Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2006

Today I found a card form another man that my wife works with. He the card it had mentioned that he couldn't wait to see her again and wait to make love to her. he also mentioned that he wanted to feel his skin against her's. I bouted her out and put her sh*t on the front porch. Now, I know I shouldn't feel bad, but I do. I have been married for over 8 years and am really confused. I know who the guy is and I would like to go over to his house and give him a piece of my mind. I'm not the type of person that would do that. It's just the way I feel. Has anyone ever been thru this, and how hard is is to get thru. I'm still in love with her, but am extremly pissed about the AFFAIR. Some please help. Thanks for Listening.

2006-11-05 09:50:55 · 30 answers · asked by beachdog 1

ok here is another weird dream. I live in a house my x ownes its in our divorce that I can live here untill our youngest turns 18 then he gets the house and he is responsible for all repairs.. in my dream it was late at night, my daughter was upset because the electric was messed up and making odd noises come from the lights. we argues about it and I sent her to bed. I was in the kitchen and bent to get something from the oven and when I stood up there was this man, he grabbed me around the neck and forced me into another room, he was stabbing me when my oldest came up behind him and hit him in the head with a very heavy iron skillet, I remember my oldest tellng my youngest to tell send a message to my boyfriend and tell him, while she called 911 and I just laid there crying telling my oldest that she did a good job hitting the guy in the head and that I was proud of her? what the heck does this mean!

2006-11-05 09:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by latrell m 1

I know someone who always buys respect with money,but lately no amount of amount money is buying him NOTHING!!!!!

2006-11-05 09:48:11 · 5 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1

2006-11-05 09:47:26 · 31 answers · asked by jar 1

This question is really for the married girls, but I would appreciate any answer. If you had a friend that was a guy, and your husband did not want you to hang out with this guy at all or be friends, would you stop being friends with the guy or would you tell husband that he is being insecure? The guy has been a good friend for a while, but husband seems to think he has other motives, even though he is married himself.

2006-11-05 09:43:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 09:41:44 · 22 answers · asked by Dave J 1

and happly married my qestion is,is it normal for me not to want to have sex anymore i love my husband but its hard for me to get turned on and i want to fullfill hes needs sexually, hes had a visectomy done cause we dont plane on having any more kids but how can we keep our sexualfeelings met. any seggestions.

2006-11-05 09:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Up until 6 months ago my husband had been very distant towards me and our 3 year old daughter, he would go out all the time, had one affair that I know of, drank every day and 6 months ago hit me. Prior to him hitting me I had been so disgusted with his behavior and lonely from him not being around I had started talking to someone over the phone (someone I used to work with). This person was sweet, funny, flowered me with compliments and helped me through this difficult time. My husband learned that I had been speaking to someone else and that I was going to leave the relationship because I wanted better, that's when he went crazy and attacked me. Long story short, since the incident he has stopped drinking (sober 6 months now), is home every night, is very active with our daughter and is trying so hard to be a good husband...BUT..in that time I have developed feelings for this other person and no matter how hard I try I can't stop thinking or wanting to talk to him...

2006-11-05 09:38:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 09:38:45 · 7 answers · asked by Jim_Darwin 2

After 30yrs. of marriage we have been seperated for 5mo. I am in a men's support group, took a men in relationships weekend course, going for councilling, seeing a phsycologist, volunteering my time at the s.p.c.a., working out 5 times a week, quit drinking and smoking. Is this what they call working on yourself?

2006-11-05 09:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-05 09:34:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious answers only please. My sex drive is creating real problems in my life.

2006-11-05 09:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by applecheeks 4

2006-11-05 09:19:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me what resources did you find helpful in getting healing?

2006-11-05 09:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by Panda Lover 2

2006-11-05 09:15:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jim_Darwin 2

Since the day my husband asked me to be his girlfriend, his ex-wife has given us such hell! She's let us see Cindy (their daughter) four times in this year. I had to get a anti- harrasment order on her because... long story, he tried to modify there parenting plan because she was always deinying her to him or comming over unanounsed and taking her from us. Our order has expired, I saw her at the mall on Holloween, as I walked up to them and she recognized me she ran! I've gone to her house and called her phone, but she don't answer. Yesturday she called me back and told me to butt out of her business, that it's not my place and that I have no right to do what I'm doing!! problem

He's my husband, we have a child together, he's been violent to her and he's had problems w/ drug use, a couple more reasons why she say's she'll make sure we never see her, because he's a looser and don't deserve to see or hear his daughter... who the hell is she to make that dicision?!

2006-11-05 09:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by JLO 1

help! my dad and my boyfriends mom had an affiar. what should i do???

2006-11-05 09:10:54 · 13 answers · asked by gabby 1

Hyperthetically
If you are straight, and you had to sleep with a person of the same sex who would you choose ?

2006-11-05 09:09:29 · 23 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5

I found out my husband bought this girl a b-day card. If he was having an affair with her would it have been more. Please keep in mind i knew nothing about her until she text him one night r u busy it said. They both say they never had sex. They just talk on the phone every now and then. We been married seven years one son. However she said they kissed he said she kissed him, my whole things is she lived down the street from his cousin house. He was at his cousin house alot playing the play station. They have known each other now 2 + yrs. The next day after I called her from the text. she text him again saying all the pain in heart she thought he was a true. So I called her and asked what does that mean, she said he couldn't believe he lied to her. she said that she knew he live with me, but don't know we were married. He also lied about his age.She said he had no reason to lie they were just friends. So do u think he was having an affair with this person? R was he just being stupid?

2006-11-05 09:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we were dating, my husband got on one knee and made a sweet proposal. When I said yes he said he was just kidding. He wasn't ready to get married but wanted to "feel me out". It almost cost him his future wife!

2006-11-05 09:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7

Name a person for each of the 3 catagories below

1 One you would mave as a husband or wife
2 One to be your mistress / or male bit on the side
3 One to have as a 1 night stand

Anyone at all, use your imagination it is just for fun

2006-11-05 08:55:50 · 20 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5

I FIND THINGS ON THE INTERNET WHERE IS HAS BEEN TO TWO DIFFRENT SINGLES SITES. AND LATELY HE IS ACTING FUNNY, HELP ME OUT.

2006-11-05 08:51:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate my house hold we all get along well enough but my wife, son and step daughter are pigs! I am at the point I want a divorce. Is there being slobs grounds for divorce??

2006-11-05 08:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Tiger Crane Master 3

I know that these things happen but she did the same thing with her first husband. (she left him for another man) I think she needs professional help because this is becoming a pattern for her it seems...I feel really bad because her husband is such a great guy and was completely blindsided by this. Is it wrong that I am mad at my friend? I feel like a friend should be supportive but at the same time my heart goes out to her husband who has become a great friend to me and my husband.

2006-11-05 08:44:05 · 11 answers · asked by Mally 3

Currently he blames us for his attack. I was told that if he does not take responsibility for his actions, he will never be reformed. Making it very likely he will attack again. I want to help John, but I don't know how. Quite honestly I feel very sorry for him, he's lost everything and the people who loved him more then anyone else on the face of the earth. I know that John absolutely adored his kids. He can't possibly be happy without them, they were his biggest fans. Despite who or what he uses to try to fill the void, he cannot. Because I know at some point he will be involved in their lives again. I want that transition to be smooth and heathly for both the children and John. Deep down he is a good guy who just needs a lot of heathly encouragement. So I want to help begin the healing as we move forward with our own lives. I have another amazing man in my life who also wants to help, but we are not sure how??? Please help!
Please do not add sarcastic answers, this is serious!

2006-11-05 08:25:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My German husband and I have been married for two years. We live in Germany. This October I went home to the States and also spent time with my male best friend, which I met 13 years ago ... and I fell in love... very much unexpectantly so. Do I have these feelings, just because I am homesick? Could this be anything more? I am so confused!

2006-11-05 08:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by laya_sarai 1

He has always said that I am his best friend. he has made christmas/easter/valentines day cards for me and not for either of his parents. In school when asked to wite about his hero he wrote about me. I love him to death and hate to see him left with just his parents who are both unstable on some level.

2006-11-05 08:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

2006-11-05 08:06:02 · 20 answers · asked by mercedes t 1

seeing something horrible??

2006-11-05 08:02:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 08:01:04 · 22 answers · asked by Brendon B 2