Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

Im pregnant and my fiance left me, he now decides after months he wants involved in the child's life. ONLY because he has to pay child support, I guess he wants he pound of flesh in return. I can survive without his money even though it will be about £400 a month, but Im sure I would not see him for dust if I said your free to go and live elsewhere and I promise not to claim a penny? What is best in the long run? I personally would be glad if I never saw him or his emotional mind games again. So I think not to claim, for my own sanity, but my Mum's says why should the child suffer financially because his a twit.

2006-11-07 10:30:11 · 23 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2

A key just in case she can't find hers to the house?

2006-11-07 10:18:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

been in a miserable marriage for 10 years.A stay at home mom for 4.want to further my education to be able to take care of children better and leave husband but he is in total control of finances and keeps putting me on hold.I don't have any friends or support other than him. Not looking for hand outs, just need to know where to go, how to start.

2006-11-07 10:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by depressed homaker 1

my bf of 2 years just broke up with me. He siad he doesnt love me anymore. He has tried to break up with me a few months b4 to focus on school, we are both in college, but he decided to stick around with me anyways. so he said he doesnt love me anymore. he was my best firned and my only firned, now im all alone. I would like to be just friends with him, and he wants to be friends too but i dont know how to go abotu it. i know first i need to get over this. and he said we might try going otu again after the semester is over..... i dont know what to do. he is my first bf so i have never been in a situation liek this b4. im 19 and he's 18. I know hes realy confused abotu school and everythign right now and works almost 40 hours a week which is aot, plus me. i know he needs a brreak from things and one of them is me......but it just hurts that he said he doesnt love ma anymore, we always talked abotu gettgin married, i thought he was the one, he was eevrythign i ever dreamed about in guy

2006-11-07 10:09:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad and mom are married and pretty happy... they fight sometimes. a few months ago i found a condom in my dad's truck... i called him today and he wouldnt tell me where he was. should i be worried?

2006-11-07 10:08:06 · 20 answers · asked by moi 1

I am in my late 20s and my husband is in early 30s and he acts like its the end of the world if I want to go somewhere. He works all the time and i stay at home all the time w/ our kids and i want to get dolled up and go somewhere. He doesnt seem to enjoy anything anymore but deer hunting. I am so ready for hunting season to be over. We already have 1200.00 worth of stuffed deer on our wall why cant he just do something with us? We dont get to go out by ourselves but maybe once a year and anymor its not as exciting as it were when we first started dating. Just wondering if any other couples have as spouse like this and if so can you get them to enjoy life and quit acting like their old folks?

2006-11-07 10:03:43 · 10 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3

I haven't been the best wife and surely not the best daughter or sister in law. My husband and I are working things out but it means a lot to him that I get along with his family and frankly they hate me. I'm not sure where to start. My separation with my husband has really humbled me because if someone didn't like me in the past I could have cared less. I realize that's not right and that life is too short to be like that. Besides, in the end all we really have is our family nothing else really matters. How do I fix these relationships? I'm very afraid of rejection that is probally one of the reasons I adopted this I don't care attitude in the first place.

2006-11-07 10:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by Dena B 1

My ex and I are divorced. After the divorce it took a year for the man God had for me to find me. He lives 12 hours away from here. Now we want to get married next summer and I am going to relocate there. My ex has made several threats saying "You better not put no man over my kids!" He is always questioning my kids as to whether I bring anyone over to the house. My kids, knowing his temper, always tell him no. I talked with an attorney who told me that I have every right to move because I have full custody of both kids. However, I must let him know where we move to. My question is, do I tell him before the wedding or wait until after the wedding and give him his new visitation rights? I am not trying to keep him away from his children . I want to tell him in all fairness, but I'm afraid that he may try to hurt me or worse. I have a restraining order against him but I feel that a piece of paper will mean nothing if he knows I'm leaving and taking the kids.

2006-11-07 09:59:41 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. Hodges 2

First, it was Tom Cruise, then it was Brad Pitt, and now its Britney who got divorced :'( Why do you think their marriages fail? What makes a good marriage?

2006-11-07 09:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by DN 2

i know about his girlfriend...he told me all about it,...this site and the answers he got...should we stay married....have an open marriage...or should i kick his *** out...but the sex is good...and im scared of diseases.....what should i do....

2006-11-07 09:56:52 · 17 answers · asked by luba 1

we have 2 children together, I have just found out that he has signed up to a gay website, he is abviously looking for a man. Please let me know your thoughts on what I should do.

2006-11-07 09:54:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

please can you give me some advice, our relationship is at breaking point and i dont want it to end like this please give me romantic idears some thing speacial not something we can do out together because we have children we cant leave any where

2006-11-07 09:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2

2006-11-07 09:50:13 · 11 answers · asked by legalsecretary27 1

2006-11-07 09:42:33 · 35 answers · asked by Cathead01 1

please share stories about your divorce stories ....the messier the better ...thank you !!

2006-11-07 09:41:16 · 7 answers · asked by maya v 2

I read that she filed for divorce this week. If that were true then what will poor Kevin do for money because obviously his ''talents'' wont get him anywhere!!!!?

2006-11-07 09:39:18 · 40 answers · asked by angel l 3

2006-11-07 09:37:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 09:36:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you think your woman is that shallow, then why be bothered with her. We don't mind telling ya'll *ss the truth? I think alot of marriages would be saved if the men told the truth and not what he thinks the woman "needs" to hear. You all are not that smart to think for us. Stop it and tell the truth or do nothing that you need to cover up from us.

2006-11-07 09:32:25 · 17 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

2006-11-07 09:30:07 · 18 answers · asked by la dolce vita 3

2006-11-07 09:20:26 · 33 answers · asked by teresa 68 1

2006-11-07 09:06:49 · 4 answers · asked by concern woman 1

In grade school, we were taught that lying is bad, but we were also told 'If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.' When is it best to tell the truth? Are there ever circumstances where lying is the better choice for both parties involved?

2006-11-07 09:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lived in Miami with a woman that falsely accused me of battering her and her child whom i believe to be my daughter. I was put in jail for months until my family found out. Now, out on bail I went to my father's house to find that she moved to the same town!!! This lady is not a t all trust worthy so If I file a restraining order she'll find out where I am... Should I do it?? Would I get in trouble??

2006-11-07 09:01:35 · 18 answers · asked by lvsshanom 1

I was married for 13 years. Man, I loved her. She cheated on me, we're divorcing and I am heartbroken. It has been almost a year, and I am not making much progress. I've had half a dozen girlfriends. I am a great guy and normally pretty tough, but this is getting to me. I cannot seem to get over her. Someone give me ideas. This "time heals" thing isn't working nor does sleeping around. Real advice, please.

2006-11-07 09:00:21 · 13 answers · asked by bigwheeler19 3

My boyfriend of 6 months who is a doctor tells me loves me all the time. He has taken me on many trips and we have a lot in common like best friends. However, he likes to get high on several differnt types of drugs and diump me and go out to clubs and hit on girls. When he comes off his high he wants to get back with me and promises he' s never cheated but I seriously don't believe him. He's out of the country right now but I'm thinking I should break it off when he returns next week for good. Need advice.

2006-11-07 08:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by Venus 3

what i mean is, my husbands exwife keeps calling and trying to get him back. can i sue for alien of affections, and what can be the punishment? I remember reading something like that in another state.

2006-11-07 08:47:37 · 10 answers · asked by WOOMEEEE 1

My husband and I have been married almost 10 years. We separated a year ago and during that time I was in a relationship with another man. I broke off the relationship and my husband and I have been going to a marriage counselor. We are back together now, but he holds the "affair" over my head and uses it to get his way in arguments and to justify any bad behavior he does. He says he can't live without me and loves me more than anything, but he can't (won't) forgive me. I understand that infidelity takes a long time to get over. (I have dealt with the same from him) I just don't see much of a future if he can't forgive me. Should I seek divorce? He is using the past as an excuse to look at internet porn and join in cyber sex groups. I fear that this will eventually lead to him having an affair. He is destroying what little we have left and I don't know what to do.

2006-11-07 08:45:50 · 20 answers · asked by Texas girl 1

If so, how did you cope?

2006-11-07 08:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by oasis 2

Meet up with him 2 years ago. I was seperated at the time.He said he's always loved me and said he thought of me on a daily basic. However he's married and his wife has always known how he's felt for years about me. She is O.K. with this and we are best friends. But???Is this weird or what?

2006-11-07 08:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Spanky 1