I met a guy when he was married, we had a thing going on for months, I can tell we both liked each other and there sure was a sexual attraction but of course, we never talked about it or had sex.
He got divorced 2 weeks ago (not because of me) and now wants to be with me. I wonder if he still has feelings for his ex-wife. Is it too early? Please share your experiences.
I'm 22 and he's 28.
2007-12-27 10:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's officially divorced. He came to me after everything finished.
2007-12-27 11:05:41 · update #1
he's going to do the same to you. good luck with that...
2007-12-27 10:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
well, i met with my current husband when he had been just 2 weeks separated from his wife. he even was still married.just moved away. since that he divorced her, sold his house, gave her 60% and married me and bought me a house. he is the best thing ever happened to me. all those male friends of mine were saying it is too early, he just wants to break free and *** around. as it occured he divorced his ex not cos he wanted to *** around but cos he didn't like living with her. i say go for it, whgat do u have to lose? is there a few billionairs waiting to propose to u? no? then what's stopping u?
2007-12-27 11:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing worse than a rebound relationship is one that started before he got out of the previous.
2007-12-27 10:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get hooked with the rebound. Let him be single for a while and date, you should date him also, but he needs to find out what he really wants. If he did it to one he will do it to two, three, four, and so on until he is used up and no one wants him.
2007-12-27 10:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wel, first, its not as if he got divorced in a day...when you say he got divorced 2 weeks ago, does this mean he separated, filed, or what?
i wouldnt get involved too quickly after a divorce, not a good idea, best to leave it alone for now.
good luck
2007-12-27 11:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by chantel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might be too soon. I would take it slow and make sure you are not a "rebound". Be smart. I am not saying this is always the case, just guard your heart for awhile.
2007-12-27 10:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has feeling for getting into your pants. I doubt he's thinking beyond that right now. Take it one day at a time and be careful not to be his rebound chick.
2007-12-27 10:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it
2007-12-27 10:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by justme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the heartship he went throu
2007-12-27 10:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by vintagemale1951 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it... he liked you during marrage so he likes you now... .
2007-12-27 10:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋