secretly emails and phones a member of the opposite sex from his contact list? My husband does this and thinks he's been doing it on the sly, but I'm on to him. And I hope you lonely women out there don't fall for his hot-looking avatar -- he's actually old, fat and bald.
2007-12-27 13:40:01 · 16 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I confronted him a coulple years ago about doing the same thing, and he got defensive and angry and took the computer and smashed it. Its my pc and I'm afraid he'll to the same to this one.
2007-12-27 14:01:38 · update #1
Sounds like you two deserve each other!
2007-12-27 13:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he's cheating, you'll figure it out pretty quick. For now he's probably just messing around and having a nice little fantasy. If you want to tap into some of his fantasy energy, get him in bed and tell him you want him to pretend he's been emailing you "on the sly" but that now this is your first time to meet. A little role play could really spice things up for you two. Enjoy!
2007-12-27 13:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the name of that song about the guy who places a personal ad and then goes off to the restaurant and finds out that it's really his wife who he's planned the secret encounter with??? Something about Pina Colada and Getting Caught in the Rain. I would really get his goat and make my own avatar and tell him how great he is plan to meet him and knock him on his old, bald, fat a**. Good luck
2007-12-27 13:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the first answer you got, about the song. That is the best answer I think. He would probably not play anymore. And when you see him eye to eye you can say you knew all along and just waited for this moment. He will be floored and then you can file for divorce.
2007-12-27 14:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by ★ღEngaged 2 my Soulmateღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Radio Shack sells a device you can purchase for somewhere around a hundred bucks that hooks up to the land line phone line and records. Maybe you should get one and start recording and saving the tapes incase he goes further and you decide to file for a divorce. Than you'd have a reason to take his *** to the cleaners and proof.
Mary in Beulah, MI. USA
2007-12-27 13:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And I hope you lonely women out there don't fall for his hot-looking avatar -- he's actually old, fat and bald
If you had a better attitude maybe he wouldnt be shopping around............................. Have you looked in the mirror lately ? Your probably not center fold material any more either.
2007-12-27 15:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd confront him and I'd be pissed. I'd throw a major fit and make him sorry he ever saw a computer. He may be some old, fat and bald guy, but he's your old, fat and bald guy. Make him pay. And then make him buy you something nice and take a hammer to his computer(or to him). Good luck.
2007-12-27 13:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by shadowdog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like an @$$, you should print out what you know and then take the computer to your mom or friends house. Then show him the printed evidence. Tell him you do not approve of this.
2007-12-27 14:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would email the women he is emailing and tell them he is married and send a pic of him also. Then I would get the best lawyer in town!!!!!!!
2007-12-27 14:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who use e mails are probably not cheaters. they feel that e mails will make someone think they are great,actually they are cowards,let him have his little game with the ladies. the ladies may be playing the same game
2007-12-27 13:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is smoke there is fire. If he's keeping it secret he has a reason for keeping it secret-like he knows he's doing something he shouldn't.
You need to decide if that's the kind of life you want and if you will live with it.
2007-12-27 13:45:50 · answer #11 · answered by cyranothe2nd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋