Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2006

i have been talking to a friend for like a year already.it ended up as an emotional thing.i met him in the weirdest way,by mistake actually.i have sisters,and theyre not with me,actually,all my family is back home.im here alone.but i was sending an im to my sister and typed hr name wrong by one dot,and that was him.and he said hi.i kind of thought about it but then responded and we have been in touch for almost a year.we call,and text eachother.we talk on cam.and nothing sexual.no phone sex or anything sexual.and now he wants to marry me.he iss going to relocate so we can be married.and im kind of freaked out about it.i mean we gonna date first,of course.and know each other face to face before we do that.but i never thought he would do such thing.i am just freaked out because of my children.i have three kids from a prev. marriage.should i wait,for my children to be older,before i have another relationship?i have been single for 2 years.and my kids are babies still.whats your opinion?

2006-11-05 15:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by super girl 3

This is the problem my daughter's father wants her to come stay with him for a week but I really dont want her to go. The reason I dont want her to go is that he is with the a new girl and she is pregnant and very very moody and mean. When he called to tell me he would like her to come stay a week I was like a week she dont stay a week only two days when he is off . So if she stayed a week she would be watching my daughter or whoever that I dont know will be watching her. Well in the back ground when I was on the phone with him she was bitching and complaing about something to him and putting me down . Something is telling me not to let my daughter go down there and stay with them but I want my daughter still see her dad but not when that crazy woman is around lol. just to let you all know it has nothing to do with me still likeing my ex I am engaged and I have a new baby. But my question is would you let your 3 year old daughter go see her father with this kinda situation.

2006-11-05 14:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4

I've been with my husband almost 4 years married for 1 1/2 this august he started colleage (he's going for his RN) but we can't afford for him to quit working to go so he is going to school full time and working full time. i also work a 40-48 hour week so we rarely get to see each other the one day that we have a chance of spending together is sundays but lately he has been spending his sundays sleeping to catch up from the week meanwhile i have my whole weekend off i try and clean the house and make things nice and then just sorta hang out by myself or with friends. i know that he is only doing so much work right now is to make a better lifefor us in the future. but i miss him he's here asleep right now but he may as well be a million miles away. and don't get me wrong this isn't about sex i can do with out that i just feel so emotionaly detached from him. and at the same time i feel guilty and selfish for wanting to spend time with him when he is trying to make our lives better

2006-11-05 14:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by insane illusions 3

my ex gf and I dated for 3 years, we were very close to each other , but chose not to be in touch with each other after we broke up. Its been two years since, she is married to some other guy now .
I have no problems with it, but what is bothering me is that she is travelling to the very same places that we had travelled to while we were dating, even staying at the same hotel and takes the same kinda pictures that had taken in the past, like standing in front of the same monument, sip coffee at the same cafe.
She then puts it on a site and she knows that I do check that site. Is she doing this for spite ? or is it her way of telling me that she has moved on ? or is she creating newer memories.

any thoughts ppl.

2006-11-05 14:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by boratwasfunny 1

2006-11-05 14:53:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbor spent 3 nights the third night I found them under the covers together. He treats her alot better than me. When she wants something he usually tries to get it for her, even though I am left home with the kids. He is always looking at her in flirting ways, watching her walk, and checking out if you know what I mean. Should I trust them together/

2006-11-05 14:49:48 · 31 answers · asked by confused 1

Earlier this year I met a really good guy. We talked on the telephone and then soon later we met in person and chatted for only about a good 20 to 30 minutes or so. We really liked each other. He told me I was cool and I thought the same about him. There just this one problem, He's married!

When he told me this, I didnt get the chance to ask him why is he messing around with other people when he's married. I forgot to ask him. He was a good looking guy, 26 years old, nice features and all. I was just foucs on how his looks was very appealing towards me.

We exchange conversation, but I didnt get the chance to get more information to where as he stays and his telephone number. But he did mention that he would of call me the next day, but he NEVER DID!

Now, I am trying to figure out where the hack he may be? I do not even have a number or an address and plus he's married. He drove by my house once, but shook his head as if he's not interested and drove off.

I'm upset and mad

2006-11-05 14:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by Shaun M 1

i was someones care giver and i was left something in the will and her power of attorney will not let me know

2006-11-05 14:45:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 14:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2

2006-11-05 14:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by mr.bill 3

...wouldn't let you see her house because she says that it's messy. As the months went on, she reveals that she is uncomfortable with you coming over because she had a bad childhood experience that makes her uncomfortable in her house. BTW, she has lived there for 8 years now. Come to find out, she lives with this guy who is supposed to be "gay", but they share the same bedroom in a 3 bdrm. house. Months go by and she says she's in love with you and invites you to her daughters parent/teacher meeting, then her daughter tells you that those 2 sleep in the same bed. When I asked her what we're doing for the holidays, she says she's spending it with him! I dumped her the next day. But WTF? I don't understand liars!

2006-11-05 14:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new partners EX is a total nightmare, and because of this I havnt met his kids as yet, which in turn puts me at arms length when it comes to family gatherings on his side.

It is not intentional, because she rarely lets him see his kids, and in fact there hasnt really been an oppertune time to meet them as yet..............so because of this my girls and I wernt included in a party last weekkend, because he thought his kids were going. ( and it wasnt the ideal introduction time )...........and his ex didnt let them go after all................so we were left out for no reason, am I wrong to feel upset ?

2006-11-05 14:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband is giving me a hard time. We have been divorced for about 2 months now and prior to being divorced I made a joke about still being together physically even if we got divorced. Needless to say we have been intimate since then but thats as far as it goes. He has played with my head a few times saying that he wanted more but then nothing comes of it. I kicked him out in March for cheating on me again. He was a scumbag being both emotionally and physically abusive as well as cheating on me numerous times. I found out recently that he is seeing someone and I cant be the other woman considering how much it devastated me. I mean I could care less about this other woman but I just cant do it to myself to be the other woman. He is giving me a hard time now that I have gone against 'our agreement' which like i said was a joke in the 1st place. He is really getting to me and I dont know what to do. Any advice or past experiences with sit. similiar to this are welcomed. thx:)

2006-11-05 14:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by serenity113001 6

I dont want to ask him cause i want it to be a suprise cause he isnt expecting
anything.

2006-11-05 14:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by ashley w 1

2006-11-05 14:12:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried Victoria's secret lingerie, role playing, and talking dirty. Just running out of ideas!

2006-11-05 14:07:23 · 22 answers · asked by wendy h 3

2006-11-05 14:03:54 · 20 answers · asked by Maggie T 1

My best friend of 15 years got married last november she had a baby in september and now her and her husband are splitting up her husband is abusive and refuses to help buy things for the baby and it's not because he doesn't have the money it's because he doesn't want her going anywhere but he won't go with her to buy the baby clothes..she calls me and asks me what to do and i've told her to get out of there and that she can stay with me if she wants...Am i doing the right thing by telling her to leave her husband?

2006-11-05 14:03:01 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

people talk of mid life crisis' at 40, 50 but most people i hear about dying do so at 70 yrs old or before. I feel a bit lost and i'm 32 surely i'm the one having a mid life crisis. At 50 i'd say it's an end of life crisis.

2006-11-05 13:58:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men hide there feelings?do you men ever show how you feel. ive been with my man for 6 years and the only loving i get is before sex !!!! im trying to figure out is it just him or are there more out there like him?

2006-11-05 13:57:06 · 23 answers · asked by mima 2

I am a newlywed and I always thought that my husbands mother and myself had a very good relationship.Before I met my husband, I had a personals account that I hadnt been on in over a year and is automatically taken out of my credit card,which I obviously did not pay attention to or I would have cancelled it.I live in an extremely small town so everyone knows everyone.Well, last week, my n-law called my husband and told him that there was a man in a nearby town that was thinking about asking me out because he had been talking to me via the internet on my personals account. This man, didnt know my name, but new what my career was and in what city I lived in and how many kids I had...this is all of the evidence that she had of this...now here is the funny part. we were in such a serious relationship via the internet..but he didnt know my name! I explained all of this to my hubby that it is easy to find out anything in small towns. Now his mother thinks im a cheater.

2006-11-05 13:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by Shana H 3

I want to get a divorce from my current husband who is incarcerated doing a 10 yr sentence. He has7 more years before his release date. We were married 4 months after he was sentenced. We were married by proxy.How do I go about getting a divorce, without the high prices of attorney fees.If he doesnt contest the divorce, will it be a fairly simple one? We have no children together, and no personal property to dispute.

2006-11-05 13:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by Jessie1971 1

2006-11-05 13:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by alpinegirl77 2

Today is his day off he works 4 days a week, 3 off . Its now 8:46 pm and he's been watching movies since 10:am. He does this everyday off. he's either watching movies all day, or on the internet all day and doesnt like any disturbance.He doesnt go anywhere with me and the baby. He doesnt do anything around the house on his days off, just sit there and ask me to cook for him twice a day. He gets so mad if me and the baby goes in the living room playing or making any noice. I get ignored all day everyday and i do everything alone. The only way he interacts with me is sometimes he'll come where im at and grab my boobs, or my butt......but no conversation, no nothing.All sexual...What could this be? Its been like this everysince we've had the baby. Shes almost a year old.

2006-11-05 13:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by Kristi A 4

my dad is 43 and he has been "seeing" a girl that is about 30 yrs old and has 4 kids but the oldest is 18. I am 25 and for some reason he doesn't want to bring her to Christmas dinner at my house. So my question is why not? why doesn't he want me to meet her? also do you think it makes her "skanky" to have a son that old?

2006-11-05 13:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I say no !!! As there is not much in it as it is for a guy as it is....lol.

Its a way for a woman to immasculate her man.....

There's nothing more cheesy then names like:

Example: Mr. and Mrs. Hayworth-Kellerman

Just Stupid !

2006-11-05 13:50:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 13:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by victoria 1

My husband wants to get a divorce and we have a one year old together who I will never give up. We moved to a new place from VA to TX and I have no job, family lives overseas and do not know what to do now. Don't want to take my little girl away from her daddy but really have no future where I am at (moved less than a year ago) What is the best thing to do next ( legally and physically)

2006-11-05 13:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Cherie 2

When I saw my husband's ex that he cheated on me with, she was SO ugly. I'm not just saying that because he cheated with her. I mean other people have said it too. I know of other people this happened to as well. If a man has a good looking woman, why does he go to the trash for something else?

2006-11-05 13:37:38 · 36 answers · asked by Angel2 2

When these "titles" are used to refer to a girlfriend,boyfriend, or spouse...

I personally do not care for it, but I hear it quite a bit.

2006-11-05 13:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by rottymom02 5