Marriage & Divorce - 29 December 2007

2007-12-29 12:40:38 · 27 answers · asked by justlilme 5

figure out what she wants to eat?
There are times where I have to attempt to approximate when I will be hungry in an effort to start the process two or so hours before hand... I'm just sayin'...

2007-12-29 12:38:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

please only reply with either Mum or Wife, and pls leave ur reasons why,
thnk u all. xx

2007-12-29 12:33:44 · 8 answers · asked by [вαвÿ løṿε] 6

My wife is 26 while I'm 43. We have been arguing a lot lately and we both went to a party at my bosses house. I am a timid man and i hate confrontation so didnt want to cause a scene but my wife (katie) wore a really short skirt and proceeded to sit on my bosses lap all evening while he continually stroked her legs, kissed her neck and massaged her feet. They went missing for a while and she came back with her hair all over the place, her gold bra strap showing, her skirt all over the place and completly barefoot. They must have had sex but on the way home she told me i was just paranoid. She's always flirty but is she cheating ?

2007-12-29 12:24:34 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your boyfreind or husband/Girlfreind or wife cheated and/or left you for someone of the same sex, or someone of the oppisite sex?

2007-12-29 12:24:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

to get your marriage license i live in indiana but have valid oregon id and he has indiana id will they still give us a marriage license?

2007-12-29 12:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by luvkisses 4

Thanks

2007-12-29 12:04:05 · 18 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

Consider this in the following context!
1. You have tried your best to correct him, but failed.
2. He does not return home some nights
3. He indulges in all harmful pleasures
4. He finds fault with you and your parents always
5. He borrows heavily and do not pay back and the lenders take you to task.
6. He insults his parents and press them for money
7. He pawns your jewelry and live high
8. His pleasure is to nag about me and my parents
9. He loves his children and buy expensive gifts for them and ruin them too
10. You have enough means to live on your own with children

2007-12-29 12:01:35 · 30 answers · asked by Nimit 2

i am having my 1st year married anniversary and i need some ideas to make a great evening for my husband and i. please help!!!

2007-12-29 11:59:13 · 12 answers · asked by blueangelkiss077 1

My family and some of my nephews and my sister were at Chuck E. Cheese's this past week and they had that cute little rat walking around and waving and I wanted my sister to take a picture of me hugging it and my husband said no b/c he said the rat might touch my "secrets" while hugging me and I then asked the attendent if it was a man or woman under the rat and she said it was a woman but my husband still said no!! I was so frustrated and went to the bathroom to cry (hormones!!). Was this fair? My sister got to hug the rat!!

2007-12-29 11:58:42 · 24 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

2007-12-29 11:58:04 · 20 answers · asked by hooters 2

2007-12-29 11:57:25 · 20 answers · asked by goodness 3

The court order reads...

Parent # 1 shall have parenting time with the child for one-half of the child’s winter break from school, and this winter break parenting time shall not include Christmas Day, so that Christmas Day is spent with Parent #2.

Would it be unreasonable to assume that this time would be divided by week and that it would be ok to makes plans for the whole week of Christmas? Or vice versa...

Please give opinions!!!

2007-12-29 11:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by Me 4

2007-12-29 11:53:21 · 15 answers · asked by pitch 2

I've been marred twice and my first wife has been married 6 times and is now divorced again

2007-12-29 11:48:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY BOYFRIEND AND I WAS JUST HAVING THIS CONVO. HE SAID THAT I AM HIS #1 NOW, BUT WHEN WE HAVE KIDS I WILL BE COME HIS #2. HE SAID THAT IT WILL BE THE KIDS THEN ME. I SAID THAT WE SHOULD BE ON THE SAME LEVEL.

INSTEAD OF IT BEING MY KIDS THEN MY WIFE, IT SHOULD BE MY WIFE AND KIDS.

WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?

2007-12-29 11:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by MISS TT 3

What are some of the things you look for when you know someone is lieing?

2007-12-29 11:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they start doing back flips wouldn't you say thats a good indication that your going to get the divorce without much of a hassel ?

2007-12-29 11:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had been single a long time when I married my husband. I loved him in a way, but mostly wanted to be married for security. The other day I heard the lyrics,
"She said she'd married her an architect,
Who kept her warm and safe and dry,
She would have liked to say she loved the man,
But she didn't like to lie."
Unlike the woman in the song, I realized that I deeply love my husband and am deeply appreciative of him because he does keep me "warm and safe and dry." Also, I realize that is how he shows his love... keeping me "warm and safe and dry."

2007-12-29 11:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 11:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by stillinshock 2

I was a pathological liar until recently. I got married in March, and I really love my husband. He knows I was a pathological liar. But he didn't know how serious. The problem is that when I first met him, before he and I even dated, I told him a few of these automatic stories that I tell everyone when I first meet them. I have never told him that none of those stories were true. And I always felt somewhat bad about it. But I haven't lied to him again. The problem is I wonder if I'm wrong for still not telling him the truth. I'm afraid that if I do, he won't trust me ever again or he might even leave me. I recently started going to church though too and I was told that I'm going to be "punished" for not telling him the truth and that he'll be taken from me. I wonder if I don't tell him another lie can I be forgiven for the ones I told him before he and I met ? Will he be taken from me if I don't tell him the truth about the first lies even if I never lie to him again? What can I do?

2007-12-29 11:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 11:10:18 · 18 answers · asked by valerier925 1

Wife doesn't believe that two people (man/woman) can just be friends. I had female friends (platonic) that she was jealous of and stopped talking to them because of my wifes insecurities. My question is this: Would you hide a friendship from your spouse to avoid conflict? There is an old friend (ex co-worker) I want to see (female) and I know my wife would make a big deal out it if I told her about it. What should I do?

2007-12-29 11:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks guys

2007-12-29 10:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

2007-12-29 10:48:48 · 20 answers · asked by thepaladin38 5

I felt I was being pushed away and had nobody to turn to. I fell for another woman when she was there for me and attempted to help me through my issues, however when my wife found out she finally showed some emotion towards me and let me know how she really felt. This was a first in several months. She has made several demands of me which I have met all of, however she has started doing several things which she knows bother me and she laughs and tells me she does not care when I ask her to stop (like smoking, it makes me ill to smell the smoke on her) it seems like she takes pride in it. I tell her I do love her and she only nods. We have 3 children and I do love her very much, but I feel like she is doing things that she knows will hurt me just to get back at me or push me away.
Also, I work, she stays at home with our son while our daughters are in school. I have a crazy schedule so I cant be home all the time, which adds more stress on me. I need help! Stay or Go?

2007-12-29 10:46:09 · 29 answers · asked by Zachary H 1

well , she dumped me initially ,as she thought she was too ambitious and i was laidback , also she was not very sure if she could convince her folks about this marriage ....Marriage is a big responsibility and she felt i would not be able to cope up.....so now shes married to sum1 elz , not happy with her marriage (nothing to do with her husband , jus that shes got a very modern upbringing and her in laws are very orthodox)...so i dunno what to do ? i still love her ? but am not sure ( if this helps the viewers in any ways ..i am from india ....and if we were to marry it would have been a love marriage ..not a common phenomena in india ) ......please help me out , though till date she is married , but plans to come back out of it ? i dont wana go thru a heartbreak again , in case she changes her stance .......

2007-12-29 10:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by crossroads 1

I was a widow making a decent annuity from my deceased husband. I make enough where I do not have to work. I have a small autistic child, and I am happy to be able to be with him full time. My new husband will not get a job because I make a pretty decent amount every month. ALTHOUGH since I have met him (and have another mounth to feed) I have been BROKE. I have asked him to get a job, but he won't. He is so wonderful with my son, I can not imagine he is with me for just my money. I have a small ranch that is more of a hobby than a money maker...I was going to sell it when my last husband died and find a smaller and more reasonable place. My new husband convinced me to stay here and I took my house off the market. So now I still have this huge house, a bunch of livestock and a husband who refuses to work. Am I being an idiot? Should I dump him and go back to my original plan? Or did I marry for richer or poorer...and I should wait it out. uuuggghhh....

2007-12-29 10:36:04 · 30 answers · asked by Pepsi_Frog 1

My husband is against it and feels noone should go into our bedroom. We are having 10 guests over for dinner tomorrow (my aunts and a cousin and his parents) and we have two restrooms - one of which is in our bedroom and the other is in the front part of the house. Most of these people are older (50's and 60's and my grandmother is 90), and I could easily see one of them having to use the restroom (especially #2) and staying for a while. Knowing my family, someone will ask to use the restroom in our room and my husband is going to faint. What am I supposed to tell them? I don't think it's appropriate for them to hang-out in our room, but if somebody needs to use the restroom they need to use it. If we only had one restroom that would be a different story.

Also, we just bought a new house 9 months ago so none of my family has seen the house. They are going to want me to show them every single room. What am I supposed to tell them regarding the bedroom?

2007-12-29 10:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

I am still very much in love with him, but he is changing drastically for the worse. He has become arrogant and full of himself, with no regards for my feelings. He comes and goes in and out of the house at any time of the day, and doesn't say a word. I am very attractive with a nice personality, and educated, yet he blames me for his personal flaws.

2007-12-29 10:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by anoname 1