Some of you may have read my other posts...My BF is a decent guy, but he just does not get my motor going. What can I do to turn this around??
Has anyone out there been able to make the physical attraction happen?
2007-12-29 14:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a situation like this, it sounds like a lack of chemistry. I've been in your shoes before and I had to really think about what the problem was. It boiled down to the fact that I didn't like him in that way. I ended up breaking it off with him, we didnt' date for very long. It doesn't sound like a physical thing, it just sounds like there isn't any chemistry there, and unfortunately that isn't something to fix, you know?
2007-12-29 15:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. You can't control love. You can't force yourself to have feelings for someone!!! Leave him alone before you reallly hurt him. Whatever you do don't get married that only destroys relationships and would make it all worse.
2007-12-30 00:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.k - there is only one solution - COMMUNICATE, Tell him what turns you on. Tell him to watch some soft porn as some of it is not bad for techniques..etc. I watch it once in while to get new positions/techniques. There are also many books available to learn from but overall communication is the key.
2007-12-29 23:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by ensoman 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Your potency of igniting him needs to be adjusted in tune with his starting level.
2007-12-29 23:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. Get another bf. One who does do it for you.
2007-12-29 22:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
watch an erotic movie with him (porn); or some women learn to compartmentalize -- find one feature you like about him and worship that feature.
2007-12-29 23:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle W 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if it's not hapn naturly it's not sumthin u can force sorry it is or it isnt
2007-12-29 23:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by DAVE H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is not there you cannot make it be.
2007-12-30 00:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋