Marriage & Divorce - 27 December 2007

cheated on you? Or would you think you would be better off not knowing?

2007-12-27 08:22:46 · 18 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

I have been with my husband for 3 years now, we have been married for a little less than a month. For the first years my inlaws loved me, always talked to me, hugged me, took me to dinner when my husband (a police officer) was working nights, took me shopping, EVERYTHING! But the past few months, when I go to their house with my husband, they ignore me, its stretching it to say that they have said 5 words to me in the past 6 months! On Dec 3rd we eloped, leaving hard feelings, even though we told them 2 months earlier to avoid that very thing from happening! We arrived the morning of our wedding to remind them and tell them we were leaving to go do it, and they were shocked and did not even remember we had told them!!!!! What am I supposed to do?!?!! How can I bring up this subject with them?? They arent people that you can cry on their shoulder, they are tough (his dad is police officer also)...HELP please

2007-12-27 08:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by Erin 2

I caught my husband on a site where people can find, basically, prostitutes. I have caught him before but he always claims it is just out of curiousity. When I confronted him this time he told me that he needed to sleep woth other women. He explained that he is a man and men are meant to "spread their seed". I am devistated. We have only been married 2 years and he mentioned this when we first started dating 7 years ago. I made him very aware that I would not accept that. He is claiming that he loves me but cannot be with just me anymore. He said it is affecting his mental state as he feels trapped living a life that is not meant for him. I do not know what to do. Do I pack his stuff and say goodbye? I am heartbroken. I love him so much. Is there anyone else out there that has faced this? He said that he wants to do this civilly and always wants to be here for me. What is that for? If he doesn't want me, if I am not enough, then why would he still want me in his life? I am lost.

2007-12-27 08:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are having some problems in my family with my two sister's. One sister has been married 3 times, and soon to be divorced again! And my younger sister is filing for divorce also after 11 years because she say's not enough intimate times. Never mind the home he built (2 times for her)! Both sister's have 3 children, but complain the passion is missing(working 60 hours per week will take away alot of passion). Now I have been married going on 17 years, and yes THE PASSION is not always there! But, your history together, your children, and extended family, are all thrown away! I think we sadly have become such a throw away society anymore and very selfish, instead of selfless! How do you married couples like me and my wife feel? Is there a total commitment really exist anymore?

2007-12-27 08:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a divorced mom of a 8 yr old son. My ex is remarried and I know his wife takes my son out shopping for his dad but i still like to get my son a little something to give his dad for holidays. For example this x-mas i got a nice frame that said " I love my daddy" and put in a photo i took of my ex and son together. What do you guys think about me doing this? In the 5 yrs of our divorce my ex never got my son a gift to give me (don't expect it) but am wondering if i'm wrong in doing this.

2007-12-27 07:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

this happened during a marital fight. we were fighting in the car and as soon as i got off a bottled water was thrown at me by my husband. i was not hit but im wondering if it is normal in a relationship? or a sign of more abuse to come?

we have been married for 5 years and this only happened recently.

your opinion is valuable.

2007-12-27 07:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by nightingale 2

all. our relationship lately has been rocky. in the last 3 months. she's been trying to get the father of the kids in their lives because both kids miss their father. the father doesn't care about the kids at all. he goes in & out of their lives. one day on the 4 yr old's b-day they both told the kids infront of them that they never wanted them & that they were a mistake. that was a month ago. i told her i was tired of the b.s. & threatened to leave her. she begged me to stay & that she would change. so i stayed. things haven't changed & now she tells me that her ex is dealing drugs but she will not call the cops or do anything except spend time w/ the kids. i feel like i am being used. we were supposed to save up for a house together but she is always broke. she never spends any money on me so i don't know how. i come from a good family. i never had this happen to me before. what do i need to do? i'm scared she might take me down w/ her in her mess??

2007-12-27 07:55:17 · 18 answers · asked by holmes 1

The vehicle is under his name what do i need to do to get it changed under my name, and what if he does not want to turn the title in to me.

2007-12-27 07:54:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sin 1

without any contact you are automatically divorced?

2007-12-27 07:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by lyd 1

Is it possible to file for divorce without informing the courts of the child. In other words I have a daughter and i just want to file for divorce so that my child would not be put in the system for child support or visitation rights and all that mess. We have a plan that works for both of us and i just don't wanna go throught that with her.

2007-12-27 07:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

My sister's on answers, and has asked a few questions about her husband, with his ex, sneaking around, etc. Can someone give her some advice that she could do... possibly step by step?? Here are some of the details: Her husband, we'll call him rave (lol) was engaged/living with a girl we'll call rammy. He broke up with my sister several times while dating her, and went back out with rammy. Eventually, he & my sister got married. Everything was good, they had fights now and then, as just about every married couple does. Then out of the blue, five years into their marriage, my sister discovered he had called rammy to wish her a happy birthday. a few months later, she found out that he was emailing her and meeting her at the bar. he said he would stop. then a few months ago, she found out that he had a secret email account, and had been emailing rammy from his parent's house so that my sister wouldn't find out. this has been going on for quite some time now, and i am out of advice.

2007-12-27 07:38:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any dads out there who have won a custody case...how did you do it? What did you have to prove?

2007-12-27 07:35:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

and when do you decide if you want to divorce

2007-12-27 07:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by paula z 1

Alright so I am 19 and I would rather live on my own. I know love is beautiful even though I have never felt it. But me I live to dangerous of life and dont think it would be right to put a wife and especially a kid through that. I just dont think I am fit to be husband or a dad. Is it wrong to just give up on that cuz of the way I live?? I just dont want to be one to leave a son without a father and wife with out a husband. Better to just stay out of that and no one gets hurt.

2007-12-27 07:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by I like to drink 1

its it wrong to be in love with some one you barely know

2007-12-27 07:26:44 · 26 answers · asked by paula z 1

Just broke up yesterday, he talks to me like I an nothing, and he frequently ignores me for days etc etc. Really he was the WORST thing that ever happened to me and I now know this hence the fact that I have kicked him out..........but my heart is broken because I really love him, we did have some great times together (though not enough) and I really thought that when I married him it would be forever.............just feel so depressed and alone. And like a failure.........any advice anyone?

2007-12-27 07:25:10 · 40 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5

Mine is having a man that does what I say, whenever I say it. A man who shuts his mouth and opens his wallet! A man who cooks a hot meal for my lover and I after a long day of love making! Yours?

2007-12-27 07:23:45 · 24 answers · asked by sandra b 5

I found out during the four months we were together he has been lying about seeing his ex girlfriend... i also found out that he has been sleeping with her at the same time.

he was with her for two years, and then got together with me seven months later - and he has always been "intimidated" by me. He really played the game well.... telling me he loves me, how he has never met anyone like me... how he wanted to marry me, how I am perfect for him....

and now that all is said and done i find he has been lying to her, too.. she has no clue i was even dating him for four months... he has told her he loves her so much, and from what I hear, she is spineless... has no backbone... and is crazy about him.

me? I walked.

so.... Can a lying cheat be capable of loving anyone? He doesnt love me, or else he wouldnt be sleeping with her... and he doesnt love her because he was "with" me.

What goes on in a cheaters head? In his warped mind, do you think he ever loved me at all?

2007-12-27 07:22:09 · 55 answers · asked by L 2

2007-12-27 07:21:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl but there is a problem she's my cousin by marriage but we are no blood she's my uncles wife son daughter but my uncle had kids with his wife so does that mean we are related?

2007-12-27 07:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by dodododoo d 1

Is it better to stay together for my two son's sake?

2007-12-27 07:12:53 · 60 answers · asked by robert m 2

My boyfriend and I already know that we are going to get married. We talk about it all the time and we are positively sure that we will be married when we are older and there is no doubt that we aren't. So in the Bible, it says that we are not allowed to have sex before marriage.. and I want to know why, if that person you're with now is going to be the person you spend the rest of your life with. Also, it will be both of our first times. If we could get married now, we would, but we just can't right now. I just need some clarification. So I guess my question is sort of like.. what is marriage for then? I don't want answers like "because you should save yourself for the one you love and you should wait until marriage." I already know that stuff. I think this is a hard question to interpret x.x but please help me!

2007-12-27 07:10:46 · 23 answers · asked by Andrew and Priscilla 3

I want to forget my first love. Some say I cannot forget him. I want to forget him so that I can give my wholeheart to my fiance. Can anyone recommend things to read? or something to watch? HELP!

2007-12-27 06:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by martha 2

yes i am trying to work things out with my wife and i am looking for a way to trick her into seeing me

2007-12-27 06:56:38 · 14 answers · asked by the_boneman_2001 1

Can you justify the actions of this women?

She has two children with my husband-the first one he cheated on me with her yrs ago., the 2nd in which was conceived when I separated from him and he went to stay with her & their child.

Well he kept trying to come back to me and then I agreed to counseling with him and we are now back together and didn’t go through with a divorce.

Well he pays child support to this girl and has told her many times that he wasn’t trying to be in a relationship with her, but he needed a place to stay until he was going to get his own place. She agreed and even told me that she was trying to be with him or what have you. She is just the kind of girl that will sacrifice anything to get him with her, no matter if what it takes. She’ll take any guy anyway she can. To get to the point now that we are happy together, she always tried to start stuff, yet says how much she wants nothing to do with him and that I am this and that. She is very childish in many ways. She tells her 2 yr old daughter to call me b*tches & hoes. Well she will go through spurts where she is nice to me and will let us get the kids and all that and even ask if I can get them without him being there. Then before you know-she flips her lid and starts stuff all over again and keeps the kids from him for months on end. I don’t understand if she says she doesn’t want him in anyway-why is she so distraught? Can this be justified?

2007-12-27 06:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

what should i do - i really thought that electronic sudoko and a bag of charcoal brickettes would keep her happy.

2007-12-27 06:51:57 · 29 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3

hey its me again i have been married for 4 years my husband has cheated on me once , i for gave him know we havre moved to another state to start over a fresh new lifre, one night i when to use his phone to call a friend then at that time a text message came i opened it and it was a woman named Marrylinn, the text siad , " i had a good time on thursday night hope to meet with you again"

i have not confronted him yet witht that i wantto be 100% sure that he is creeping around, but he has been some what wired lately he wants sex every day , this past weekend we had sex 10 times, and he wants me to do all this stuff like anal, oral ,69 ect etc , i dony mind at all and when we have sex he have this like arua t him very strange and then when we finish he does not say nothing and goes out , might there be a connection with him cheating on me and all the sex?
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2007-12-27 06:48:01 · 18 answers · asked by NENA82 1

considering my parents have been married for almost 26 years?

2007-12-27 06:44:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems that everyone knows that all the common guy thinks about is sex, and the girl doesn't so i get sometimes when me and my wife hear that "guys are already turned on to sex" she laughs. I don't want it obsessively, i just want it to just have it to make our marriage more passionately. Sex is a wonderful beautiful thing to do with your spouse, why is it so hard to turn your woman on to doing it more, if it feels so good.

2007-12-27 06:39:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

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I want this guy to like me . You seee I made a vey big mistake?
Of having relations with a divorcee 14 yrs older than me. Ever since that night it has been akward between us. Partially bcause we almost had sex, and he lost his erection from the condum he said. .He does not appear interested in hooking up w/ me again. I wonder if thats why? Or he just doesn't like me.However I see he has been talking to other girls. I am so jealous and mad. I want what happend to blow over. I try to be nice to him, but he is a little passive now.

2007-12-27 06:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous