Marriage & Divorce - 30 December 2007

I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and he keeps promising we will get married but we never have. He says he wants to marry me, and can give no reason not too. He is such a prcratinator and don't feel he ever will, which discourages me. Can anyone help me and tell me why?

2007-12-30 01:26:54 · 17 answers · asked by luckygirl 1

Okay, so this guy I know is my co-worker. I'm new at work and just known him for about a month. He's a very friendly outgoing, humoros and generous type of guy. he's also very hard-working. He's sexy too!

He is nice to me and always pays attention to me. he's always be there for me when I need help. we are just like good friends. we talk about anyting and everything under the Sun. we are so much alike, ou personalities are so alike.

I can't deny that there is a strong sexual attraction between us. We flirt a lot but very carefully.
The other night, we went out for some drinks, talked about life and stuff. We ended up having a passionate kiss in the car and a little foreplay. we are so attracted to each other but we both agreed that we were not ready to jump into a relationship, basically just a fling.

After that night, we both act as if nothing happened. when working, we both are very professional and we work just as hard w/o involving what happened that night.

Last night, we went out again with all the co-workers. We went to party, even though we both were so crazy to hold and kiss each other but we stayed and played it cool. Deep down, I know he was very attracted to me and so was I. When I went to the washroom, he would accompany me and wait for me. I could feel that he really liked me.

On the way sending me home, again we had a very passionate and hot kiss in the car. He told me that he liked me. I said I liked him too. When we reached a very hot stage, when we were about to make out, he told me to make it next time. He’d want to make love with me BIG time but Not now. I was so curious why he would do that. I thought that we wanted to fulfill each other fantasies that we agreed on but why would he make me wait. I kinda think he’s playing me and when I asked him, he said he liked me and would want to take it slow. He said he wanted to make him remember me and want him even more.

I tested him and I asked him if he was trying to make me fall in love and just fooled me. he said no, he knows me well that I’m not kinda girl that will fall in love easily!

I don’t understand what he’s up to. If it’s just sex then just sex. Why to make it complicated? But there’s one thing I’m sure of is he’s very attracted to me.
Guys, what do you think he’s up to?

P.s you’re probably going to say he has a gf, ok even if he has, he can do me anytime, I know him. But I don’t know why all this stupid game that he’s playing??

2007-12-30 01:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and are have been married for nearly 14`years, we have had a great relationship but for the last couple of years its been on a huge downhill.we fight on a daily basis, there is no more lust, he lies to me constantly.believe it or not i want this marriage to last.we have two beautiful kids.
any advice is appreciated, please dont tell us to go to counselling as, he will not, he doesnt see that he has problems...lol

2007-12-30 00:55:03 · 19 answers · asked by boohoo 2

At the end of the walk she rubbed her hand in 3 small circles in the middle of my forearm. At the same time she looked in my eyes and said "You're all sweaty". I felt uncomfortable so I said nothing. Was she just being a friendly woman or more? Now, its about 8 months later and she seems to keep her distance from me all month long but then always bumps into me at the end of every month and asks if I've been keeping busy or asks sometimes if I'm seeing anyone lately. Even though I like her as a friend and I'm attracted to her, I have no desire to be more than friends nor friends with benefits kind of thing, yuck. Her and her husband are moving away for 3 years for her job promotion and then moving back here to the same house. Please offer your wisdom and experience. No comedic answers please. :)

2007-12-30 00:12:27 · 13 answers · asked by qwerty 1

2007-12-30 00:02:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous