I want to forget my first love. Some say I cannot forget him. I want to forget him so that I can give my wholeheart to my fiance. Can anyone recommend things to read? or something to watch? HELP!
2007-12-27 06:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by martha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow..sweetie been there done that..i was in a long term relationship & need i say it took me such a long time to actually let go..but with the help of my now hubby i let him go..my husband was there to pick up the broken pieces..to give me a shoulder to lean on..he was very understanding & thats what help me move on..i realized alot..the differences between them & i couldn't be any happier with the descisions i've made..hes such an amazing husband..really give yourself time to think about what you want..dont confuse yourself..ask your self this are you in love with your ex?! or do you just love him?! theres a difference..hope this helps..best of luck!
2007-12-27 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by ツ eileen's mommy; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not yet able to give your whole heart to your fiance, I'm wondering why you're engaged. You don't seem ready.
True, your past relationship may technically be over, but you clearly still have strong emotional ties to the other guy. Time will help your heart heal, but don't rush headlong into another relationship now or you're likely to ruin it and your chance for future happiness with this new guy. . . and that wouldn't be fair to either one of you!
There are no magic or quick-fix answers to the healthy way to heal a broken heart. Be kind to yourself and slow down a little, okay? Let your heart catch up to where your head is.
2007-12-27 07:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way for to handle this is for you to openly discuss your true feelings with your fiance. Come right out and tell your fiance that you are having difficulties getting over your first love---tell him the reasons why----ask him to help you, even if it just means listening. In order for you to have a healthy, happy relationship you have to begin by being completely honest and forthright. If you neglect to do this, then your new relationship will be based on deception and dishonesty. And, keeping this to yourself has got to be killing you. Ask your finance to help you in this. You are suppose to be a team and working together on life's problems.
2007-12-27 08:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pain and sadness do go away and you will be happy again. Having said that if he was truly a soul mate you will never forget him. I have had tons of women, I only remember one.
2007-12-27 07:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the things i like to read are from sites like wikihow.com and ehow.com if you search google for how to forget your first love most likely one of those sites will have something or you can just go to one of those sites and search i go there all the time and its helps with what ever so give that a try!
2007-12-27 07:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't suppose to forget. You are suppose to remember the good of the relationship, that doesn't mean that you can't give yourself 100% to someone else. That's what life is a series of events that form who we are. Remember him and go on with your life.
2007-12-27 07:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by love my life 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't ever forget them, but don't let them ruin your life! Move on. Shut the book. Realize that you'll be alone and old if you don't.
2007-12-27 07:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe in some magazines there are things are like to forget a guy in ten days or something like that. try getting stuff like that it may help.=)
2007-12-27 07:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by *Brooke* 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i suggest read a reccomended book and see if it helps if not then im srry but i cant help cuz this is ur life and u make ur dessions
2007-12-27 08:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Allyson N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm, your first love is someone you will NEVER forget, and i'm sure i'm not the only one who feels this way!
2007-12-27 07:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋