My husband mention he wanted to go and I'm not sure how i feel about it. I'm not total against because i have never been to one before and am just curious however i feel nervious about it.
2006-11-07 06:37:49 · 42 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you do decide to go, first find out if they allow females in the club -- some do not allow women, even if they are escorted by a man. Also, look for a club that is a restaurant, not just a bar, you will feel more comfortable.
And of course, make sure that you go with him to an all male dancer strip club afterwards :)
2006-11-08 10:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wouldn't be happy with it. If my husband wanted to look at other women and fantasize about having sex with them, I'd rather not be dragged through the ordeal. Frankly, to stand next to him when he is clearly perving on other women is half way to supporting it, and I certainly do not support such activities.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I don't write into FHM to complain about sexism in the media and I have no plans to blow up the Playboy Mansion ...
I guess if you don't mind, then go. But don't do it if you don't want to. The only reason he has asked you to come along is so that he doesn't feel guilty (like I said, being there is permitting/possibly endorsing it in his eyes) ... so if you don't approve, don't go!
Or you could really turn things around. I bet he wouldn't be too comfortable if you got up and started stripping, dancing for other men and such. Could be interesting though.
2006-11-07 07:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Appropriate for who?.........Who are you worried about?.........Yourself or society?...........I can not promise you that you'll have the "time of your life" because this kind of thing is NOT for everyone........You may be very uncomfortable.......You may experience levels of excitement you do not enjoy or understand and it may scare you a bit........But you really should go and check it out and see what all the fuss is about.....That is really the only way you are going to know if you like it or not.....I use to work in a club and many. many husbands and wives came into see us......we even became friends with some of the couples....."They were cute"..........And it is a nice break from he typical JERKS that we had to put up with day after day......I don't know if you will like it or not but the girls will give you extra attention and that will be fun for your husband.........Go in with an open mind and maybe a beer or two and you will certainly have an experience you will not soon forget.....Have fun!
2006-11-07 07:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watching any form of pornography is pretty much the same thing as cheating. Why would your husband want to get his sexual stimulation from watching other women dance around naked on a stage? I think you should tell him you don't want to go and you don't want him to go, that your marriage is sacred and precious. You need more self respect, then maybe he will respect you enough not to suggest stuff like that.
If the two of you are having problems with your relationship or your sex life, a strip club is NOT the place to find healing for that, and if there is nothing wrong with your marriage, a strip club is the perfect place to pick up a whole lot of problems!
2006-11-07 06:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by make_every_second_count 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I used to work the door at strip clubs. On some nights, there would be 3-5 girls all coming together and lots of married couples too. Especially if there's a special girl dancer, wet t-shirt or other event going on.
2006-11-07 08:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by mikecook987 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will do you no harm. He will perform a bit better in bed afterwards. Once you've seen the club and got used to what the girls do there, why not perform there when they have a wives' night or an amateurs' night? I've done that, with a boyfriend in the audience, and it is a strong turn on for both of us.
2006-11-07 06:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont be nervous cause it is quit fun to go. ihave went to several different strip clubs and they are all the same. it is fun to watch these icky girls get up there and think that are everything and it is always a fun time. then tell him that you want him to go to a male strip club with you that is even funnier then the womens strip club
2006-11-07 06:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by angie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I go to a strip club together almost every weekend! I think it's really fun! As long as you are comfortable with your sexuality and with seeing him look at another woman, I would go for it. It gives you a chance to go out together (and drink if you do). I love it!
2006-11-07 06:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went to a strip club with my husband, sister and her husband, we had a great time. Its just for fun. oh and by the way, don't sit near the stage unless, you want attention from the strippers!
2006-11-07 12:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure why not if you want to. If he frequents these sort of places on a regular basis.. then i would worry and put an end to it. If you want to go and he wants you to, then go see what it's like for yourself. You will then know what goes on in these establishments and can decide if you like him going or not.
2006-11-07 06:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋