Marriage & Divorce - 29 December 2007

2007-12-29 16:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1

why is it that in some marriages ones they get married, the romance start fading. I remember a couple at an event, they ask them to kiss and it was as if it is a foreign thing to them. why does it has to fade?, can't it last for the entire life with the same intensity as it start? why do we have to arrange for something new can't it be spontaneously?

2007-12-29 16:06:50 · 24 answers · asked by John m 1

do you think she knows, he still thinks about me when he is with her?

2007-12-29 16:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by Schizo 2

My husband and me just got married in October, but we have been living together since last December and had our son in June.. so you can say we never really got to have the newlywed moment. We are fighting a lot (mostly small but today one large fight), and I know everyone says that the first year of marriage is the hardest but how was everyone else's experience? Today's large fight came down to him saying that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore, and I am not sure what to do. I love him with all my heart, and I try to show him when I can (when my 6-mth-old and his work/sleep schedule allows me). We have had 4 fights that have came down to us almost ending, but we have always worked through it and were fine after that. This is our first big fight while married, and I am worried that if these large fights continue that we could end in divorce because he doesn't think that this is normal. When things are good with us, it is nice.. it just isn't when it's going bad.

Any suggestions?

2007-12-29 15:41:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dated this guy for 5 years and he cheated on me with my best friend she ended up pregnant. he begged me for over a year to take him back. i wouldn't but i did continue to slep with him. the other woman moved with the child out of state and he was torn up about it and he asked me what to do. i told him to follow his child. while he was living out of state he called me about once or twice a week always telling me he loves me. i told him to stop saying that and he asked me why and i told him that love was gone from our relationship the day she took the pregnancy test. well about two years ago he married her. he said he did it for the child. a year ago they moved back and we continued sleeping together . the problem is i am pregnant and am so confused. i have not told him yet. i do still love him but the other woman will always be in the picture. help!

2007-12-29 15:40:37 · 19 answers · asked by adk_in_ar 2

I can't talk to just anyone about this and my husband don't understand, so I was hoping to talk to someone that might understand marriage in the sexual nature, and someone that understands Fibromyalgia.

2007-12-29 15:23:39 · 6 answers · asked by hwyshoney_2000 2

2007-12-29 15:21:31 · 45 answers · asked by toonice 2

2007-12-29 15:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by teetiemom 1

Some of you may have read my other posts...My BF is a decent guy, but he just does not get my motor going. What can I do to turn this around??
Has anyone out there been able to make the physical attraction happen?

2007-12-29 14:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is almost 3 months old. I love her but I've been thinking about leaving her and running away. I can't handle everything that's going on in my life right now. My relationship with her father is horrible. He's been physically abusive in the past, but he's constantly putting me down verbally. Everything he says just reinforces how I already feel. He's told me my life is ruined, my body is ruined, no one will ever love me, etc. I'm living with my family and we don't get along well either. I haven't worked in 6 months, I'm out of money for the first time in my life but don't know how to work with such a young baby to take care of. I'm so overwhelmed I don't know where to start. My life makes no sense anymore. I've thought about suicide but know I could never go through with it..so I've started contemplating running. What am I supposed to do? Where am I supposed to go? I don't want her to grow up with a depressed, miserable mom around. I know it's not her fault. Please help.

2007-12-29 14:41:58 · 31 answers · asked by Me 5

My husband was married before, and has three children from that marriage. His ex-wife will not follow the visitation as it is stated in the divorce decree, as he has not seen or spoken to his children in almost two years, as per her doing. She has decided that she would rather have him give up his parental rights and/or give them up for adoption to her new husband, than to allow him to have access to them. He has agreed to this, but we have no idea as to go about this without spending a lot of money (he pays $600/mo in child support on $9.50/hr). Is there any advise you could give me? We live in Missouri, and so does she.

2007-12-29 14:37:19 · 35 answers · asked by angbounds 1

2007-12-29 14:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by Missie 5

2007-12-29 14:28:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even though it has been only two months since he parted company from his wife.

2007-12-29 14:28:11 · 22 answers · asked by Annie 1

My husband and I have been married just over 11 years. We've got 4 children and 2 foster children at a time. All things considered, we've kept our romance alive pretty well. But do you ever miss that initial spark you have at the beginning of a marriage, or how 'new' it felt to be a wife, or a husband?

2007-12-29 14:24:28 · 14 answers · asked by Sonja 4

OK: We all know that the vast majority of us have had past relationship. My husband tells me that he has forgotten ALL his past relationships (ex-wife and ex girlfriends). He tells me that most men are wire that way-- once they end a relationship with someone, they don't try to remenisce (sp?) the past. He said it's natural to remember some things that have happened, but once the relationship has ended, all the feelings are out the window etc.
I told him that women are different. Most women will sometimes re-think, rehash, daydream about their exes. Heck sometimes most women(I've actually known some that do miss their exes).
Prior to meeting my husband, I did have an ex that I thought of and missed eventhough I was in a relationship. So I am inclined to believe that this theory is true. So what's your take on this? Who gets over faster, men or women. And do women really misses, think, daydream, wonder about exes while men forgets them once they are no longer part of their lives?

2007-12-29 14:20:12 · 18 answers · asked by Just a girl 1

My ex and I talked about our relationship and stuff. It was a bit explicit. My husband is angry and says that its over. Thing is, he's said it millions of times before and always comes back. His best friend is in town from college and he is staying at the friends folks place. We have a 7 mo old together. I admit 100% guilt for this. I had no business talking to my ex. My husband said that I am not to be trusted anymore and that I am scum.
1. Could this fight have been started because his friend is in town and I told him I dont want him around that guy?
2. Do you agree that it was wrong to up and leave and abandon his son and myself on a whim, as in he should have communicated with me
3. Do you think he will actually divorce or can this be worked out?
I feel so bad please don't judge me. He had neglected me for a guy friend the night we got home from vacation and I just wanted someone to talk to and the convo just shifted to the past.

2007-12-29 14:18:41 · 21 answers · asked by Retired Punk 2

he's mad because I asked this on here on Y!A
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoBRuyfx9V50cNJ4ZDQlb7rsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071229143931AAyjBv1
He said "why cant you talk to me about this problem ? Why do you need to ask people on here? Why do you need other peoples advice and why do you say personal things about me on here?"

what would your response be?
Im not good with defending my arguements, but Im sure Im not doing anything wrong > Thats all I know.
Please help !

2007-12-29 14:17:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

would u ever cheat on ur wives if there was NOWAY for sure your wives or anyone would ever find out?? even just once..?

my husband and i were reading this online 'sex' quiz and that was one of the questions..i found it kinda interesting...and to be honest my own husband declined to answer and just smiles..*got my answer*...but what about u guys..... would yu..or the real question is COULD yu...?

2007-12-29 14:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5

I have lived with my man for five years and i dont want to sound arrogant but all my freinds say that they cant believe I have going out with him as I am pretty (their words) while he looks like an ageing accountant. I think that is harsh and I love him to pieces and didn't get together with him for looks. He is the sweetest man ever. We are trying for a baby but he is having erection problems. Tonight we went to a party where a guy was trying it on with me and tried to put his hand down my skirt. I threw a drink over him and my boyfreind threw a punch at him but he ended up getting beaten up quite badly (broken cheekbone and jaw). He looks a right mess and is at his lowest as he doesnt feel like a real man as (in his words) he cant **** me or stick up for me. He wants me to leave but I love him. How do I get his self esteem back up

2007-12-29 14:01:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

does she give "it" to you enough? how many times a day would be your ideal amount? not a pervert, just curious.

2007-12-29 13:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5

I love him but I miss the intimacy with him. He just acts like he has no interest. I know there are other ways to be intimate I just need to get him interested again

2007-12-29 13:49:46 · 27 answers · asked by sharon r 2

I'm 12 and I dont want to tell my dad he is a jerk and my parents are divorced. What can I do? help!

2007-12-29 13:45:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married Life is a safer one for better living . Do you accept ?

2007-12-29 13:45:28 · 11 answers · asked by thalathamarai 1

2007-12-29 13:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Namir A 1

Been together 20 years
I love him
I believe he loves me
He's depressed
He doesn't work
He's becoming very passive agressive
Doesn't do his share any more (I work, he doesn't)
Children involved, not teens yet
He's got a chronic and expensive illness
No passion, no sex
Don't sleep together any more
He spends all day sleeping and most of the night on the computer doing first shooter games
He used to be addicted to online porn. I don't think he does this much any more if at all. That's really when I stopped feeling passionate towards him.
Used to help with parenting, now pretty much disengaged
I fear he's suicidal
He's becoming more outwardly angry
He has never hit or abused me. He has never really even yelled at me.


I feel responsible for him. He can't survive without me. No job skills. No insurance.

I committed to him for life when we married.

He's very depressed and unhappy with his life, but doesn't seem able to change...

What would you do?

2007-12-29 13:33:54 · 20 answers · asked by Florida Chica 2

2007-12-29 13:22:49 · 13 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5

He makes me so miserable. The ONLY time he gives me attention is when he wants sex. Everything I say or do is 'stupid' he doesn't trust me, I have NO friends, but he is out with his friends watching a ball game right now. I am the major financial supporter of the family, but he makes sure the kids are where they need to be. (They are 4 & 7, when we fight, they beg us not to get divorced) I couldn't continue with my current work schedule without him doing what he does. Most of the time I really HATE him, but occasionally he is in a decent mood and we get along. I try to talk with him, but he says the way I say things 'just pisses him off' so he won't talk about his mood swings. He blows up at me at the drop of a hat. I also do 75% or more of the housework, along with my full time job. He only works about 30 hours a week, and constantly is mad when the house is dirty or something he wants to wear is not clean. Please help, I just need some advice. We have 8 yrs behind us.

2007-12-29 13:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe both of you were unhappy in the relationships you were in when the two of you met...What if you then eventually married that person, only to be cheated on by them or you cheat on them? Can cheating be a vicious cycle?

2007-12-29 13:14:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

The husband has a good job. The wife stays home and home schools the 2 children. In order to help out, the husband does all the laundry. The husband also pays $200 a month for a housekeeper. The wife cooks meals and goes shopping. Oh, one more thing, she only puts out sex about once a month. Is this equal or is the husband being taken advantage of?

2007-12-29 13:00:14 · 18 answers · asked by BradNahler 2