Can you justify the actions of this women?
She has two children with my husband-the first one he cheated on me with her yrs ago., the 2nd in which was conceived when I separated from him and he went to stay with her & their child.
Well he kept trying to come back to me and then I agreed to counseling with him and we are now back together and didn’t go through with a divorce.
Well he pays child support to this girl and has told her many times that he wasn’t trying to be in a relationship with her, but he needed a place to stay until he was going to get his own place. She agreed and even told me that she was trying to be with him or what have you. She is just the kind of girl that will sacrifice anything to get him with her, no matter if what it takes. She’ll take any guy anyway she can. To get to the point now that we are happy together, she always tried to start stuff, yet says how much she wants nothing to do with him and that I am this and that. She is very childish in many ways. She tells her 2 yr old daughter to call me b*tches & hoes. Well she will go through spurts where she is nice to me and will let us get the kids and all that and even ask if I can get them without him being there. Then before you know-she flips her lid and starts stuff all over again and keeps the kids from him for months on end. I don’t understand if she says she doesn’t want him in anyway-why is she so distraught? Can this be justified?
2007-12-27 06:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get the courts involved if this woman is denying the father of these children the right to be with them.
Frankly, it sounds like they're not being raised well, and if I were him, I'd be trying for custody, if it was okay with my wife. It's a lot to ask, to raise my kids by another woman, but sometimes the right thing is also hard.
2007-12-27 07:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Action speaks louder.
2016-05-27 04:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by karol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is in love with your husband, he fathered not one, but TWO kids with her - and to be able to have a place to stay, you have NO IDEA other than what you husband tells you (and wow has he proved how trustworthy he can be...NOT) what was said between them, so he very well could have, and probably did - encourage her feelings.
Hun, your problem is not with this woman, it is with your husband - he is the one that brought her into your lives...he is a lying cheating jerk who has proven he will say and do anything to get what he wants or needs.
You wonder about her behavior? She can't trust him. She might be childish, but you are pretty blind.
2007-12-27 07:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Read the signs she wants him and the best way to get him is through the kids and when it doesn't work she acts like a b and than she takes the kids
2007-12-27 07:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the only information I grab from this story, is you have no self respect! I can't believe you keep this piece of **** in your life! I think that she has every right to be as crazy as she sounds! Look what he's done to her. He gave her 2 children and is telling her that he doesn't want her? Your piece of **** is leading this poor woman on.
2007-12-27 07:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea5499 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy must be really good. He cheats on both of you with each other, and still you guys have such low esteem that are worshiping the ground he walks on,,,man!!!
2007-12-27 06:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Women...two or more
a single WOMAN...get it?
this woman...these women..get it?
Okay, basic english lesson done..now!
This other woman's feelings are quite justified.
You women are fighting for this prize of a man. And all
is fair in love and war....
2007-12-27 07:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lou L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey...you took the moron you're living with back after he knocked this broad up not once, but twice! Now money destined for your household is going out the window to her and the little bastards she whelped thanks to your husband.
Yet...i wonder whose really the idiot here. Because you're just as guilty in my eyes.
2007-12-27 06:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like one of these who will never give up, jealous and bitter. I couldn't do with it personaly, you are good if you can. Infact, yes, how could you stay with him when he got her up the duff while he was with you? Your mad!
2007-12-27 07:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mum 2 Boys 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation is too fuked up to even begin commenting on....
2007-12-27 06:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Violation Valerie X 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋