does the amount of sex mean anything when a spouse moght be cheating?

Question

hey its me again i have been married for 4 years my husband has cheated on me once , i for gave him know we havre moved to another state to start over a fresh new lifre, one night i when to use his phone to call a friend then at that time a text message came i opened it and it was a woman named Marrylinn, the text siad , " i had a good time on thursday night hope to meet with you again"

i have not confronted him yet witht that i wantto be 100% sure that he is creeping around, but he has been some what wired lately he wants sex every day , this past weekend we had sex 10 times, and he wants me to do all this stuff like anal, oral ,69 ect etc , i dony mind at all and when we have sex he have this like arua t him very strange and then when we finish he does not say nothing and goes out , might there be a connection with him cheating on me and all the sex?
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Answer 1

Yeah, sex creates more sex. You get worked up thinking about the sex you just had and want more.

He's probably REALLY into sex!

Answer 2

It could go both ways hon. They say when men want different positions and such they are probably learning them from someone else. However I also think that it could mean it is his way to stay faithful to you (keeping things fresh). Either way, if you think he is cheating and has before he's obviously showing some of the same signs he did last time. Only you could truly know. How did you catch him last time? If he had a good time with Marilynn... whether it was just as friends or sleeping together or dating or whatever it is cheating if you did not know about it. It is emotional cheating even if all they did was have coffee and talk about you. I don't know whether to give you credit for forgiving him the first time or ask you if you're nuts, either way... good luck. :(

Answer 3

specific it quite is. ANY style of intercourse exterior of the marriage is cheating. they are doing something that could desire to only be achieved with their better half. it rather is sharing intimate innovations and words with yet somebody else who isn't their spouse/ husband, whilst they are meant to be completely dedicated to them in each way. in the event that they are already doing this, who's to assert they won't take it a step further? This couple needs to have a communication, talk what is going on- why it got here approximately, why the guy is doing this, what's in all risk lacking, what could nicely be achieved and, if necessary, pass to couple medical care/ marriage counseling. have confidence could nicely be broken, so this could take a protracted time to recover from and artwork with the aid of and there will be a hard highway forward. All you're able to do is be there to help your friends. supply some comforting words and awareness. supply them the encouragement they could want. sturdy success.

Answer 4

If you believe that a person can be addicted to sex he may be a prime candidate. In any case, it doesn't matter how much or what type of sex a person is receiving at home they are still capable of cheating. The only way you could keep him completely from cheating is if you two are in the bed (or where ever) together 24/7. Then he would be in your sights at all times.

Answer 5

I hate to say this, but those signs don't sound that good (maybe I'm wrong) but I think he may be creeping around on you again. I might not call him out just yet...keep a look out for more clues, before you confront- have more evidence. Or you can casually ask him about that. If he responds in a defensive matter, that usually means they're hiding something, but why would a stange woman that you don't know be texting something like that to YOUR man?! Go undercover when he happens to not have his phone with him, and pretend to be him. Text something like this to this woman "Oh yeah me too, what was your favorite part about Thursday night?" Or something to help clue you in. I know that you don't want to believe it, you want it to be anything else, but like I said it doesn't sound good, expecially if he already did cheat on you, and you forgave him, what makes you think that he won't expect history to repeat itself and you forgive him again?

Answer 6

If you still love him and he treats you well keep him and keep on forgiving him. Why you ask? Simple, the next guy will cheat on you too and you probably won't love him. Who knows the next guy might beat you too. You obviously haven't learned the facts of life yet:


1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair

Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie. Don't listen to the women on this site that tell you to end it. They are lying to themselves and their men are cheating on them too!!! Don't believe me?!?! LOL Check all his cell phone records including the work cell phone. Check all his email addresses including his work email not just the email he uses with you. GOOD LUCK LIARS!!! Even when you find the proof and he denies it you will keep lying to yourselves!!! This world is so crazy LOL

Answer 7

Sexual Cues Only - Warning Signs of Sexual Infidelity
Unfortunately, there are very few signs that a spouse is just having a sexual affair -- an encounter that entails no emotional involvement; essentially, a one night stand.

* Unaccounted for use of erectile dysfunction medications (e.g., viagra)
* Unaccounted for use of birth control (e.g., missing condoms)
* Unexplained discovery or loss of items of clothing
* Unexplained hiding of clothes or sudden interest in doing the laundry
* Unexplained stains in underwear
* Unaccounted for or unexplainable loss of time

And on some occasions:

* a temporary increase or sudden interest in having sex
* a sudden change in sexual behavior (e.g., wanting to experiment, etc.).

Answer 8

*Sigh*...how does it feel to be used as a sexual toy? I mean if you're content with this and enjoy it I really wouldn't mind getting in on the action either.

You know what I said before to your last question. The answer still holds.

Answer 9

I agree with everyone else...you dont need more proof...you got what you needed...maybe you should call Marylinn and see what she says (You are his wife you have a right to know!). then confront him about it.. he will be trapped-- and i have been cheated on and he wanted sex more then a rabbit on viagra. that has nothing to do with it.

Answer 10

yes it could mean that sexually he is not cheating on you but physically and emotionally he is and sometimes a man thinks that the more sex he gives you the less you will accuse him of cheating on you. See men think that if they are not having sex than they are not cheating but we as women believe otherwise. so i mean he may be cheating but it is not sexual.