I'm confused and would love feedback. About a year ago I moved back to my home town, and it being so small, I often run into an ex. He has a long term gf, I'm single. Over this year, he has gradually become more flirtatous with me, at first I thought he was just being friendly. But in the last 4 months his flirting has become quite strong. Only 3 weeks ago he was whistling at me, telling me how good I looked and would chat me up as soon as he saw me. Then 2 weeks ago he broke up with his gf because she was cheating. Since the breakup, I have seen him 3 times while out and about, and he politely says hello but he no longer stops and talks. He hasn't got back with his gf either.
What's going on? He flirts and wolf whistles at me whilst in a relationship (and I fully believe he would of slept with me if I had of let him), but now he's single he seems totally uninterested??? And they say women are hard to work out LOL
2007-12-22 06:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sheesh, what's wrong with people on here?? Some of you are really mean. First off, I don't want to sleep with him, I'm not even sure I want a relationship, I'm just confused by his complete change in behaviour towards me. That's why I posted this question, hoping I'd get some insight.
And I said he dumped her not the other way around! If he's not interested he's sure changed his tune quick in the space of 2 weeks.
2007-12-22 07:25:49 · update #1
he wants a break from women.
2007-12-22 06:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... he probably had strong feelings for his ex girlfriend... she broke his heart. He may be needing a break for a little bit before he can get back up on the horse. Cheating takes a great tole on people... its a real cut at his ego!!! Give him some time... besides, if you guys were to start something... you would rather him be completly over her!!!
2007-12-22 14:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea5499 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give the poor man time to heal his wounds.
Be there for him as a friend. But treat him like a squirrel. Make no sudden movements until you gain his trust or he will run away.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-22 15:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to take out time to get to know what you want out of life, sleeping with him will not be answer...get to know what you really expect from a man that's only about you, and him. Take care of youself first...All wolve's how, and dogs bark
2007-12-22 14:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful for the new turn of behavior. if he were still flirting with you, you'd end up just being used as a rebound. let the man deal with his breakup alone!
2007-12-22 15:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused about, he's not interested in you anymore and if he was it was only because of the thrill.
Move forward, not backwards.
2007-12-22 14:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested at this time......move on. Remember he is your ex for a reason.
2007-12-22 15:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His woman got tired of his bullshit and dumped him. That hurt his ego.
2007-12-22 15:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and leave the past where it belongs....in the past.
2007-12-22 15:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋