I caught my husband cheating on me and we're now separated. He hasn't decided if he wants a divorce yet. I'm trying to be scripturally correct. The Bible says that its the HUSBAND that gives the wife a certificate of divorce. Is what he's done/doing equal to a certificate of divorce?
2007-12-27 10:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by joes1girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he sinned against you by committing adultery. Call a lawyer, put your bible away, and take a look at the LEGAL issues here. You need to take care of yourself at this point and don't wait for a cheating husband to follow scripture!
2007-12-27 10:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask my husband for a divorce?
2014-12-18 23:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can do this, the bible is very outdated in it's way of writing, back in those days the man was considered "head of the house hold" etc, thankfully we now live in 2007, and it is perfectly acceptable for a wife to divorce her husband who has cheated.
2007-12-28 00:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, dont placed something in writing collectively with that. A crafty felony expert can rip to shreds each notice against you. Divorce makes use of regulation. regulation is distinctive than actual existence. have self assurance me. (think he had a extra effective activity and you suggested take the babies for some months til i'm getting settled for a robust place for them. If he desperate to choose for custody, the regulation could comprehend you/that as abandonment) see how actual existence and regulation are distinctive? for sure he doesnt prefer divorce and is hoping you're no longer severe or which you will substitute your suggestions. Makes no distinction which, its nevertheless an identical result. From what you wrote, confident, you will would desire to assert, i'm sorry, i'd like a divorce. One notice: did you assert vows in front of God? If confident, then it develop into God that joined you. God's provision of divorce in simple terms is on the grounds of infidelity. once you made love collectively you bodily grew to become "one". If neither of you dedicated adultery, then that "oneness", that covenant (contract) with God that He blessed you with, has no longer been broken. God can restoration the affection between a husband and spouse, incredibly. i'm hoping you will evaluate this and counselling till now you divorce. it would desire to be an prolonged be apologetic approximately in case you dont. Weigh it carefully. and each notice you suggested-i've got been there.-yet I recommend what I say approximately God too-through fact He did for me. **************************************... You extra info on an identical time as i develop into writing. in simple terms DONT placed something IN WRITING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... you would be able to desire to finally finally end up with a million/2 a house. rules...
2016-11-25 20:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, remember that this was written for the laws and mores of the time, time to join the 21st century, stop waiting for him to decide what to do with your life, he cheated on you very much against the bible, he was the one that broke a far more serious law of the bible, and has lost all of his rights, also have you been tested for all the diseases he could have possibly given to you, and don't listen to the crap that he practiced safe sex, HE HAS ALREADY PROVED THAT HE IS A LIER AND AN ADULTER SO DON'T BELIEVE ANYTHING HE SAYS, GO FILE YOURSELF, HE HAS LOST THAT RIGHT TO DECIDE WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE, you are supposed to be made of his rib, not his feet to be below him, and not his head to be above him, get a grip, and start taking charge of your life, make sure you get tested, and make sure you follow their recommendations on when to get tested again as the most deadly one of all AIDS/HIV has a period of time when you can be infected and can infect others but the test can show up negative for quite a period of time, get going and start controlling your own life, you can do it, much luck and god bless
2007-12-27 10:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dale T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely he has violated the marital trust bestowed upon you two by God. He has committed adultery by the Bibles definition so ask for the divorce. The worse he can say is no
2007-12-27 10:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating = divorce
2007-12-27 10:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husbands parents accusing me?
2017-02-04 04:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating my friends ex?
2016-09-12 02:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bentley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you and Kayla related? Check the answer I gave her.
2007-12-27 15:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋