Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

Why would a man who says that he was broken hearted when his marriage ended after 10 years and two kids later. Turn around now that he is divorced and have his own affair with a married woman with children of her own? He said he would never do it but is now in fact having an affair of his own?

2006-11-07 23:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1

Please try not to be judgemental. I have fallen in love with a muslim man who is married with two kids. I have known him 6 years now and have been sleeping with him for three of these years...... there are times when I get confused.... because he mumbled a little prayer before the first time consummation occurred and he as asked me many of the questions it's good to ask when you're considering marrying someone, including how much money do I require to live each month... these things make me think he wants something more......

then out of nowhere he suddenly does not want me to call him..... he does not come over as often...... he is going to move his family to another country for a year or two...... his wife is suddenly upset when my name is mentioned.. or I talk to him. I feel as though he is cutting me out of his life......he says he does not want to hurt either of us and he will explain it all at a later date?
What do you think about this situation?

2006-11-07 23:57:31 · 11 answers · asked by who me? 3

have you watched it, it is brilliant would you and your family ever consider it...what rules would you have...what sort of family would you not like to go to...how would your hubby or wife cope do u think?

2006-11-07 23:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife starts her course next year and would be nice to get her something original that has a link to midwifery. Any idea or links greatly appreciated.

2006-11-07 23:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by dididave 2

I had been in love with my boyfriend for more than 6 years. he had also been my childhood pal, and more then love there was this feeling that i cant describe when i was with him.
then one day he died in an accident, and i was the last person he ever spoke to. Its been nearly 4 years now, and i have shed enough tears that it seems i don have any left to cry anymore.
the pain of that memory lingers on and on, and i have tried my best to put this behind me, but i cant, it raises its head in all depressing situations. I have strange feelings of guilt that may be i could have foreseen it somehow and stopped it..
Now everybody wants me to get married but i really dont know if i can ever love again. how can i put this behind me ?
thanks.

2006-11-07 23:36:46 · 16 answers · asked by Ice B 1

She didn't tell anyone, but my husband found out from his mom, should i get her a present or send her a card?

2006-11-07 23:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by sunflower 2

baby don't hurt me,don't hurt me,no more,

srry just joking around

2006-11-07 23:22:17 · 5 answers · asked by Lord Hazzard 1

2006-11-07 23:19:31 · 4 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

what can this mean-i had a secret afair for more than a year-its over now- and i am with my husband again-does this mean that i am satisfied now or just the opposite-i am confused what it could this mean.

2006-11-07 23:17:52 · 6 answers · asked by miplayworld 1

A friend of mine called me last night and was very upset. She said that she met a guy that she really liked (apx 45 years old) and single. She said that the date went well but he has not called her again. Therefore, she called him. He told my friend that he needed to be honest with her and that he could not see her
anymore. She asked him why what is the problem? My friend is very pretty and has a great personality. He said that he could not see her because he is involved with a married woman that he really cares for. He went on to say that the woman that he is dating is married and has been for 26 years and is not planning to leave her husband. But that he just could not stop seeing her although he knows there is no future in sight. My friend is single and brings more to the table. What's up with this guy?

2006-11-07 23:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1

good riddance!

2006-11-07 23:07:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 23:06:40 · 29 answers · asked by heeert y 1

I am looking for advice as I am unable to think straight.

I married for almost 2 years now. I love my husband alot and he loves me too but there is no spark in the relationship anymore.
I am not at all attracted to him and we haven't nade love in ages.
I just dont get aroused even if he makes an attempt. My mind always keeps thinking about something else.
We live with his mother and even though she is a nice woman, she is biased towards me and my husband gets a little defensive when I say something about her.

There is lots of hugs & cuddles and warmth and (love too) in our relationship but thats it...nothing more than that.

I dont know what to do?

2006-11-07 22:58:22 · 23 answers · asked by uk_girl 1

im 23 & i feel i should be able to handle it, but im just not keeping it together. i completely understand why its happening, they've just grown apart.

2006-11-07 22:53:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sianie 1

2006-11-07 22:37:48 · 20 answers · asked by jeevan k 1

im in love with my love and he is a turkish. What is the proper way or what do turkish people usually do? does the girl family go see the guy's family or vise versa and if do so what you do or give a gifts? especially those muslim turkish family. your help most appreciated.

2006-11-07 22:36:43 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4

2006-11-07 22:11:52 · 20 answers · asked by hotbitch69_xoxo 1

My wife comes from a pretty dysfunctional family history. Basically every woman in her family(mom, grandmother, aunt, sister) has linked up with a dog. Her grandfather and father both have had mutiple children and affairs outside their marriage and hit their wives. She has talked to me about this and said she feels like she was able to break the cycle by acknowleging the pattern and seeking to change it. She also has said that she knows "a man like me" will eventually leave her for someone else, and admitted that at times she tried to sabotage the relationship to avoid getting hurt when I inevitably leave her. Over the last few years I have continuely seen her trying to sabotge our relationship. Whenever we have the slightest disagreement she threatens to leave. These threats have become daily events and it has put me in a constant state of apology and unhappiness. She Will not go to cousiling. My soul can not take my wife telling me everyday she is going to leave me. What do I do?

2006-11-07 22:09:23 · 20 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

2006-11-07 22:00:01 · 15 answers · asked by RAV 1

she looks many, many years younger than her actual age and for the first few months we met, she hadn't told me how old she really was. I found out by accident one day and we decided to continue since we were "just having fun" and it wasn't serious. but things have a way of getting serious the longer you stay with someone, so now it doesn't feel like "a one night stand that lasted a bit longer than normal". it feels like a proper relationship, since we get along, have similar sense of humour, etc. we have actualy moved in together too but we're both pretending that it's just for the convenience of halving the rent and nothing more. of course, that can never be the case when two people that are involved sexualy live together. so, my question: i can't break up, can't do it. but if this keeps going we'll eventaully end up getting married and then I'll regret it later. so will she! i'm not being selfish. the age difference is too great. what do I do???

2006-11-07 21:45:43 · 19 answers · asked by Neo 2

Ok people, we don't have much money at the moment. Had to spend $3000 fixing the car and it is amazing how electricity and other bills get send just before Christmas.

I want to get my wife something different for Christmas, has anyone got any idea's? She is a great women and she deserves something special.

2006-11-07 21:32:45 · 16 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3

2006-11-07 21:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by runu 1

2006-11-07 21:29:23 · 3 answers · asked by Clean chit 1

m trying to save d marriage. me & my kids moved out from my parent's place then rent a house to stay with him. I didn't told my family abt this. My hope for better future for our family fades. He drinks a lot. He always go out with his friends. Living as if he was a bachelor. He always start the fight and loves showing it to our kids. He accused me of having an affair and even calling me a "prostitute", He does not care about the rent, the daily expenses. He let me shoulder everything. I want to get out but I'm scared of him. Im scared of his violent behavior. Shall I discuss this with his father? Shall I run to my family and ask for help?

2006-11-07 21:14:10 · 13 answers · asked by frampton 1

My husband and I have been married for about 9 months. He has already cheated on me at the 5 month mark. He said he would never do it again. I believe him but I am still a little suspicious. I have a problem with him having so many female friends. He friend male and female only call him on his cell phone when he is at work. The do not call the house often. I told him that makes me feel uncomfortable but I don't think he understands. I just want to be treated like we were when we were dating. He treated me like i was the only woman on this earth. I don't want him talking to any women on the cell phone. I want to trust him on the email and when I am not around. I just want him to think about my feelings before he does anything that he knows might bothers me. Is this to much to ask for. Please give me advice because I don't know how much more I can take.

2006-11-07 21:11:38 · 12 answers · asked by T.C. 2

My husband and I have been married for about 9 months. He has already cheated on me at the 5 month mark. He said he would never do it again. I believe him but I am still a little suspicious. I have a problem with him having so many female friends. He friend male and female only call him on his cell phone when he is at work. The do not call the house often. I told him that makes me feel uncomfortable but I don't think he understands. I just want to be treated like we were when we were dating. He treated me like i was the only woman on this earth. I don't want him talking to any women on the cell phone. I want to trust him on the email and when I am not around. I just want him to think about my feelings before he does anything that he knows might bothers me. Is this to much to ask for. Please give me advice because I don't know how much more I can take.

2006-11-07 21:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by T.C. 2

2006-11-07 21:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by rattan 2

hi, i am a 27 yr old married man from past few months..I am very lucky to get her as my wife.She is a nice girl and we respect eachother a lot.i love her a lot and i know that she too loves me.But my problem is she is too shy in bed.She tries to hide herself too much when i kiss her and i find her shivering when i hug her and try to make love to her . She does not complain or tells anything about her problem .She is very silent and sobour kind of gal. I have a feeling that she is too shy and scared to discuss about that.but somehow i want her to make her feel happy and comfortable with me in bed.( i am very much big made compared to her...is it because of that)I am sure that she do not have any bad sexual experiance before our marriage. Will my problem be solved if i rape her once. But as i am very big compared to her , i fear about how do i approach her that way....I really dont want to leave this girl as she is a very nice girl but i desperately want to have her.

2006-11-07 20:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you thought your man might be cheating....throw flour on the ground at your doorsteps and parking spots to see if anyone came in your appartment while you were at work?
Or would that be over obsessing?

2006-11-07 20:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is unopened and unused.

2006-11-07 20:38:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous