2007-12-29 16:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your wife has to feel this from within. You can help her self-esteem by giving here sincere compliments, but don't just gush on and on to the point it does not seem genuine.
If you have children, SHARE in the chores to take time off her hands. Some women get so caught up in being a wife and mother, they lose themselves in the process. Give her time to nurture herself again.
But in the long run, it must be her to make the decision of who/what she is.
2007-12-29 16:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~GlammaGurl~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you cannot make her feel sexy, that has to come from within herself. But you can build her self esteem up in an honest way by telling her how much you appreciate, love and care for her.
Don't go over board, or it will sound like you are being too phoney. Be honest, talk to her in a sexy way. Treat her to something sexy you would love for her to wear.
Let her go to a salon and get here hair styled nicely for you. Something fresh, new and different. You can romance her, make dinner for the two of you.
Have a picnic in your bedroom with the lights dimmed low, your favorite (in the mood) type of music..some strawberries and wine..or sparkling apple cider...
Tease her with the strawberries a bit...let her bite a berry then you bite one..and take it from there...
If she is not feeling sexy after that! Go back to your Ex! (just kidding) but, it should do the trick..keep it simple, because simple is most appreciated!
You can do it..you're the man!
2007-12-30 00:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million different ways.
Try to remember back to when you were first dating. The way you looked at her and smiled with your eyes. The way you put your hand on the small of her back and let her go through the doorway first. The way you held her and kissed her forhead.
It is the simple little things that make a woman feel special again. Tell her she looks great. Tell her you are happy you married her. Call her and tell her your bringing home dinner and all she has to do is light the candles.
Get creative!
2007-12-30 00:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by tak 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to romance that woman, show her she is the most important thing in your life. That means flowers candy and other traditional things. Give her a sweet line every time you see her. Be her knight in shining armor. Back rubs, feet rubs, soft music, the whole 9 yards. Give her a look that tells her you want her. From there all you have to do is love that lady.
2007-12-30 03:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by DOC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a tip from Shaggy,Mr. Lover, and take her on a wonderful love rendezvous.Listen to his album Hotshot and you could get in the mood to get her in the mood too.That's what feeling sexy is all about anyway.
2007-12-30 00:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by kymikale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her something cute to wear to bed, talk dirty to her and tell her how much you lover her and the things you love about her while you are caressing her in all the right spots. Take your time and have Marathon Sex after that. Oh and don't foget the mood music and candles.
2007-12-30 00:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is sexy. Let her pick out sexy cloths and reassure her she looks good in them. Touch her sexily and let her know you want her only.
2007-12-30 12:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced. I'm sure she felt sexy when you were still in love before you got married. Don't blame her or yourself. Marriage even destroys soul mates.
2007-12-30 10:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how beautiful she is. when she is doing the dishes come up behind her and hug her and kiss her neck and tell her how much you appreciate her. when you have sex, dont just jump into it... lots of foreplay and hands on action...
a woman is very self consious about her body, so lots of attention when she is in her underwear or without clothes at all is nice too.
2007-12-30 00:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by baby_cakes_2758 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring me in the mix, i'll make her feel sexy and in a way you made her feel sexy too!
2007-12-30 00:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by JuVi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋