please can you give me some advice, our relationship is at breaking point and i dont want it to end like this please give me romantic idears some thing speacial not something we can do out together because we have children we cant leave any where
2006-11-07 09:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when the kids are asleep probably best at weekend if you work you wont be as tired, you could wear some sexy underwear and dress up cook a nice meal then have sex in different rooms, try watching a porn film together depending how kinky you are there are a lot of sex toys you can use on each other, maybe just a sensual massage using oils with candles and incense burning would be nice for you both, or you could tell each other your fantasies and try and do them, maybe you could get a babysitter for a few hours and book in to a motel or even park somewhere in a car that could be exciting the risk of getting caught, only you know what turns your husband on just think about it and what you can do together, justmake sure you lock the door if you have kids you wont want any awkward questions.
2006-11-07 22:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all sounds nice but I think you need some time alone every week. It is so hard to get this with kids. go for a family walk for the day to a nice place where the kids can play. Talk about the kids and what it will be like when they grow up. All that time you'll have and all the babysitting you will do for their children. It will get easier when the kids get older. keep it together and remind each other of the good things. Hold your tongue even if the other doesn't. Try not to say stuff that will hurt and give the other some space and time without kids, ie take them for a walk and let the other get a lie in one morning of the weekend. The walk will do you good too. You can have lovely moments around the children if you can get rid of the stress. I am in the same situation at the moment and the walks are the only thing that works. Also, although I haven't tried this yet, ask a neighbor or a friend around for dinner and ask them to sit in with the kids when they are asleep just for that adult supervision and go out for a walk or a run together for an hour at least once a week.
2006-11-07 10:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like normal to me. Try to remember why you got together in the first place, and make sure to spend some time together to discuss how you plan to bring up your child, and other things that are on your mind. It doesn't really matter if you disagree, as long as you don't overdo it in front of your baby, who just wants to feel that they are safe and happy. You might have to spend quite a bit of time to redefine what your roles are in the new 3-some. You guys aren't just who you were anymore, you are now parents. Get as much sleep as you possibly can. Sleep deprivation is one of the worst things, and won't be helped if baby is stressed out by your arguing. You need to stop arguing before there is any hope of the spark coming back. It's certainly not too late, but be very careful not to say anything in the heat of the moment that you might regret later. Once out in the open, these things can be very difficult to heal. Good luck anyway.
2016-05-22 08:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some romantic music, have candles burning, have a bottle of wine, two glasses, some flowers floating in a bowl of water, white roses preferably. Dance for him. Have something like Sade playing. It's exotic and sexy. Make him want you. Smell good and be ready to do anything even beyond your norm. Don't let him go until he is spent and full of your hot body and love.
Man give me a man here and watch me show him how much I love him...........
2006-11-07 10:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a table and 2 Charis set out with a nice table cloth and a vase of flowers. Get a bottle of wine with some fruit or chocolate and have the by the table. Play some soft music and when the kids go to bed talk to each other like it is your first date. Enjoy each other. My husband and I like to play poker we play strip poker or do something spontaneous. Just remember you fell in love with her you just need to remind each other how much you still care for each other.
2006-11-07 10:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the kids to a babysitter, gramma and grampa, or a neighbor or someone. Go to the dollar store, buy tons of candles, run a scented bath, or take a shower together...nice music, nice undies, give him a sensual massage...oil your body up and slide all over....you get the pic.
2006-11-07 10:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you know what kind of type of appearance is his favourite,change yourself,a new hair cut,sexy and fun clothes,going with his desires that you ignored before,lots of things that you can remember from past that seemed unworthy and uncomfortable for you helps a lot.
2006-11-07 13:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a drive in the car,have a picnic not in england like it's bloody freezing,wear very little,or stockings basque you know the stuff seduce him make him see what he will be losing out on,just act totally diffrent to what you normally do xx
2006-11-07 19:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋