well , she dumped me initially ,as she thought she was too ambitious and i was laidback , also she was not very sure if she could convince her folks about this marriage ....Marriage is a big responsibility and she felt i would not be able to cope up.....so now shes married to sum1 elz , not happy with her marriage (nothing to do with her husband , jus that shes got a very modern upbringing and her in laws are very orthodox)...so i dunno what to do ? i still love her ? but am not sure ( if this helps the viewers in any ways ..i am from india ....and if we were to marry it would have been a love marriage ..not a common phenomena in india ) ......please help me out , though till date she is married , but plans to come back out of it ? i dont wana go thru a heartbreak again , in case she changes her stance .......
2007-12-29 10:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by crossroads 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you happy with being 2nd choice?
Are you sure that someone better wont happen along again?
2007-12-29 10:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation as her...and even if she says she knows what she wants she doesnt. And she wont know for a long time to come. If I were you I would NOT take her back for at least a year after her seperation to make sure that you are not being used as a rebound. Good luck...
2007-12-29 10:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by shelly loves johnnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her beg, she sounds dumb i might say no, you're able to do greater suitable than that locate some person who can particularly love you 4 who you're and be sort 4 you and make you snicker and stuff like that ya comprehend? desire each thing works out! happy New 365 days!
2016-10-09 09:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the only thing I would suggest is to move on, even if she does go through a divorce.
2007-12-29 10:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by di12381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts, what makes you think, this time, she will be happy with you?
Run, don't walk, she is a train wreck just waiting to happen
2007-12-29 10:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by experienced in life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. If you go back to her. . . everything's going to be the same as it was before. Good Luck!
2007-12-29 10:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tough. i dont know. talk to her face to face and if shes not real and genuwine on her feelings for you then you should move on and not be so vulnerable. but if she truly regrets leaving you then TALK about possibilities, dont jump into anything. good luck.,
2007-12-29 10:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by H0tt_P!nk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On!
2007-12-29 10:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Riley's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN AND RUN FAST.... You were not the first choice and it wont work being 2nd pick....
2007-12-29 10:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by diva102288 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you like, date who ya like!
2007-12-29 10:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋