I need reliable sources to present to keep my grandsons safe!
2007-12-27 09:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sexually, abused by 2 different people that I know of. One went to prison for the abuse.
2007-12-27 09:29:42 · update #1
okay here it is. This man has had a mental hold on my daughter for years. He has cheated throughout thier entire relationship including their marriage. She finally left and when he had the kids he went to the court and lied to get PPO against her. He don't have her but he does have her kids. Her care is still at his house because he has disabled it yet again. You people who have answered thinking I am out to get him have no clue. I am researching the numbers to see where my grandson stand as far as being abused. If they were your grandsons you would do the same.
2007-12-27 09:38:21 · update #2
He has always told her she is fat, he tells her she is nothing to him. He has even threatened sucide if she left, I am not saying he is, my grandsons are under 2. He is not only keeping her away from the kids bur her family as well. My parents have been trying to get ahold of him to see if they can drop off Christmas presents for the boys. I am not out just to smear him. I want my grandsons safe. I gave up talking to my daughter about how bad he treated her years ago. Like I said he had one hell of hold on her. She left so he is doing whatever he can to make her come back. I know he has cheated on her when he was 21 with a 15 year old girl. He has had sex with a family friend when she was 16. He has also cheated on her with men. I hope you are can see why I am trying to gather information.
2007-12-27 09:46:58 · update #3
So that you can convince your daughter to leave this guy? It isnt going to happen. If shes in love, it's her choice. And cut the guy a break! He was abused as a child, so he should punished the rest of his life? Do you have any proof that he has done any abusing himself?
2007-12-27 09:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make the harsh judgement that anyone who is abused will become a abuser is pretty severe. If he truly loves his childern and has dealt with the experiances he had a child there is no reason he cant be a fit and loving father.
If you have reason to belive otherwise then pursue your fears but dont accuse until you have some facts, you can severally damage a family and childrens turst in their parents by doing that.
2007-12-27 17:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is rubbish---if you know the person then it should be fine -imagine if u were abused and everybody treated u like a paedo around ur grandsons even if u were a nice girl
ultimately just make the decisions on how well u know the person
2007-12-27 17:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's right Kathy, unless you can take her, and those kids out of that situation like it was met to be, your left leaving them with him. Such is the way of the american society..... watch as your kids make worse mistakes then you because you assumed there better off!
2007-12-27 17:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abused how? Sexually or physically?
http://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en-us&q=abuse+statistics&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8
2007-12-27 17:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by monicanena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋