It seems that everyone knows that all the common guy thinks about is sex, and the girl doesn't so i get sometimes when me and my wife hear that "guys are already turned on to sex" she laughs. I don't want it obsessively, i just want it to just have it to make our marriage more passionately. Sex is a wonderful beautiful thing to do with your spouse, why is it so hard to turn your woman on to doing it more, if it feels so good.
2007-12-27 06:39:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you're just not that good in the sack, and have gotten kind of homely, and that's why the wife doesn't want it?
2007-12-27 06:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are programmed differently! It is biology, and we can not give your wife a tablet to turn her into a raving nymphomaniac. No matter how much you would like this. I can explain the problem. And all couples have this problem, no matter how sexy a women says she feels. She usually doesn't! It is intended to keep her man happy/faithful, and make her feel like a beautiful sex goddess! Men have lots of sperm, and have a high sex drive in order to impregnate as many females as possible.Keeping the population from dying out! Women, on the other hand, are caring and nurturing, raising the children in a faithful loving enviroment. She is faithful to her mate as she can only have a few kids, and it only takes 'one' mans sperm to get her pregnant. Hence, lower sex drive! You can't change that, but you can wet her appetite a bit with some sultry music/lights, sexy underwear...good food..fine wine and some sweet talk. good luck!
2007-12-27 14:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetics and social conditioning. The male of any species is designed to desire sex. The female usually desires sex during ovulation when pregancy has its highest possibility of happening. Human females have been taught to that sex is not so desirable for many generations. This has created a limited sex drive in women. This is changing as women no longer have a stereo-type to live by.
By the same token, there are some women that just love the feeling of sex and have a greater desire for sex.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-27 14:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry you are having this problem I am too only in reverse! I'm lucky if I get it once every other month right now. I know he isn't cheating because I "take care of him" almost every night! However I never get anything in return.....hmmmmm I wonder why that bothers me......lol....who knows. Look it is usually the more intimate person who wants to "be" with the other all the time....she probably isn't as intimate as you...find her triggers, make it fun and enjoyable for you both...
my favorite thing is "do on to me as you wish to be done" it is a naughty turn of words for a wonderful teaching. Have fun.
Momma_Bear
2007-12-27 15:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by the_morris_bears 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to marriage hell and reality. The
second both of you said "I do" your loving
relationship was over. Some people realize
this in weeks and get divorced other lie to
themselves for years. You just realized it!!!
Marriage even destroys soul mates. Take an
honest look at all the married couples you know!??
Are any of them still truly "in love"!??! NO.
What do they have in common? They all got married.
I have seen couples that are not married still head
over heels in love after 15 years and going
strong!!! If you are ever in love again
don't change it and stay happy.
Good luck!!!
2007-12-27 15:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you aren't figuring in "The Cuddle Factor" into the equation when it comes to women.
I mean come on.....you have to snuggle for two hours until your arm goes to sleep just because she gave you a handjob.
2007-12-27 14:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"why is it so hard to turn your woman on to doing it more, if it feels so good."
You must mean:
why is it so hard FOR ME to turn MY woman on to doing it more, if it feels so good.
Dork.
2007-12-27 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Violation Valerie X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't feel as good to the woman
2007-12-27 16:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is getting the bone on the side
2007-12-27 15:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me... I love to fvck!
2007-12-27 14:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋