Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2006

the couple has been fighting, and there has been some violence, but the injured person does not want to highlight that.

2006-11-05 23:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by annamma 1

2006-11-05 23:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by l c 1

2006-11-05 23:42:02 · 15 answers · asked by Tiong S 1

I am moving into an apartment with a married man on the 27th of this month. He hasn't been with his wife for about 4 months. She has filed separation and child support papers. She will likely file for divorce once she is told about the rental agreement we signed. He has two daughters, age 8 and 3. The 8 year old likes me and doesn't mind me hanging around or even dating her father, but she, like most children, ultimately wants mommy and daddy to stay together. Today, he told his daughter that mommy and him were never going to get back together and that he is going to be moving in with me, whether she likes it or not (of course, she's a bit upset, but he did tell her that he loves her very much and always will). It's very unlike me to get involved with a man in this sort of situation, but in my heart, i know it'll all work out. I need some outside feedback to let me know if i am in the middle of something that i shouldn't be in or if i'm right where i belong.

2006-11-05 23:40:03 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

Where can i find myself a nice farmer around 30ish who's looking for a wife???? - please don't say on a farm!!!

2006-11-05 23:38:10 · 4 answers · asked by tanyarose 2

My hubby just told on hisself by showing me a funny site that promotes single women on the side of it & in the area we live which means he set up an account. He said I looked at it but I couldn't get an account & you can check up on me . The old me would of jumped on that but that mess is not worth my energy. I just can't understand why it is important for him to lie like that?

2006-11-05 23:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by "karma" 4

I left him in gulf ,to settle in India and take chance of business to settle together in future,he was left in Gulf to earn sufficient by the time and come but didnot because he wasted all that money he earned going with another relation, then I have to force him, because I doubted he had already had a relation ,and when he returned, he used to say U dont have colour and so u dont get job .but I tried to keep him happy for sometime ,but I am now very much interested to earn for my children who r still college ,and he doesnt show interest,now he says if u dont sleep withme I will leave u and get another relation at the age of 60, I am bit tensed with things going in the family instead of supporting and discussing , should I agree with his going out even children say let him go if he not interested in earning or interest in children
he was not so before

2006-11-05 23:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by sharadhamurtikk 1

What do you think about online relationships?
What do you think of long distance relationships?
Does anybody have any stories on these kinds of relationships working out? is anybody currently in one? I'm just curious and looking for some inspriation i guess, because i'm in one.
Do they really work? realstically?

2006-11-05 23:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Skye 5

2006-11-05 23:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

My husband recently confessed to me that he had lied about some things. One of the things was huge, but the other wasn't. He has lied to me three times, and I wonder what else he has lied to me about. Aside from him being a good father and provider, the only thing he's done wrong is lie to me. Should I do a background check on him, or just hope he'll never lie to me again? I'm worried that he's done things I know nothing about, but I can't really expect him to tell me the truth, now can I?

2006-11-05 23:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell24 4

2006-11-05 23:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by daniel a 3

I am studing English in college too.This is my secound marriage .
We have some cultural personal diferences.Infact the first time I
asked him to marry me .I was in really bad situation(finantial and emotional).his parents was strongly disagreed because it was his first marriage and they prefer to choose someone who was younger than me,or one of their reletive.Now ,even after 12 years his parents try to destroy our life .Every night his mother call him
and wants him order him somethings .they say ,It's not your business.
he is our son...My husband is gree with them .they make him beave impolitely with me.and the worst part is that they made me to talk and keep in touch aginst my real feeling.they threatend to devorce me .I am worry because of my son .if I stay here I have to pretent
some fake behavior and if I want to go How ?without a high education certificient ,money ,close friend ,supportive reletiveor even pa
rents (they have died when I was a child)what do you think?

2006-11-05 23:05:10 · 17 answers · asked by bookshopfish 1

i like to know about you.

2006-11-05 23:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The love of my life cheated on me with a friend of mine. She cries and promises that she did not enjoy it, and she never meant for it to happen. She left me and moved to an apartment with him but they did have seperate rooms, she took all of our things there. I begged her to come back, when i finally gave up and decieded to move out of town she decieded she made a mistake. Granted we did have our problems in the years before this, and i certinally was no angle as far as being a great hubby. But still I remained faithful! So were back together now and she tries so hard to fix what she has broken, i still find myself not able to trust her. Was she really just fed up and just trying to get my attention? Should I trust her? We have ten years together and when we make love she looks into my eyes the whole time. She aid she was not herself and that she her friends telling her it was cool, i figured the friends thing already.Can friends really convince you that its ok to cheat on your spouse?

2006-11-05 22:56:14 · 34 answers · asked by Mr. Know It All 2

2006-11-05 22:52:21 · 14 answers · asked by shweta p 1

What should singles be looking when deciding to settle down? What was the deal break besides being in love with that person?How do you handle arguments differently than you did when you were single?

2006-11-05 22:49:50 · 9 answers · asked by Moca 2

do you think It a turn on when you know a guy Is married or do you think Its a turn off and If he asked you to fool around would you say yes or no .

2006-11-05 22:43:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kartik s 1

ok so this is the story - a woman has sex with another woman, and acheives orgasm, but feels really yuky afterwards and regrets the enitre episode.After some time this woman gets married to a man, but finds it difficult to acheive orgasm. She is not attracted to the same sex, and doesnt want to ever be a lesbian, all she wants is to be with her husband. How come she was able to have sex with a woman but not with her husband?. What can she do to have a normal sexual relationship with her husband - they are both very happy otherwise. Is there a website to get this kind of info?...

2006-11-05 22:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

2006-11-05 22:32:13 · 6 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

2006-11-05 22:16:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:09:32 · 15 answers · asked by Ur Master Captain 1

Would you remain married if you were not in love?

2006-11-05 21:49:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

How is it that a man can romance a woman until he gets her, and then stop being romantic because in his own words, he is not that kind of guy?

2006-11-05 21:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by ­Das  2

Here's the thing me and my ex got divorced after the divorce we were like best friends we also have a child he's 7 now and i have remarried 5 years now anyways he got involved with this girl and we didn't see eye to eye on that but it was his life...she's the type that cheats alot ...but hey some people change....Anyways 3 years ago she started working at my workplace and we actually became friends and she told me that the child her and my ex had was not his, well i felt i needed to tell hime the truth he was so mad at me saying i was trying to cause him pain and so on and has not seen our child in 3 years any advice would be good on what to do in this situation...i've tried talking to him he refuses to have anything to do with me or his son...I'm to the point where i want him to give up his rights but i'm trying to do what's best for my son...it's hard not to go up to him and smack the s*** out of him sorry a little frustrated...any advice anyone have a similar situation..thanks

2006-11-05 21:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watched my parents and three good friends go through terrible marriages. So at an early age I decided that I would never put myself through that kind of misery and I have yet to see a married couple that could change my mind. I was extremely honest to my girlfriend when we started dating about this, in fact I made it clear that if she was looking for a potential husband then I am not the guy. Three years later she is all of a sudden furious with me that I won't marry her. She even said the last three years will be a waste if we don't get married. I have repeated my beliefs on marriage countless times and so it's not as if I was ever confusing. Is there a way to resolve this or am I being put against a wall?

2006-11-05 21:20:35 · 17 answers · asked by 65Cobra 2

I have been married for 7 years, my husband is 25 years old then me. And he loves me very much, I was very happy with him until last summer when he was away for one month on a business trip. Then I fell in love with my colleague who was then just joined the company for a couple of month. My colleague is also married, so we had a love affair! Both of us didn’t plan to do it, but it was just happened. My colleague his wife lives in North of country and our company is in South. Therefore, they only see each other during the weekends. Anyway, my husband came back from his trip, I thought I would stop seeing my colleague, but I couldn’t, I am so in love with him!!! Sadly!! However, 4 weeks ago, my colleague resigned after only has been in the company for 6 months!!! No one know the reason, he just said he had family problems etc…I think his wife might found out somehow that we were seeing each other, or ….then he moved back to North, since then, I only had a few e-mails from him. He said he has problems with his aging parents and his children who need more looking after etc…to me, these aren’t real reasons for him to resign, as he had a very well paid position, it is almost impossible to have another same position again in his life ( because his age etc.) the sad thing was he didn’t tell me he was going to leave the company and back to North, didn’t even say ‘good bye’ to me, maybe he didn’t have time, I don’t know… but I miss him badly during last 4 weeks…it became like torture to me, also I have to pretend nothing happened when my husband is around…this love affair just like ‘ The Bridges of Madison County’ what can I do……………….. please help.. thanks

2006-11-05 21:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

i am 24 married with 3 great childern, ages 4, 6, 7, my husband works graveyard, and well sometimes i just feel like crying or sleeping, i am also scared that about nine months ago my husband cheated on me, so i ve been obsessing over every lil thing that i find different on my body. does evey wife act or think like this if they suspect their husband of going outside their marriage...

2006-11-05 21:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I split up about 4 weeks ago. We have both come to the conclusion that we still very much love each other, miss each other, and want to be together. But, she wants to wait 6 months. I'm stumped.

She tells me I am the one. She says she wants us to be together more than anything. I feel the same way and tell her lets work it out. But we can't seem to agree on the right method.

She believes that pushing it off for 6 months or so, finishing the divorce, and moving on with our lives (accomplishing our life goals, etc), then come back and see "how we feel" then is the best answer. She says that feels "right".

I, on the other hand, believe the opposite. I think that pushing it off for 6 months, ending the marraige, and "getting on with life" would be the death sentence for the relationship. I believe that if we both truly love each other and truly want to be together, that we should work on it as a couple. Marriage counceling, discussions, compromises, etc. Am I wrong?

2006-11-05 20:49:02 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1

My friend thinks it's 100% legal and I disagree. I believe it's illegal up to third cousins. Cause if you have a child with your third cousin there can still be problems... Please answer ASAP.

2006-11-05 20:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by Barbie73 2