Sexy,
Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.
I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.
I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.
With awestruck love,
Pumpkin
2006-11-05 22:32:13 · 6 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ummnnn She meant what she meant. Your a good man.
2006-11-05 22:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your girlfriend is full of herself---and tries to sound intelligent by her ramblings and blah blah blah----
I wouldn't respond....READ the last line of the email she wrote!!! HOPE MAYBE ---and SHE WILL BE BACK WITH YOU SOMETIME SOON----Just let her be the awestruck in love on her own!! NO response to her rambilings is the best position for you to take!
2006-11-06 06:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you gave her a major put down and she agrees with everything you said, so maybe you should reply with some nice things next time
2006-11-06 06:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to respond, keep your response simple and to the point. But more importantly, be honest.
2006-11-06 06:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is telling you that she is not your intelectual equal, she is a loner and Don't call me I'll call you.
2006-11-06 07:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she likes you and that you did read into her ways...and she may not want to admit them though...but sounds like she does want to see you or hear from you again...good luck
2006-11-06 06:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋