Came home from work early last night and he was dressed in my work clothes ( skirt, blouse bra heels etc) what the %$^&? Any opinions?
2007-12-27 08:34:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him. Be honest.
Tell him it freaked you out.
I certainly do not have any desire to wear women's clothing, in fact, my tendency is to try to get my dates out of their clothing. :))
2007-12-27 08:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by tim269u 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Caught In Womens Clothes
2016-10-13 22:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it must have been a shock for sure. But if you truly love him. Talk to him, just because you saw him in a skirt ect... Does not change the person you love.
Maybe, do a little reading. (My husband wears my clothes) is good. If you are willing to be open... Talk to him. Maybe sit down with him, explain your shock and ask him why he hides it.
Most likely because he felt you would think he is a freak. Well he is not, I assure you. Again if your open, and ok with it it could be something you two share, so he does not have to hide.
It's just a start, kids will complicate for sure, or if he wants to dress outside the home.
My wife knew about me before we married, it's between us n us only, she is fine because she knows I'm just me. It's no issue for us at all, n yes I know I'm very very lucky to have a. Woman like her with me. Good luck! N don't forget just talk about it, he is still the same man he was before you found out
2013-11-10 07:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Davy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh, some men like the soft, sexy feel of womens clothes. Doesn't have anything to do with being gay or not. He probably was hoping you'd get turned on and you two would have a wild romp in the hay! He sure didn't pick the right way to spring it on ya tho! I admit, I'd be mortified! But, we all have our weird sexual desires/kinks. You might need to let him express this side of himself a little bit in private once in a while.
2007-12-27 08:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by julz 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Its not a big deal, and it does NOT mean he is gay people!!! You would be surprised if you knew how many men like to wear women's clothes. If he likes it let him, he isn't hurting anyone. Some guys just like the way they feel and find it fun. Some people freak at the thought of a crossdresser, but they are harmless compared to most people. Take it as a compliment even that he likes your clothes!
2007-12-29 14:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Curious Person 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A lot of guys like to dress-up in girls clothes, your husband likes to cross-dress. You just need to sit down with him & talk things out. And maybe you can find some humor in this statement: he doesn't have another girl on the side, he's the other woman.
jk
2007-12-29 13:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by J 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Did you ask him what he was doing in your clothes? He is the only one who can tell you what is going on in his head so if you didn't ask him you need too.
God I have enough trouble with my teenage daughter stealing all my clothes as she has a rule that if she wears it twice and I don't get it back it's her's.
I think I am safe with my husband as he wouldn't fit into my clothes so if he wanted to dress in womens clothes he would need to buy his own.
2007-12-27 08:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If I caught my husband wearing my clothes he would get it because he'd stretch them out. But on a more serious note, I doubt he's gay. It sure would be hard to think of him as manly while he's dressed in your business suit. Maybe you can tell him he can dress as a woman for halloween so he gets it out of his system.
2007-12-30 08:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by oynguyen 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
This is simply him exploring a fetish. Talk to him openly about it and see if it's something you can deal with... Lots of men have fetishes for women's clothing. It doesn't mean they are gay, so don't worry about that. He could be transgendered, or a closet transvestite... or he might have simply been experimenting... or he might just like the rush of doing something 'wrong'. Talk to him, and when you have more of an idea as to why he did it, you can decide where to go from there.... This is more common than most people think. Don't do anything rash.
2007-12-27 08:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Twice as Nice 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
If i came home and my husband was wearing my clothes id fall down laughing. I wish i could give you an answer but i don't have one. Im sorry.
2007-12-27 08:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by karls dream 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I have no understanding of how the "electronic educated" world of today can still give "birth" to so many ignorant, uneducated, self centered, judgmental, opinionated people. Who have all the answers,and not the slightest idea of what the QUESTION was!
2014-07-15 14:41:16 · answer #11 · answered by carolyn c 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋