Dreams about cheating...?

Question

I'm pregnant - three days overdue, in fact. I've had a couple of dreams here and there about cheating on my husband. They disturb me, especially since I did cheat once, before we decided to get back together and before we decided to have a baby.

I think it's just nerves about the baby and all, but I wonder if there's a deeper meaning or something. What are your opinions?

Answer 1

I had a lot of crazy dreams all through my pregnancy but my biggest reacurring dream was that I was on a stage and in the middle of my speech my teeth started falling out one by one till I had none and my mouth was all bloody. I was told a myth that you lose one tooth for every pregnancy so I think that was why I had that dream alot. the being onstage I think came from the fact that everyone was looking at me when I was pregnant. people every time I saw them would touch my belly and judge how big the baby has gotten ect....
So for your dream Does your boyfriend know about your affair with the other guy? Maybe you are feeling guilty about it and it is causing you to dream about it. Or do you have deeper feelings about the guy than you thought? maybe its your conscience telling you you would rather be with him.
Or are you and your boyfriend fighting more than usual? Maybe it is just a way for you to deal with insecurities in your relationship by dreaming of being with someone else. Or it could be none of the above it could be just a weird crazy dream. Part of me believes dream have a bigger meaning in daytime life and a part of me believes they are just dreams!!!!!!!

Congrats!!!!! Motherhood is Wonderful!!!!! And good luck to you!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Sometimes in your dreams when you are with someone else other than your boyfriend, it can mean a few things. 1) Even though you are doing sexual things, it may not have anything to do with it. You could admire someone and their qualities that they possess. Admiration can be expressed in different ways. Dreams tend to me more action than expressive. 2) Pay attention to how you feel during all of this. Don't feel bad if you get a rush from any of it. Sometimes you might even feel guilt. But hey, if the end result of it all is that you appreciate or love your boyfriend more when you wake up, perhaps that's just letting you know that you'd rather not cheat on him in real life! Be glad that this is all just happening in your dreams and that there is no consequence to what happens in your unconscience!

Answer 3

Maybe you are a little disturbed about being over due ... then .. since you are experiencing these nerves - past thoughts of things which disturbed your life, surfaced again, and you dreamed of them because they are things which bothered you .. such as you may be bothered now with the baby past-due.

One nervouse thing ... linked to past nervous things .. which produced a dream about it.

Best of wishes on your little baby on it's way !!

Answer 4

I don't see how you classify your fling as "Cheating" since you imply that you were separated when it happened and so technically it wasn't cheating any more than him having sex with another woman at the same time would be. I think that you should stop worrying and have your baby and I wish you all the joy in the world, love yourself because you deserve to.

Answer 5

Yourare just nervous about the baby. The dream is just a reflection of the things you did. Froget about the past. You will have a new-born, that is the most important thing. Stay healthy.

Answer 6

Yes there is a deeper meaning...it's called a conscience. You feel terrible for cheating on the man who cares enough about you to give you the gift of life inside you, and you need to vow to yourself to never allow the kind of weakness that you experienced when you cheated on him to happen again. Marriage is sacred and doesn't have room for cheaters. Not only did you make a promise to him, you made a promise to God. Keep that promise from now on no matter what, and you won't be plagued by bad dreams anymore.

Answer 7

your hormones are all over the place right now,it is normal to dream such things

if you have no children it could be the fact that your about to be a mother.
that in your subconscious you know that your starting a family now you see it as settling down so your entertaining these wild thoughts of having sex with other men.

just enjoy your dreams that is what they are for

kind regards

good luck with baby

x kitti x

Answer 8

just nerves. i have those occasionally myself and i had kinda-sorta cheated before we got married. i broke off the engagement, went off with some guy, broke up with him, went back to hubby and have never looked back (that was 5 yrs ago).

i just had a little one 8mos ago, so i know how you feel. just relax, pop in a movie, put your feet up.

it may even help to share this with your hubby, he may be sympathetic to your plight, if he isnt already (since you're overdue). you may just need to him to tell you he loves you, a few more times, till you start yelling at top of your lungs that its all his fault (i.e. birth).

smile and cheer up! soon you'll have much more important things on your plate, and no time to dream. :)

Answer 9

Niki, your dreaming about cheating on him? Maybe you haven't forgave yourself. Are you over due on giving birth to the baby? Maybe you are afraid that he is going to cheat on you while you are in the hospital having the baby. Maybe you wondering if the baby daddy is your man or the person you cheated on him with. Maybe you are afraid of having a good relationship, the family thing and all and are trying to sub consciously self-sabotage the relationship. Your fears are creeping up in your sleep.

Answer 10

Your hormones are just out of control. No need to worry as long as you don't act out your dreams except with your husband.