My girls don't want to go with her not even to visit
2007-12-27 09:17:48 · 13 answers · asked by ernest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not unless she can prove you are an unfit father.
2007-12-27 09:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mary S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are they? What is her lifestyle now? If they are not at least 13 and she is not a danger to them the courts will always suggest they at least visit. That does not mean she will get custody. Give the mom a break. Let the kids make their own decisions on their mother. Raise a child so you will not have to HEAL an adult! Good Luck!
2007-12-27 09:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably got them to begin with because she abandoned them, right? Dont worry. Five years is a long time. She may through courts get supervised visits, but I wouldnt even worry about that after 5 yrs!
I have been hearing the last several days on Y/A a lot of women who dont have custody!
2007-12-27 09:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refer to a lawyer who focuses on family contributors regulation. The courts tend to rule interior the favour of the little ones. the way I see it, a mom who hasn't had any time for her childrens in over 5 years isn't very probable to p.c. complete custody. If she needs visitation with them, that has a extreme potential for being very valuable for all, so do no longer attempt to maintain her out of the little ones lives completely. yet while she is comming around with some pre-desperate theory of entitlement, then i could see that as her exhibiting indicators that she may be a threat to the little ones. So provide her a great gamble yet be carefull.
2016-10-20 02:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hires a lawyer and fights for them is the only way she can gain custody. She really has to find something that makes you an unfit parent. With her being absent in thier life will only look bad on her.
2007-12-27 09:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon the state as well as the judge presiding. Some judges still feel that a monther is better at child rearing than the father and if she gets that type of judge she would have a very good chance.
2007-12-27 18:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer.
Things that affect the decision:
- why did mom lose custody?
- who has custody and what kind of custody is it?
- what quality of father can dad be proved to be?
- what quality of father can mom be proved to be?
- what are the local city/county/state laws that apply?
The last thing considered after those is what the kids want.
Talk to a lawyer - someone whose legal advice is authoritative where you live.
2007-12-27 09:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my ex went to prison for 9 mths.i thought i had costudy automatically.well when she got out she waltzed right back into the house,got costudy of the kids and got the house and i had to pay c/s.there was nothing i could do about it.your best bet is go to the courts and try to get full costudy now.or you could end up like me.
2007-12-27 09:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by mr. y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might come and try but I wouldn't worry about it. You should document things she does now in case you ever need to present it at a future court hearing.
2007-12-27 09:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sophiesmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can certainly try but I doubt a judge would be willing to give physical custody to her.
2007-12-27 09:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Slick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can try but probably not if she hasn't seen them for so long-good luck-she sounds like a loser!
2007-12-27 09:21:08 · answer #11 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋