Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

I am trying to think of something really sexy to do for my husband. Last time he saw me I had just had our son. He is coming back from a tour with the Navy and I am in much much better shape. When he comes home I want to do something sexy and show off my bod. Any suggestions??

2006-11-07 07:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by Kara C 1

she can't ask this can she?

2006-11-07 07:06:36 · 18 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3

My friend was in the process of a divorce & married again 1 month before her divorce was final. Why you ask? because the 1st husband she hasn't seen in 5 yrs & the new husband was being deployed in a month to Iraq & deployment is from 12 to 18 months. He wanted to make sure that she & her children were cared for by the military should he die in combat.

2006-11-07 07:05:38 · 5 answers · asked by Isis 1

He does not generally like gifts. Unless it's something he can definitely use, a tool, surfboard, etc. It's his birthday and I have nothing for him. Guys, any suggestions?

2006-11-07 06:56:43 · 8 answers · asked by Forever 6

My husband and I have 4 sons together. Our oldest is a product from my husband and his ex. Our second oldest is from me and my ex. We then have 2 together. Regardless of this situation, we have been together since my oldest son was 5 mos. old, and my husband is the only father he has ever known. Although I am very upset, I do want to make clear, the role my husband has taken on, with "our" son. He is very wonderful with them all. Anyway, today, as I was having a heated discussion with my mother, she decides to throw in some info., about my husband that I was completely unaware of. Come to find out, My sons biological father has been writing letters all along, and my husband has been reading them, and then throwing them away without even telling me! My initial reaction was, "does he not trust me?'. Then it turned to "what could the letters have said to make him throw them out!" It then turned to "He told my mother!" All of this time, I thought that we had an honest relationship! Help!

2006-11-07 06:50:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How much will he stand for if he loves the girl? Once you have his heart, do you get to keep it, or should you worry you'll lose it?

2006-11-07 06:48:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife does not make alot of money but refuses to give me joint custody due to my past drug and drinking problems....She says if I give her sole custody she will work with me on visits, and involve me everyway she can but wants sole custody becasue she feels I am controling, and also she is afraid I will continue drinking and doing drugs (although I have been sober for 3 months). Our son is 2 months old and I want joint custody, will the court give that to me if she can not pay to fight me for it? How can she win in court if I have the money? I should not have to prove sobriety to her, or work with her, he is my son and I think it is unfair she only will give me supervised visits. Help me

2006-11-07 06:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having an affair with a man for the past several months. I thought about leaving my husband for him, but decided not to. I am now trying to patch up my marriage with my husband.

The problem I'm having right now is getting the "other man" to accept the fact that it is over between us. He doesn't want to let me go (and no, I don't mean that in a psycho kinda way).

How do I get rid of him in the gentlest way possible?

2006-11-07 06:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by Gianna 1

get over the pain from your spouses' affair ?
keep the self rightous answers to yourself only answer if you stayed with them and worked through it thanks

2006-11-07 06:41:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband mention he wanted to go and I'm not sure how i feel about it. I'm not total against because i have never been to one before and am just curious however i feel nervious about it.

2006-11-07 06:37:49 · 42 answers · asked by Jen 2

Hes hit me seven times in the last few months.The first four times i think might of been my fault though,i have a baby daughter to him which is the reason i havent left him but i have recently found out i am pregnant again and he still keeps hitting me,and hes started taking it a bit thurther now but he says its fair because most of the time i hit him back,is he right?should i leave him, ive wanted to for a while its just now im pregnant again and hes still not stopped im really scared that he might harm the baby but he keeps saying he will stop and i no i should of left but i love him more then i have ever loved anyone pluss he a great dad,please help i really dont no what to do?

2006-11-07 06:36:52 · 81 answers · asked by angel.candy 1

Please tell me what do do? I love them both and I told them this, I told my pregnant wife I will dump my girlfriend once she's back to looking the way she was before being pregnant, but she insists I be her only lover and cannot stand my girlfriend who is way better looking than her.

2006-11-07 06:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

Can you blame me? My lover is like a live wire, and he electrifies each & every part of my body whenever we make sweet love to each other. The aroural he makes me feel is total & irresistible. My husband, a workaholic, is a complete bore as he's always tired from work. My lover, who is actually my husband's cousin temporarily staying in our house as he looks for work, is so strong & virile his penis is always very hard & ready to give fulfillment to my feminine beeds. Should a hot chick deny herself an opportunity when her husband, though a nice guy, is boring her to death?

2006-11-07 06:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by sweet&nice wife 1

I have been married for 17yrs, have 3 children and have been living in misery for the past 5. I want a divorce, but my controlling spouse claims it will be the end of his world. He has some anger management issues among other things and just want let me go.

2006-11-07 06:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by agpilotsd 1

2006-11-07 06:30:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

here awhile back i found alot of pictures ofnaked woman on my husband pictures on intenet,he said i dont know why i did that,and he quite,for awhile,and now today his got another one on there,how do you make him stop getting this off the internet?

2006-11-07 06:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by celeste t 1

My husband and I started swinging with other couples and single women and I think I prefer women now over men. I still love him alot but I prefer a womans touch to a mans now. What should I do? We've been married 6 years and I LOVE him dearly but getting busy with women REALLY does it for me now. We have no kids.

2006-11-07 06:28:25 · 10 answers · asked by SallyBoBally 1

2006-11-07 06:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by delightingdiva 1

mum is special and dad is more than special so who do u love most between thme? hard to decide innit?

2006-11-07 06:19:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

lately it seems as though everything is depended upon me what can I do. My children are only nine, eight, four, and one my husband works 12 hours a day I hate to pour everything on him at the end of the day what should I do.

2006-11-07 06:17:04 · 23 answers · asked by oreo29 2

I have been married for 2yrs going on 3 and my husband thinks I don’t trust him. I always compare our relationship to my parents and he hates that. My dad cheated on my mom all the time and I think my relationship is going to end up like that. He has never cheated but I can’t get it out of my head that there is a possibility. His friends talk about him saying that he has no balls but what the hell do they know there single. What should I do I feel that he resents me because I don’t like him to go out with his guys I am so confused.

2006-11-07 06:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by Short and Thick 1

My lover says he prefers to put his kissmark on my armpits as it will easily be hidden from my husband. But i find it so arousing i may give in to his fantasy of his taking me annally. Any other suggestion on where to put his kissmark with my husband not easily seeing that i have it on me?

2006-11-07 06:13:15 · 17 answers · asked by sweet&nice wife 1

...an emotional abusive narcisist and the last time you spoke with your sister was supposedly "the last straw" and she was leaving him and filing for divorce...but you just heard that she and her husband will be at Thanksgiving dinner?!!! It's completely out in the open now that her husband is an abusive SOB. He has threatened to take the children. She's afraid of him. But he is joining us for dinner??? How am I supposed to sit there pretending that everything is okay??

2006-11-07 06:12:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I brought up the topic of divorce. He agrees. We have no children, no major leagl ties like a house and we WORK TOGETHER. We decided to get a divorce 1 week after my grandfather's passing and this was a week ago. This is the beginning of the whole situation and I feel nothing but sadness and fear. I haven't been single in 10 years and the prospect of dating and all that scares me to death. I feel like my whole world is imploding.
How long will it take for me to get on my feet emotionally? Any suggestions?

2006-11-07 06:04:41 · 23 answers · asked by LadeeBug 2

My husband has a job offer that will pay him 10 to 15K more a year. The catch is that the job is 4 hours away. This mean he would have to have small apartment and come home on weekends. Should he take the job?

2006-11-07 06:00:49 · 17 answers · asked by missblue 1

2006-11-07 05:58:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm talking from my own experience & from the experiences of the many married women i know with lovers on the side (well, who doesn't have? C'mon, be honest that we girls are more prone to the guilty pleasures of playing with fire, right?). Whenever my husband feels insecure & shows jealous feelings that leads to the usual husband-and-wife quarrels, copulation with my lover is always an unforgettable event, and the lovemaking becomes more intimate. Why is it so? I'm just curious. (Girls only, please!)

2006-11-07 05:56:14 · 17 answers · asked by sweet&nice wife 1

what the best to get a woman to fall in love with you?

2006-11-07 05:52:56 · 17 answers · asked by JASPER G 1

2006-11-07 05:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by mich 3

I have primary custody. We divorced in Alabama. She moved to California. She refuses to let the courts know where she works or lives. She is already 6 months behind in childsupport. Please help.

2006-11-07 05:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by silliw1961 2