is it time to move on! I have met someone else and she wants more.after being hurt how long should you take for yourself before moving on into anouther relationship. and when should I consider sex with this new person! I am kind of scared of a commitment at this time. you could say I am being very carefull not to get to close to her.and i dont want to lose her. but she wants more from me. what can I do ! or tell her so she understands where I am coming from. there are alot of question in this so please think about the previous relationship!
2007-12-29 16:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by rodwrnr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
trust me... you'll know when the time is right. don't push yourself. in essense you are greaving for a loss. Let yourself heal and put some time into caring for you. Hugs.
2007-12-29 16:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by SterlingRose7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months is long enough. It is time for you to date. You do not have to get into another commitment if you don't want to. Do not let what happened with the ex make you too cautious that you miss out on a great woman. As for sex, it would depend on how well you know her and for how long. It is good that you are being upfront with her, keep that up.
2007-12-29 17:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not time to move on. You need time to heal from this past relationship. How are you in a relationship where the woman is ready for more after only six months? How much time have you had with her? Tell her that if she loves you she will not rush you. Tell her to respect that you need time to heal so that when you are ready to make a commitment to her it will be with your whole heart and not with a shattered one.
2007-12-29 17:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by heather b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should take however long it takes you to feel comfortable in moving on. Don't push yourself just because of some societal "time limit". Everyone is different. If you aren't ready then you aren't ready and she should accept that. Anyone should accept that.
2007-12-29 17:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you when to move on only you can decided. but, who have to be fair to this other girl too. sit her down and tell her face to face. explain what you are feeling and how you want to handle these emotions. but, be honest!!! no mind games don't be afraid to say something because you don't want to hurt her. you never know that maybe she might be feeling same way you are as well and might want to take things slow too!
2007-12-29 19:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. It took me 2yrs to heal from a 3yr relationship.
2007-12-29 16:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't allow her to rush me for your sake and hers. six months is not long enough to get over not feeling guarded. it is only natural to experience what u r feeling. yes u should discuss this with her. she has no reason to be offended. and if she is then i would reconsider being involved at all right now.
2007-12-29 16:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by it stinks in here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn straight. MOVE ON. try it with the new girl. i had a girl dump me once (i am 13 btw) and i was sad for like a week. then i was over her. so if i can do it, then you can do it.
2007-12-29 16:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mikole??!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love like it is your first time - every time.
2007-12-29 16:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋