Your boyfreind or husband/Girlfreind or wife cheated and/or left you for someone of the same sex, or someone of the oppisite sex?
2007-12-29 12:24:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Opposite, because then you would want to know what your spouse saw in them that they didn't see in you. If they left you for someone of the same sex, well you wouldn't be able to compete with that.
2007-12-29 12:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
it would hurt way more with the same sex because you would want to be in on it
like **** i didn't know you rolled like that
damn i would have married both of you
as you can see this is eating me up just to write about it
and ya
maby i'm a little inexperienced in this issue
i'll let the people who know what they're talking about deal with this one as it can be a touchy issue
softie
but ya rock on same sex people
ya i would feel less jelous too because then you could say at least they're not a better man or whatever
it's a sexual preference thing
and who can compete with a women
or you soft ***
ya gutting good point
i'm learning a whole hell of a lot by reading this actuley
i was so ignorant of this issue
i guess i should lighten up
maby there's someone out there who wants me
2007-12-29 12:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both would hurt but I think I would be more hurt if they left me for the opposite sex. The same sex I may laugh about on down the road.
2007-12-29 12:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow both would hurt! I am a straight woman and have have been happily married to a man, my husband for 11 years. I would feel worse if he left me for another woman. If he left me for a man it would be different because a man has something I could not give him emotionally and physically. A woman is a woman and that would be more insulting to me. That is just my opinion though.
2007-12-29 12:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating hurts really bad regardless the gender of the other person, I do think that if you had no idea that your s.o. was swinging both ways that would make it hurt more than if you already knew they were bi and this was a possibility.
2007-12-29 12:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by LuvinCam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the pain would be about the same no matter who they left u for, because u still get abandoned, kicked to the curb by someone u loved and trusted. u are dealing with a betrayal and a loss. they still left u for someone else, chose that other person over u, doesn't matter who they left u for, your still going to be devastated, and your heart torn in pieces.
2007-12-29 12:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comparing relationships that are based on *love*, then I would imagine the pain is equal for a man who lost his wife to a woman, or a woman who lost her husband to a man.
If you're asking what pain would be worse - losing your lover to someone of a different sexual orientation than yours (you're gay and lose your same sex lover to the opposite gender, or you're hetero, and lose your lover to a gay relationship), or losing your lover to someone of the same sexual orientation, I would say the later.
For the latter, I think it bruises the ego more to lose your lover to someone who *could* be you. For the former, I think it would be easier to say - what could I do? S/he's not the same sexual orientation as me! Not *my* "fault".
2007-12-29 12:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would feel the same wether you got left for a man or a woman. When you are in love it all hurts when you are left or cheated on.
2007-12-29 12:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by just4fun87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you turned you boyfriend or husband/Girlfriend or wife GAY is quite hurtful!
2007-12-29 12:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by rahimj_27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would probably hurt more if she left me for someone
of the same sex.
2007-12-29 12:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋