My wife is 26 while I'm 43. We have been arguing a lot lately and we both went to a party at my bosses house. I am a timid man and i hate confrontation so didnt want to cause a scene but my wife (katie) wore a really short skirt and proceeded to sit on my bosses lap all evening while he continually stroked her legs, kissed her neck and massaged her feet. They went missing for a while and she came back with her hair all over the place, her gold bra strap showing, her skirt all over the place and completly barefoot. They must have had sex but on the way home she told me i was just paranoid. She's always flirty but is she cheating ?
2007-12-29 12:24:34 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is a true story.......ummmm........DUH!!
2007-12-29 12:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly yes, if she did have sex, as well as they could have been dancing and she felt hot and took her clothes off, but you should be careful about talking about this in your bosses' place, or else he's gonna do something bad to you, and probably your wife will be angry with you, and your relationship will become worse. I also have a question was your boss like that too, if he was then they probably did have sex and thinks to marry people for their money, she did it to you and now she found someone with more money because she knows your sources,and then she probably flirts alot to get people's attention and than take their money. All she thinks is "oh all I have to do is cheat ha ha ha..." I'm sorry... I have a suggestion if you don't want to dump her, first quit your job, and move away with her if she won't than she has no respect for you and it's better to get divorced. It also proves that she was cheating on you and that she was probably after your money and not you and wasn't a good wife from the beginning. I'm really sorry ( a phycholgy book that I've read a million times would have this written inside if the author talked about cheating).
P.S Don't show your email to her do it in privacy.
2007-12-29 12:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Henry N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be a timid man but don't be a fool. I was told I was paranoid about a situation in my life. That's just an excuse to get your mind off of it and make you feel guilty for even thinking such a thing. That reverse psychology is a works on people who don't want to believe the truth. I was naive and I let my family make a fool out of me. I am wide awake now though.
2007-12-29 12:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say probably and I feel very sorry for you because I know how much this hurts. On the other hand I have to say this is what you men get by choosing a young piece of arm candy. It really makes me laugh when men think these young females are actually interested in them, they want something usually money. So take this as a lesson and find a mature woman your own age.
2007-12-29 12:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, I think you already know the answer to your own question, and your wife obviously is not scared to lose you. I dont know if you are asking if you should divorce, but why not build up your self confidence by taking some public speaking classes, working out, joining some groups that you are interested in or whatever thing you've been wanting to do? I think if you can build confidence, you can determine if she is worth being with or not. Good luck to you.
2007-12-29 12:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lilikoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you stand there letting your wife sit on your boss's knees and stroke her legs?? Hum, wake up man! she doesn't have any respect for you or for herself, send her back to her parents, and you should work on yourself too. It is not even a matter of "if" she is cheating here. I can't believe you let your boss do that in front of you!! Be a man, dump the lass and give yourself some self respect.
2007-12-29 12:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by yarzun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she let your boss treat her like that in front of you shows she has no respect for you or your marriage, so yes its possible that they did have sex. Why would you put up with it? Timid or not, take a hold of your manhood (figuratively) and tell her to quit it or the marriage is over.
2007-12-29 12:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounded bad ! Why not go to the source ... confront your boss ... say i know the truth dude ! then say don't you think you should give me a raise for this ? then dump her !! and if he doesn't confess or give you a raise ... torch his car !! you did say you where timid yes .. so an *** kicking isn't an option ya !what ever you decide do something .. if i lived closer id kick his *** 4 you .. only cuz i like to fight !!! but ur on your own. just don't take that crap cuz ur making all guys look bad ...
2007-12-29 13:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a full-fledged $LUT! You need to get rid of her. Let your boss take care of her and worry about her trashy and embarrassing behavior. Find a new job. You should have caused a scene. Any woman who would leave her man's side while at a party for him and HIS coworkers deserves to be kicked out. ESPECIALLY if she went out with his boss.
2007-12-29 12:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she was just trying to wind you up by making it look like shs is cheating. Maybe she wants you to be more assertive and sort her out, but then it sounds like your boss is already sorting her out, but perhaps he is just in on the ruse to make you think she is cheating.
Okay, I think she is cheating and you are being taken for a mug - either that or you are having damaging fantasies - you are definitely not paranoid so she is up to something if you are not fantasising.
2007-12-29 12:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you'd better get a new wife and a new job - she's either cheating or just very disrespectful to act that way at a work party.
2007-12-29 12:28:32 · answer #11 · answered by whatzername? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋