll feel with each possible outcome and really put yourself, your emotions into living that moment (as if it were happening right now) of possible rejection, lies, excitement, falling in love or lust and knowing the potential outcome. Write out your thoughts in a journal before you make any decisions and think about what you want for yourself beyond "the moment."
You deserve more, but only you can really know what that means for you on a personal level and it's easier to figure that part out when you're not stuck in the middle of and emotional tidal wave. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

Watch the news, there are people getting there asses killed over less than that theses days, you want excitement go find something else to do with your life, what gives you the right to interfere with the life and family of another just for fun, I suggest you seek some really good counseling, because you have some issues you need to work on, or maybe someone has screwed with your life in the same fashion, and you think your going to feel so much better by hurting someone else, well guess again honey! Just think of how the guys wife, and maybe his kids are going to feel when they find out what daddy has been up to, and then your going to dump his *** too, just because you don't want anything serious ! That's really sick, how can you even look in the mirror, how can you live with the thought of what you are about to do to another ! GET SOME HELP , and grow up !

Answer 4

If it was just YOUR mistake, then whatever. But this little mistake will affect more people. You will tear families apart. You may hurt children. You say it's nothing serious? Maybe not to you, but to everyone else involved, it could be considered deadly serious.

You want some excitement? Join the Army. Go cliff-diving. Take up bungee jumping.

If you have been a "good girl" all your life, this wouldn't even be an option. I think you are just looking for an excuse to be with this married man.

Answer 5

Do not do this your not only screwing up your own life but someone elses there family, children, and their wives.

Really why do other woman want to destroy other womans marriages it makes no sense.

Find your own guy and stop being a *****. Really if you want some excitement get a life. A married man is not excitement it is just another ladies guy.

Answer 6

If you you want to be a bad girl go become a stripper in Vegas or something like that. Do not mess up a family. You are only hearing what the guy is telling you. But in reality it may not be that way. Besides you might develop feelings for this person and then what. YOU ARE SCREWED. Don't do anything that you don't want someone to do to you.

Right now you may not care but in a few years from now it maybe different.

DONT DO IT!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Would you want some skanky *** hoe looking for "some excitement" to date your husband when you have one? PROBABLY NOT. . . THINK before you act. . . did no one learn this in grade school? Seriously. . . you want excitement. . date an adventuresome SINGLE guy and find out what kind of risks you can take together. . ie. . skydiving, rock climbing. . Natural highs are a big turn on. . Having a jealous wife kick your ***. . .not nearly as fun.

Answer 8

And that's the only kind of excitement you can think of? Possibly destroying someone else's family and home? Whatever happend to going to movies, and hanging out with friends? If you're serious, You need help, that should be the only excitement you receieve.

Answer 9

Oh gee whizz troll..... can't you get your jollies with an unattached man who just wants some excitement too? Why drag some married man into your life? Do you get a thrill at the thought of having sex with some woman's husband behind her back? That's really, really weird.

Answer 10

Dating a married man is wrong,with that said sit down and ask your self would you want somebody to do you like that,would you want to sit at home and wonder what your husband is doing or who,would you like to do with out becasue that jackass is taking money he should have for his family and spending it on his girlfriend, and anyway once the thought of new coochie wears off he gonna move on to the next one

Answer 11

do you only think of yourself...if the wife of this man finds out, you could cause them to divorce, and what if they have children, you put thier lives in trouble too. You are going to ruin a good thing. Stop yourself from breaking up a family. Have a heart and leave him alone. If you don't you are being a selfish and uncarring w hore.