Marriage & Divorce - 27 December 2007

I caught my husband cheating on me and we're now separated. He hasn't decided if he wants a divorce yet. I'm trying to be scripturally correct. The Bible says that its the HUSBAND that gives the wife a certificate of divorce. Is what he's done/doing equal to a certificate of divorce?

2007-12-27 10:12:27 · 38 answers · asked by Kayla 1

I caught my husband cheating on me and we're now separated. He hasn't decided if he wants a divorce yet. I'm trying to be scripturally correct. The Bible says that its the HUSBAND that gives the wife a certificate of divorce. Is what he's done/doing equal to a certificate of divorce?

2007-12-27 10:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by joes1girl 1

If I inherit stuff AFTER I marry and it is willed to my name, is it still marital property? How much do prenuptial agreements hold up if they are scrutinized with good and expensive attorneys? How can one prevent the pitfall of someone saying "I signed it under duress, b/c I wanted to get married?" I can understand the social statement of commitment to marriage, but is there no guarantee of protection of assets?

2007-12-27 10:10:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy is dark and he has brown skinned kids with a light skinned girl and then all of a sudden he supposedly gets a dark skinned girl pregnant and her baby comes out light. the dark skinned chick has 2 other kids and they're dark with her light skinned ex hubby...how can this be possible? is it possible for 2 darks to make a light when their other kids aren't even light? what do you think?

2007-12-27 10:00:03 · 24 answers · asked by lele 2

when a cheating man takes his "friend with benefits" to his grand mas house and his aunt doesn't say anything...the guy has 2 kids and a fiance at home and the fiance just finds out about his cheating and finds out that the "friend" may have just had a baby with him...

2007-12-27 09:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by lele 2

I have been dating and going out partying with other men ever since my husband left a year ago. He came home from work in a foriegn country with the first stage of transgender reassignment. Is it wrong that I have started to rebuild my life even though we are not divorced yet? I'm sure he expects me to pay for divorce but I don't think so. I get a lot of flack from my family, who think that just because I'm 52, I should stay home. Still crazy after all these years and for the first time in 25 years I'm having a good life time.

2007-12-27 09:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been soooooo sick for the past three days im talking to the point where im in bed all night and all day, i cant eat aything my taste budds are gone, i cant smell , i have a very high fever im takin medication and soup nothing is helping....i just wanna die .....what can i do to feel better for new years eve?? p.s i lost my voice too

2007-12-27 09:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

2007-12-27 09:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate that and I'm sick and tired of it of them saying that. That's like saying you won't get to enjoy foreplay and sex there whether you like it or not. If you can't enjoy doing the same stuff there like here, then something's missing.

I bet that "Heaven better than sex" is just to try to make people feel better who don't get much action. I would hate to think people will be deprived of it there. And there's also "foreplay". If I can't have foreplay and sex in Heaven like here on Earth, then I will consider Heaven a fate worse than death.


If they can't do it in the afterlife, then let them enjoy it now while still can so this way, they will always know they at least did it once.

2007-12-27 09:37:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've was married only 2 yrs. Within that two years he and I have a son and both of us have children from previous relationships. Exactly a wk after our son turned one he drops a bomb on me saying that he wants out of the relationship. A week later I notice strange behaviors in him that all read CHEATING. Then I started to find evidence to support my theory. Then I got a call for a job in another state in which I accepted and moved my family, excluding him. He never sent any child support for our son and basically blamed me for the failed marriage. Til this day I don't know what the hell I did. All I ever asked for was for love and a partner for life. Anyways, he moved here 3 months ago and is living with his brother. He came here to so call work things out but I notice that he is doing the same thing he did back in the other state in which he is constangly texting someone who he claims is his niece plus he is always on the computer at his brother supposedly surfing the net.

2007-12-27 09:32:31 · 33 answers · asked by Butterfly Gal! 1

I'm pregnant, will that delay my divorce? Can I still file? What would be the grounds he could take my children away from me? During a divorce will they bring in his family to testify?

He works 70+ hours a week but I know for a fact if I leave him he will try to take my kids that is the only way he knows how to hurt me. His family will be there to back him up and say anything for him. He is a "minister" but cusses me and my children out. I applied for a low income apartment since I don't have a job right now so I will have a roof over their head, I receive food stamps now so they will just go up, and I have a vehicle to get them to dr appointment, school, etc. I'm scared but I'm not happy and tired of putting up with his crap.

2007-12-27 09:30:20 · 2 answers · asked by atchison5_07 1

and how old do you have to be to draw welfare and get food stamps in Kentucky?

2007-12-27 09:29:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I of over 16 years , have been going to counseling.
She says it was a build up over the years and now has developed a hatred to me. We have 2 young sons ( 9& 13) and she says "they'll be okay" , ( they may be or not ), I can not bear the thought of not being with them
I have done everything to try to make things better , but she can not live like this! She says she is tired of being mean to me , I told her she does not have to be , she says she can't help it. She does not want to go in the same car to councelling , she does not really want to go , cause she will cry the whole time. She does love the kids , but not me . I have several questions here but mostly confused , and advice is appreciated , additionally if we do get divorced , there will be only debt , and probably no more decent house for our boys , why can't she change her mind ?
I have never cheated , always provided , and never abused her.

2007-12-27 09:27:49 · 50 answers · asked by royalcres 3

2007-12-27 09:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by kwareman 1

Then he acts like he wants to make a happy family with me. But he tells his mom that if he doesn't get his papers, which I am going to pay for, for his residency, then he will get out and move back with her in his country. What would you think, if you were me? If you heard that wouldn't you feel so betrayed? have two babies with him .

2007-12-27 09:27:03 · 18 answers · asked by dr. perky (>^_^)><3 2

2007-12-27 09:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by hummm? 1

Been thru hell and back with him for 8 years and a son but after 2 months of seperation i miss him so much it hurts. i believe his is my soul mate.... Any advice ?

2007-12-27 09:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need reliable sources to present to keep my grandsons safe!

2007-12-27 09:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy S 2

My girls don't want to go with her not even to visit

2007-12-27 09:17:48 · 13 answers · asked by ernest 1

It was the hardest thing i had to ever do in my life. I am dealing with it the best that i can right now. We have this one couple who we knew for about 2 yrs. now and when they heard what happened, they did not call us to see how we were doing, and i just saw them last night for the first time and when they walked into my home, not even "im sorry, how do you feel" nothing, as if nothing happened to us. I feel very bitter towards them. I really do not care for them at this point. Am i right to carry these hard feelings towards them. I figured your friends will be there, but not them. No acknowledgement of what happened, no phone call when it happened.

2007-12-27 09:10:20 · 21 answers · asked by GQ69 2

that there are some common things we all are seeking.
Whether we seek it through relationships, adventure, money, work, children, you name it....
if your a woman. the need to be desired, To know that you are captivating, sought after, cherished.
for guys,,,, Do we have what it takes to give what is needed..
I know it goes deeper than this as well.
We seek to be loved, accepted, needed, wanted, respected if not for anything else, than just being a human. to know we matter to someone. Which really falls right back into the I want to be loved department..
your thoughts?

2007-12-27 09:07:26 · 10 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

Are you moving forward in spite of it?

2007-12-27 09:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

The man bought me a power washer for paving slabs for my Christmas present. He bought his tart a pair of diamond ear-rings. He bought the Parrot a brand new expensive cage. He bought his brother Sidney a week's holiday in Spain. He bought me a power washer............. There was a row. I hope you all had a merry christmas. x

2007-12-27 09:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

To give everything you have and are into the relationship, to truly feel that you couldn't live without the other?
Or, is this something we go through only as teenagers and never to feel this way again?

2007-12-27 08:43:05 · 30 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

you can also cheat emotionally on them. Both are detrimental to the relationship and both break the others trust. Curious as to which one you would think is more disasterous?

2007-12-27 08:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

then to wait until afterwards? and then say "I never meant to hurt you?" It is like the 80-20 rule I heard in a movie.... You give up the 80% you have for the 20%
your comments?

2007-12-27 08:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

Came home from work early last night and he was dressed in my work clothes ( skirt, blouse bra heels etc) what the %$^&? Any opinions?

2007-12-27 08:34:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should you end a marriage over it?

A one or two night fling?

2007-12-27 08:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never enjoyed sex with my husband.I do masturbate to satisfy myself but always did sex as a chore.After I got a job few months ago and felt a little independent I even disliked it more and told my husband about this disliking.We are very worried now.Sometimes I think I do not love him and not physically attracted towards him but i admire him as a person.he is a great man but sometimes i feel i should go for divorce and then start afresh what exactly i want and like.Bcoz i hate to see him suffer and more i try to make him happy by sex more hatred is developing for sex inside of me.Please guide.

2007-12-27 08:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by payal w 1

2007-12-27 08:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by sheila s 1