its it wrong to be in love with some one you barely know
2007-12-27 07:26:44 · 26 answers · asked by paula z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not wrong if you know you can trust him and he makes you happy. I moved in with a guy that I had barely known for 3 month's and married him almost 2 yrs. later and its now been 5 yrs and we are happily married with our first baby on the way. Good luck.
2007-12-27 07:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by consonboard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong at all. It really depends on the two of you, and if you share the same wants, and goals in life. I know a lot of people like to disagree, but you can learn a lot about a person in a short amount of time.
My husband and I met, and were engaged within the week. We got married just six months later. That was almost 7 years ago, and we are just as happy and in love today, as we were back then.
Just because things move fast, doesn't mean it's a mistake. :)
2007-12-27 16:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong. The only advice that i can give is to stop and take a good look at this person before you decide that is what you want.
I dated a guy for about 8 weeks and we devided to elope. I was totally in love with him....so I thought. Our marriage lasted a whole 8 weeks. We have since filed for annulment and it should be granted from the court in a few weeks.
Wathc this other person. Observe the way that they interract with people that they come in contact with. Make sure that this person is really the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Do what is best for yourself!
2007-12-27 16:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by maddiesmumma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were engaged after 6 days and married after 10 months. We now have a baby and are coming up on our 1 year anniversary. I don't think there's anything WRONG with it. I love him more than anything in the world. Just make sure you know him as well as possible before you do... you don't want to fight for the rest of your life over something trivial that should have been discussed before marriage (religion, # of children, willing to relocate, etc.)
2007-12-27 15:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by NewMommaNWife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe "wrong" is not the correct word....But I do think that you would be making a huge mistake! Marriage is a big commitment, and having kids an even greater one...!
Give yourself time to get to know the other person better.
Remember the saying: "Marry in haste..and repent in leisure!"
What's the rush?
2007-12-27 15:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After knowing my boyfriend for 3 months I knew that i wanted to marry him but we are still waiting. I think it's better to go through hard trials together see how you work together to get through problems. Marriage is about alot more than love. They say it takes 2 years to really know someone. If it's meant to be forever why rush?
2007-12-27 16:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be in love, it's foolish to think that your feelings warrants you jumping into marriage so quickly. If you two are REALLY in love, then waiting 6-8 months should make your love just as strong if not stronger. Wait for 6 months--You're feelings will change.
2007-12-27 16:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not help who you fall in love with and how fast you fall in love. But here is the question you really need to think about....
"Do you always think that you are in love with someone you are in a relationship with for a short time?"
How old are you and have you been in other relationships, if so how long were they...
Just think about those questions before you jump into anything.
Other wise be happy and enjoy the time you are living. Luck to you.
2007-12-27 16:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by I have his love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it can't be wrong becuz I fell in love after a few days. I seriously love this man. I know all I need to know about him. If it's wrong then that would make me wrong and I really don't like to be wrong so will go w/ NO it can't be wrong when it feels soooo right!
2007-12-27 15:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong. My parnter and I fell in love within the first month. We took things slow though because we thought that maybe it was just lust, but we are still together and in even more love than we were that first month. So you may want to take things a little slow just to make sure that you and this guy aren't just lusting over one another.
2007-12-27 15:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋