2007-12-27 09:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...moment.
Also we are meant to move back in togethor after new year. But I am not sure if I am just unwilling/unable to commit again or if it that I am no longer in love? It hurt so much when she first left I do not know if I can go through that again if it doesn't work
2007-12-27 09:57:28 · update #1
lol @ the first answer
hard to explain u kinda just KNOW u feel it, u care for that person more than anything idk its hard
2007-12-27 09:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You miss them even before they have left for the day. You get pissed at them but no matter how mad you are at them they still make you smile. You can spend a boring day in watching paint dry, but you are happy because you are with them. You can not picture your life without them no matter what. You know that nomatter how bad things get, you two will get through it.
If you don't have this feeling, give up on him. Everyone deserves the feeling of being in love, you just have not found it yet. Don't worry your guy is out there! But if you sell your self short, you will never have the chance for love
2007-12-27 17:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly: Marriage is bloody hard!!! I know it is!! Relationships are hard. Two people together will always = conflict.
Try everything first.
You might have to try what I am about 2 try-counselling. Research support groups, relationship hotlines etc, and if your partner is serious about your relationship then she will try too.
Communication is a HUGE one.
That's where breakdowns happen.
Start there, at least.
Listen, but also reinforce things.
eg:"I understand what you are saying" or
" I will try to improve on that"
And your feelings should come across as "I", not "You"
eg; "I feel like we are not communicating properly" rather than "your'e not communicating with me properly"
...Best of luck to you.
2007-12-28 01:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to do whatever it takes to salvage the marriage then love is there. Love is a choice we make.
2007-12-27 17:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice. Life is made up of choices.
2007-12-27 17:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by broncoFan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With so much doubt you should just divorce and move on.
2007-12-27 17:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its time to consider kicking em to the curb and move on.
2007-12-27 18:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the what? Dont leave me hangin'!
2007-12-27 17:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋