Please read my earlier questions in this section. I am 35 & He is 40. We have a bad sex life. I need some serious help please.
2007-12-29 22:54:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
start with a home cook meal and a bottle of bubble...and you get high and do what you want with him let him know that you are in charge and he should just relax and enjoy...and you get in to some thing sexy and cook dinner in it and lt him watch don't for get make up....and have some sofe music like KC & JO one of the sexy songs thats should put him in the mood...
2007-12-29 23:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't know how people can improve their sex life without talking about it. Often people won't say what they like because of fear of offending the other person. Well, don't be offensive, but perhaps using things like ..'I love it when you...' or 'What do you like most? When I... or when I ...'
I also find that doing something naughty brings in some spark! Go parking somewhere ....lay out a blanket in a picnic spot.. go do something, somewhere, that you don't normally do. Ask about his fantasies and then when he's forgotten you asked...surprise him by filling it. (if its fillable, or as close as you can get to it).
Best wishes
2007-12-30 07:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by babsie b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about getting some sex toys?Does he show any interest in anything in particular.Try role playing or let him catch you in the middle of an interesting bubble bath,he may just jump on in,lol.
2007-12-30 07:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be at his prime! Start w/a good meal, some drinks(possibly), and start his dinner show for dessert!
2007-12-30 06:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't know Viagra was a spice. lol lol... and to think all this time I was using salt.
2007-12-30 08:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember it s a two way street you may have him wonderoing if you still like him. instigate some petting sessions, flirt with him
2007-12-30 07:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by crazzijimsmith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only hope is to have him invite his mistress for a threesome and make it a regular thing.
2007-12-30 09:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋