he shows signs of cheating but my heart believes him when he insists he is not.
2007-12-29 18:39:43 · 9 answers · asked by La La 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't really tell. If you don't trust him, you may always be suspicious about whether or not he is cheating. I think deep down people realize that if someone cheats once they are apt to do it again if they get into similar circumstances, they just don't have a level of moral development that prevents it.
If you are suspicious, there are ways to find out definitely what is going on.
2007-12-29 18:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for different reasons - some are rats, others desperately unhappy. If you have an otherwise happy marriage, you're probably worried about nothing. Don't look for problems, marriage is hard enough without making stuff up. If he is cheating you will know, you wont be asking us.
2007-12-30 03:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by hoona_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are signs do not believe your heart. You need to use your head. Find out the truth.
2007-12-30 02:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So did mine ( with me ) You just have to have trust and know you aren't the same person he married before. Don't look for signs this will drive you crazy. besides looking means you have no trust.
Been married myself now for 14 yrs. and have had no problems.
Trust and space is the key for us!
Communication goes a long way
2007-12-30 03:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Buster 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut feeling, if he cheated on his first wife with you remember, how you got him is how you lose him. There would be no reason for the signs if nothing was going on, and his credibility is not to high. Good Luck!
2007-12-30 02:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by ad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to believe your head not your heart.
2007-12-30 02:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you believed him, you must go inline with TRUST AND FAITH in him.
Only this way, your marriage will last.
2007-12-30 04:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the signs real or are you just paranoid and insecure?
2007-12-30 02:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by gimpee123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you accept him for what he is better you trust him...
2007-12-30 02:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by icepink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋